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... "Fabulous night out. Unexpectedly bumped into some friends.". 8 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 hours ago


I’m a smartly dressed, sweet smelling guy. I love meeting new people to enjoy time with, in and out of the bedroom. Fab friends to share good conversation and fun.

I am non pushy. I won’t play the “pick me game”. I am always happy to chat over coffee and cake or something a little bit stronger. I very rarely talk about sex unless of course you want to. That doesn’t mean I don’t have a naughty side. I do.

If you'd like to go a bit further, I enjoy clubs, parties and private meets with women and couples. I'm most definitely single and I can accommodate. Your discretion is always assured.

I like repeat meets as I like to get to know people and find that what follows, is always better for this.

I’m also looking for a FWB. Someone to spend time with in and out of the bedroom. There’s far more to life than sex.

I have an interest in Tantric Massage. I’ve attended Tantric Massage workshops and courses. I enjoy massaging single ladies or ladies in couples while their man watches on. Ladies who enjoy being pampered and want to be totally relaxed for over an hour, this is for you. I have a massage table, towels, warm oils and relaxing music.

If you like what you’ve read so far, please take a look at my veris and message me.

Jay x.

Jay

53 years old, Straight

5'10"  178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 35 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Adult Parties

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Verified Genuine Profile

*AYEN (54), Couple on 12 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting GJ, and it was an enjoyable and memorable experience. GJ was incredibly friendly and easy to talk to, creating a relaxed atmosphere right from the start. Our conversations flowed effortlessly, as GJ is not only interesting but also genuinely interested in what others have to say. Overall, it was a great time spent with someone who knows how to keep things chatty, fun, and engaging. Hopefully, we'll be meeting up again in the near future.

*ust Fab (55), Couple on 26 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of catching up with Jay for some naughty mid week fun. As always a perfect gentleman and superb host who always makes you feel safe relaxed and comfortable. We look on him now not just a fab play mate but as a friend who’s company we enjoy as much as the very naughty play and fun we have. Hope to catch up soon for the club visits we discussed xx

* and J in N Yorks (55), Couple on 7 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
What an amazing night, Jay makes you feel so welcome and a great catch up. Then, candels, music and a very erotic massage for the lady which she says was the most erotic massage she has ever had. All 3 of us finished off in bed for a very sexy finale. If your a sexy couple he will put you at ease and take you to somewhere you've never been before for sure. xx

*ackJill69 (55), Couple on 26 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Always great to meet up with Jay, which we have done on several occasions. Good conversation, fantastic massage and naughtiness… highly recommended! x

*anillaalternativeclub (43), Couple (FF) on 14 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
It was a pleasure to see Gentleman Jay arrive at our Shush party on Saturday with a friend. He’s a fun, respectful guy and an asset to any party, he is always welcome to our events, It’s been way too long since we last saw him … please come back soon! Team VA

*f.I.Like.It.I.Do.It (48), Couple on 16 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Spontaneous meet with J last night in Leeds, so glad we invited him. Lovely intelligent guy, easy going and good fun. Hope I get to experience those massage skills in the future

*hare the joy (60), Couple on 16 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
So glad this lovely man could join us for our party. Having met him a number of times in various settings we knew he would be a great addition to our guest list. J knows how to work a bedroom full of horny people whilst remaining a gentleman at all times. Always great company. Look forward to meeting up again soon.

*aisy.Daisy (50), Woman on 13 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
I stumbled across Jay's profile when looking on the forums for tantric massage recommendations. After a couple of months of messaging and a couple of phone calls we had a very random meet which could have gone horribly wrong but thankfully it didn't and we had lots of fun. Jay is the perfect gentleman, such fun to be around and even though there are a lot of miles between us we have had a few naughty and nice weekends together. I'm looking forward to more naughty and nice adventures with hopefully lots of fun, frolics and shenanigans. I'm hoping I may even get to experience one of his amazing massages at some stage too!

*heLeadbetters (66), Couple on 13 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
After meeting Jay at the Manchester Lounge Social we're more than happy to verify him as genuine. Really easy to talk to and as the name suggests, a gentleman.

*easetastic69 (53), Woman on 19 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met this lovely human being with my hubby and he truly is a gentleman! Jay has fantastic hands and he knows exactly what to do with them... Jay is very easy to talk to and the talk soon turned into an amazing sensual massage with a very happy ending indeed! I have to say I never met anybody so well prepared to make a woman feel relaxed and happy. I am so glad I met up with Jay xxx

*erkscouple2018 (53), Couple on 17 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
This gentleman is the real deal. He is professional in a very sexy way. The massage was sensual and exhilarating, I was always made to feel comfortable and confident to stop whenever I decided. Needless to say I didn’t stay stop and had the full gentleman Jay experience. If you want to be spoilt, pampered and relaxed then this is the man for you. The added extras were the cherry on top.

