Here to spice it up “

Man in Cardiff, Wales, UK

Joined: 5 months ago
Last on: 10 hours ago

((Safety comes first, always. It’s the foundation upon which everything else is built??))

((I’m someone who’s all about self care physically and mentally. I hit the gym regularly and take pride in being strong, inside and out. I’m here to explore, have fun, and meet new people with an open mind. Life is all about making connections, and I’m looking for someone who shares that mindset. I believe in approaching everything with respect and consent,playful energy is always welcome, but safety and mutual respect come first. Let’s help each other grow and make each other happy ??))

((I’m the type of person who makes others feel comfortable and at ease. No drama, no games just real people looking for genuine connections. If you’re here to be positive and honest, then I’m all in. But if you’re not serious, please don’t start a conversation and disappear later.))

((This part Only for those who are on the same wavelength. I’m the guy who likes ((Controlled Dom into rough play, precision impact, and primal CNC. I’m the guy who pushes boundaries while keeping you safe.

I play hard but smart: SSC/RACK only. Safewords and aftercare are non-negotiable. Looking for those who find pleasure in intensity and are ready to let go of control.)) If you get it, you get it??

These challenges became my reality only when trust was built, when safety and certainty were felt by everyone around me. It’s only then that true transformation happens when we all feel secure, confident, and ready.

So What’s the one thing you’ve been too afraid to ask for? ????

(Something unique about couples)

I truly value and respect couples who prioritize their privacy and intimacy. The Pacific is a place for couples who seek discretion, comfort, safety,and I understand how precious and personal that space is. If you’re a couple willing to connect and share a moment with a single guy, I promise to respect that deeply. I take full responsibility for maintaining the privacy, comfort, and safety of our interactions. It’s a special privilege for me to be part of something so intimate, and I appreciate the trust and openness it takes to reach out. Not everyone is able to approach this with such an open mind, and I hold that in the highest regard.

Message me if you like what you see and I will get back to you ASAP.

Alpha

35 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Webcams

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*abwithyou (39), Couple on 15 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Meeting Alpha again was everything I had hoped for and even more. As soon as I walked into his room, I could feel that spark and the strong attraction between us. Everything just felt so easy and natural. He was kind, respectful, caring, and incredibly attentive, and he made me feel truly desired and appreciated. He's got great stamina and made sure I left feeling completely satisfied. Time flew by far too quickly, and I honestly didn't want it to end. I really hope we don't have to wait too long before we see each other again!

*abwithyou (39), Couple on 21 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
From the moment we met, I felt completely relaxed and comfortable in his company. Handsome, respectful, attentive, and a pleasure to spend time with. Everything felt incredibly natural, as though we'd known each other for much longer than we had. Conversation flowed effortlessly, and there was a natural connection and mutual attraction between us that made our time together especially enjoyable. I am already looking forward to seeing him again. I have a feeling it won't be long.

*ubmissivegirl (27), Woman on 16 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this hunky, sexy man on the 18th of April, and although I was a little nervous as it was my first meet from the website, he instantly made me feel comfortable and relaxed. We had an amazing connection from the start, and the chemistry between us felt completely natural. It didn’t take long for us to get down to business, and he was the perfect dom throughout — confident, attentive, and always making sure I was comfortable and enjoying myself. Overall, it was an amazing first meet and definitely one I’ll remember for a long time