Sensual guy looking for ladies.

Man in Staffordshire, West Midlands, UK

... "The weekend starts here. X". yesterday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: online now!

Thanks for looking at my profile, I'm Jay from Stoke on Trent.

So first of all, yes I'm married to Sweet.Cherry, our couples account is Cherrybakewell and we both do this. We started off like most doing couples swaps...but 4 way attraction and childcare restraints encouraged us into the solo side of things. It just works better.

What am I looking for? Single ladies or the female half of a couple. Amazing chemistry.....a genuine connection and hot sex that can happen on a regular basis. One off meets, I'm not interested....

I guess you could say HotHusband dynamics....I meet solo, nobody watching.

Sexually, I'm a sensual kind of guy.... Not really into the bdsm / pain side of things.....I'd be more worried that I was hurting someone than enjoying it.

Outside of this lifestyle, i have my own engineering business. I have various hobbies such as motorsports, Clay Pigeon Shooting and I'm quite keen on a good walk. Love a good restaurant as well....who doesn't.

I don't like negative bits but lets be clear. I'm not interested in men, tv or ts. I've never met a couple solo and its not something I'd rush into.

With regards to accommodating, I wont have you at my house for the same reason I wont be coming to yours. Its our family safe space. More than happy however to cover hotel costs.

It will always start with a social, I'm strict on that. A nice drink or a meal to see how we get on before anything else happens is always best. I want you to be sure its what you want.....lets not have any regrets.

Anything you want to know? Dm me.

Jay.

Jay

40 years old, Straight

5'6" 168cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 30 to 58
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Oral, Safe Sex, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Toys

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*hoenix13 (40), Woman on 3 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Enjoyed a nice chatty little social, easy to talk to & have a giggle with. Happy Fabbing ??

*aydreamer564 (46), Woman on 24 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
I can confirm this kind, honest gent is 100% real. If you want a respectful approach, to chat and meet this guy is for you! His approach is truly refreshing! Dont let him pass you by.

*ou345 (45), Woman on 9 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Another evening spent with this absolute gent. He's great company and a good friend. I'm looking forward to our next encounter.

*ou345 (45), Woman on 20 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
What can I say apart from he's an absolute pleasure to spend time with. We have met on a few occasions and he has always been a complete gent. One in a million and looking forward to next time.

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