*appyHorny200 (59), Couple on 13 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent on Thursday for a social to start. Lovely guy and the conversation flowed. Then we went to his lovely house for my promised massage. Wow!! This guy knows how to use his hands. Among other things as I found out as the night progressed. Hope to see him again for a repeat performance. :)

*otfunduo (47), Couple on 21 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
We visited Jay at his lovely home to experience his tantric massage skills. Jay is such a lovely intelligent and respectful man with good conversation and amazing massage skills. We would highly recommend him and hope to visit again xxx

*eadyandcurious (48), Couple on 15 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met Jay again at the weekend. Our 4th meet with intimate fun. This probably tells you everything you need to know to be fair. We've met this charming, handsome, whitty, intelligent man more than once because he's worth it x he's happy to go at your pace and is never pushy x can't wait for our next meet with naughtiness x genuine and reliable. He's fab (pardon the pun). Ps if offers a massage say yes, they're fabulous x

*ottsKinkyCouple (45), Couple on 28 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had an incredibly naughty afternoon and evening spent with Jay. Both Dave & I always enjoy our meets with him. If you have the pleasure of his company & hospitality you certainly won’t be disappointed. Look forward to meeting again soon.xx

*tagVixenCoupleXXX (54), Couple on 30 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely meet with Jay, lives up to his gentleman profile, from the moment I met him we were relaxed, Elle had a lovely massage followed by a sensual yoni massage before things got heated, definitely a man to meet, thanks Jay xx

*ojo8882000 (46), Woman on 3 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
My second time meeting J. What a lovely genuine handsome guy . I wanted another delicious massage and he willingly obliged. This time a little less vanilla. His words .. it was perfection . He has amazing skills and made me feel fantastic. He really knows how to treat a woman.. thank you so much j. I am already looking forward to my next visit.

*illibeth (54), Woman on 24 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
I visited Jay on Saturday evening after a few months of occasional chatting and I had a delightful evening. Jay was a wonderful host and his soft, seductive touch divine. Thank you for a lovely evening.

*ensualjoy (60), Couple on 16 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
My husband and I visited Jay at his lovely home a few months ago (when we were on here as a couple). Jay is such a lovely man with good conversation and amazing massage skills. I would highly recommend him. He is one of the good guys on this site

*uzySuzy (57), Couple on 11 July 2022 by Meeting in person:
Hooked up with Jay a few months ago after finding out he had a genuine interest in sensual massage......a hotel meet with all the nice / naughty extras ..a v pleasurable evening all round ..hubby loved the view lol.....Suzy X

*uzySuzy (57), Couple on 18 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
After chatting with this cheeky chap over lockdowns eventually I had the opportunity to hook up with him for drinks & an invite back to his very nice hotel room for a sensual massage experience.Jay is a gentleman and sure knows his way round a woman.My hubby really enjoyed the view of me and Jay but couldn't resist joining the fun late on leaving me all hot n sticky just the way I like. We will definitely stay in touch..Suzy XX

*uncan534 (65), Couple on 31 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
Jay is such a nice guy and fun to be with. Not just on the sex side of things but socially too. He gives amazing massages and is great company. We have dated him quite a few times and can’t wait for the next time. If you want a real treat, don’t hesitate.

*ibertinecouple22 (59), Couple on 5 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met Jay at our hotel, after drinks, back to candlelit room where we all got naked and he gave J a wonderful, sensual massage..We both found it incredibly erotic and very arousing, the perfect start to a very horny evening of shared fun.

*ewCoupleHX (42), Couple on 22 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
We have known Gentleman Jay for a while, he is by far the nicest guy around, handsome, polite, respectful, flirty but not creepy and good company all around. Oh and he has some good erotic massage skills too, no wonder he gets all the ladies competing for his attention in social gatherings.

*exy Asian and partner (49), Couple on 8 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet gentleman jay after speaking for quite a while, things got put on hold for a good few months, but it was well worth the wait, a lovely guy, and very easy to get on with, respected the effort he made to come and see us, he travelled quite a distance, Sexy Asian had a mind blowing massage and the erotic fun just continued, Great to meet him and definitely he is on out friends list. Thanks again. See u soon, X

*iking Softies (62), Couple on 27 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another fabulous massage meeting with GJ. Great conversation, followed by a really erotic massage that provided L with far more orgasms than any of us count. L then aided GJ and I to our own orgasms which were very happily received. great erotic event, topped off with some great food and it was a wonderful evening. Looking for to the next meeting already.

*rincess fukaharda (53), Couple on 20 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Brilliant host, lovely home , professional and personable throughout , very relaxing enjoyable experience from start to finish ..xxx

*ple4funtimes (59), Couple on 5 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to meet and what can we say the wait was worthwhile. The conversation flowed, then we got down to a erotic massage which Jay is very good at. Which then led to us all having horny fun in his massage table. True definitely don’t miss out on this experience if you get the chance

*affron40 (49), Woman on 23 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met one of the loveliest humans tonight for a year late drink after my path happened to cross his cycling path. There was no Lycra but the full length pants didn’t fit into his bag. There were single bed horror stories and rave reviews of local fish and chips. (He was definately robbed) and every person he knows seems to be called Janice. All in all a hilarious few hours and I highly recommend you message him if you live somewhere scenic. What a bloody lovely guy!! :)

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