Single guy dipping a toe in . . . . . so to speak!

Man in Melrose, Scotland, UK

Joined: 5 months ago
Last on: 5 hours ago

Right, time for a re-jig on here I think!

Been back on here a wee while now and I think time to perhaps update why I'm here and what I'm looking for?

I have messaged a fair few people and have had some lovely replies from some other genuine polite fun loving folk,

So that's a big thank you from me!

I realise now how much mail you ladies and couples get so a reply under those circumstances is really appreciated!

(I always understand if my message has been read then deleted, thank you for taking the time, and I know then not to bother you again!

I am single, genuine (I think as defined by posting facial etc pics?)and looking to meet a lady for straightforward fun times and hopefully lots of laughs and mutually enjoyable pleasure together,and not just in the bedroom,(though that IS why we're all on here, no?)

Aside from just the obvious I love music,cooking,eating out,walking,cycling, going to the cinema and gigs.

But,I think most of these things ARE better shared, so looking for someone to emjoy them with.

(And yes sex, definitely better shared too, lol)

I'm not looking for a meaningless hook up, been there done that, many moons ago.

No would prefer something social first to see if there's a mutual attraction,of interests and perhaps of "appetites",and then see how things develop?

I've found the physical side of things to be so much better and intense if there's a connection, though after last ltr I'm not sure about a relationship as such, but I am open minded?

Happy to send more pics and or chat on the phone. I didn't feel the need to post a dick pic as I'm sure you ladies have been bombarded with them already of all shapes and sizes, lol!

(I'm happy with what I have, know how to use it to give pleasure(a real turn on) and hope you will be too.)

I'm very open minded, not easily shocked and believe in being honest polite and well mannered.

I think I'm presentable and can be trusted to have a decent catch up over a coffee or something stronger out and about chatting about anything at all,(again,not just the obvious lol), with a friendly no harm done parting of the ways if there's not that mutual spark or attraction.

I'm not into into power trips bullshit or histrionics, and neither looking to waste anyones time or my own,life is just way too short, lol!

As I (repeatedly seem to, lol) say, I'm a genuine decent respectful guy so I'll keep my fingers crossed I might hear from someone soon.

Take care all, and stay safe.

55 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 40 to 55
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Safe Sex, Oral, Making Videos, Blindfolds, Adult Parties

Friends

married (45) & fwb (43), Couple