Genuine submissive

Woman in Greater London, Greater London, UK

Joined: 2 months ago
Last on: 16 hours ago

I was previously in a D/S ownership dymanic with my former Master for nearly 4 years, during which time I served as his sub / vixen. I'm ready to move on and in time, following appropriate vetting, I'd like to be claimed again.

My preference is for Doms who own a suit and have their lives together. It’s a sub thing; I'm drawn to men who dress well and demonstrate competence, control, confidence and financial / career security within their own lives, as I want to be held to equally high standards.

My BDSM test results:

94% Submissive

82% Rope bunny

79% Brat

70% Masochist

55% Experimentalist

46% Vanilla

45% Non-monogamist

39% Voyeur

37% Exhibitionist

34% Primal (Prey)

27% Degradee

Some helpful hints / learnings from my time on fab:

1. Not all subs are into degradation and many of those who are find it inappropriate in an initial message, please ask before you call someone a slut, whore etc.

2. Google is your friend, read up on lifestyle best practice (e.g. BDSM pillars) and understand the difference between being dominant in the bedroom and enjoying D/S dynamics. Long term I'm better suited to a 24/7 dynamic.

3. Thank you to everyone who has sent face pics, but as a general rule photos should be recent, sending something from 2019 isn't helpful. Out of fairness all my pictures will be recent as of the time posted / shared. Additionally, I get a lot of messages so if you remove photos I then won't remember who I'm talking to.

4. I'm a busy girl so I'm not out every weekend and my diary won't allow for same day or short notice meetings.

5. Security note: as a single woman I won't meet people I haven't built a connection with on here first, there needs to be trust and a good vibe for both parties. If your initial message is asking for a meeting, you will be blocked / deleted.

6. Thank you for sending Winks but I simply don't have time to go through them, messages will be prioritised and I try to go through messages in the order that they were received.

7. I don't do drugs and I won't be around anyone who does. If that's your thing, please don't contact me.

8. I don't have and don't want to get Telegram, it's hard enough keeping up on here, I don't want to divide my attention across multiple platforms.

9. I view this lifestyle as a journey and we all have to start somewhere. I personally need an experienced handler with a firm grip, so if you don't have much experience with subs I'm probably not going to be right for you, but I wish you lots of fun and learning on your journey.

10. I test regularly, so should you. I always play with protection (hard limit). I'd only be open to unprotected play within a long-term and committed dynamic.

11. I'm not here for money, whilst I appreciate some people enjoy having a financial aspect to a dynamic (totally fine, you do you), I have a decent job and don't need your money. I also feel uncomfortable accepting substantial gifts, for context that means anything more than a bottle of purfume. Gifts aren't something I expect or require, especially from someone I hardly know.

12. I don't play in cars / public, it's an unnecessary risk that I can't afford to take with my job.

13. I'm not bi, if your wife / gf finds me attractive then I'll take that as a compliment, but I'm just not interested in playing with women.

14. Fun historical fact: Les Earnest invented the first spell checker at MIT in 1961 and the technology has continued to evolve and improve ever since. Please use it! I'm more likely to respond if you have a well written profile / message. However, if messages are obviously AI generated, then I will ignore them. I want to get to know the real you.

15. I know not all marriages have a happy ending, but if you're not separated and you're just looking to play behind the wife's back, please look elsewhere. I don't want to be a secret, occasional ornament or part-time play thing, I need more than that.

Grace

40 years old, Straight

5'4" 163cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 35 to 55 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Toys, Swingers Clubs, SM, Safe Sex, Oral, Group Sex, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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