ENM newbie looking to explore

Man in Maidstone, South East, UK

Joined: 9 months ago
Last on: 2 months ago

Live Maidstone

Work London

6'2, Blue Eyes

ENM with my partner. Looking to explore separately (for now).

• Full on geek

• Gamer of all varieties (DnD included)

• Fantasy/sci-fi nerd

• Dipping my feet into crime series

• Neurodivergent

• Musical - ask me about my Kinky Christmas Parodies

I am a sub-leaning switch, I Dom my partner but they are the only person I engage in this play with. I am here to find quality connections with people that I can explore my submissive side further with. Elements of submission which I enjoy include, but are not limited to:

• Impact Play

• Bondage

• Mild Degradation

• Face Sitting

• Pegging

• Pain

• Tease and Denial

Bi-curious and up for discussing this...

In addition to kink connections I'm also looking to expand on my growing community of like-minded people, and make friends with people of similar interests

I don't have face photos due to the nature of my job, but I am happy to verify upon matching

I'm not looking for a ONS. Connection is important.

I'm on FL if you want to see more.

Trans lives matter, love is love. Terfs, racists, homophobes, etc... can move on, hopefully the door hits you on the way out.

Tom

34 years old, Bi-curious

6'2" 188cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 60 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, SM, Spanking, Threesomes, Toys, Watersports

Verified Genuine Profile

*igeonqueen (30), Woman on 26 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Absolutely fantastic guy, charming, funny, super easy to get along with. A genuine and kind person who will treat you right. I have attended multiple kink events with him as well as vanilla meet ups, I highly reccomend meeting up with him.

Friends

J (55), Woman
M (30), Woman
C (40), Woman