Experienced Hedonist Male

Man in Bournemouth/newquay, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 12 minutes ago

I’m an experienced, well traveled, athletic, hedonist male, who’s down to earth and easy to speak with. Mostly looking for hotwifes, couples or groups/parties to join. In an open relationship.

I’m based in Bournemouth and can’t accommodate due to family, but often down in Cornwall where I often can at my holiday let and occasionally in London midweek for work.

Recently I relocated back to UK after many great years in HK. There I got introduced to group play, parties, swinger events etc and never looked back. Love the feeling of everyone’s egos being left at the door and just having a good time.

Ultimately I get turned on by pleasing others and making sure everyone’s having a good time. I’m switch and happy to take the role which the other desires. Although, like most other red blooded humans, I’m a HUGE admirer of lingerie and other dress up.

Open to most things and comfortable in any scenario.

I’m a social and sporty guy, so my free time is sometimes limited. Definitely seeking quality experiences over quantity.

Ben

38 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes

Verified Genuine Profile

*ye wide open (40), Couple on 18 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
After lots of messaging and flirty build up we were hosted by this gem of a guy. He was so easy to talk to, really interesting, super relaxed and very handsome. When the fun began, he was oh so sexy , great body and knew exactly how to turn Wifey on making her extremely satisfied and loves to please which in turn made for a very pleasurable and sexy threesome. We would love to meet again for round 2, thank you B for a hot evening! x

*otwife1993 (32), Couple on 12 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting B recently, and he did not disappoint! He was everything we were looking for, confident, handsome, great communication, super respectful and things got even better when we started to play! Looking forward to meeting again for round 2 ;) x

*lla xxx (50), Woman on 18 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met this hottie a while ago. Ben is not only hot as fuck he’s lush too. When he walked into the hotel room my excitement levels when through the roof. Loved every second spent with this sexy man and here’s hoping we get to repeat it again soon. Ella xxx

*outhcoasthotwifecpl (43), Couple on 22 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Was lovely meeting last night for a midweek drink and was super easy to get on with. Wearing a lingerie bodysuit under my see through top helped with the flirting, and teasing what we hope is even more exposed at our next meet - PVC and boots at the ready. True gentleman, lovely on the eye, lovely smile and the three of us had a great laugh. Looking forward to round two. Xx

*ust for fun bmth (49), Couple on 9 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great meet. Good communication. Real. Genuinely a great guy. Good body with a sense of humour to match. This one can fuck, hard….. Lots of laughter along the way. If you are lucky enough to be invited for one on one time, grab it. Thank you!

*carlet Vixen (55), Couple on 3 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this super gorgeous guy at the red hot party at utopia,his eye contact from across the room drew us in, he's handsome charming interesting and has great chat. We found a nice quiet space where the night got even hotter!! He's most definitely the full package,would love to explore more sexy fun with him x

*oxy and dean (38), Couple on 1 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at a party last night. Great conversation, nice looking, later we all went back to the hotel for sexy group sex fun.

*harings_caring84 (41), Couple on 8 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
We were lucky enough to spend an evening with the very handsome B at a private party. He was 1 of many gorgeous guests and I was very happy that I (M) got to spend time playing with him ;-) he's good looking, intelligent and we equally enjoyed spending time chatting, chilling, and partying. We hope to see you at another event xx

*oprocks.SW (40), Couple on 7 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met Ben at a private party a couple of nights ago, which was full of gorgeous, friendly people - and he was no exception! We didn't get to play this time, other than L stripping him down in the kitchen at the start of the night, but hoping for other opportunities in the future... x

*uietDesire (38), Couple on 23 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at his beautiful place, he is a kind, caring, lovely guy. We had a great evening , a few drinks, led to bedroom fun. Some chill time followed in the hot tub in the amazing surroundings, then back in for even more fun!!!!! Don't miss out on visiting B. He is a top guy, loves to pleasure. Respectful, fun and easy going. See you at the next party ! XxX

*hinaDoll_Couple (35), Couple on 7 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of this guys attending a small hotel party with us and another couple. Ladies /couples if you’re looking for a guy that is friendly and fun with good stamina & a nice size package this is the guy to meet. Definitely more meets in the cards

*14nicky (51), Couple on 14 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Really lovely genuine guy look forward to seeing you again had a great night xx Nicky

*ornwall-Couple (42), Couple on 5 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Ben again for a really enjoyable 3sum. Really nice guy to chat to and really fitted in well with us in the bedroom. We hope to meet again when he’s next visiting.

*ornishVixen (40), Woman on 1 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
I had the absolute pleasure of meeting this gorgeous man while he was down visiting. Actually lost for words just wow he’s the full package not many to his standard on fab, passionate naughty and definitely knows how to please a woman. Will definitely be up for meeting again x

*ornwall-Couple (42), Couple on 31 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Ben came to ours for some fun a few weeks ago. Lovely guy. True gentleman and knew his way around a woman’s body. Hosting him again soon. Worth a meet x

*ithin-Temptation (37), Woman on 30 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely, polite gentleman at the 'social @ UN' last night. Spent some time in the hot tub chatting. He is well travelled and experienced from what he told me. He is very good looking, respectful and can hold a conversation. Can't wait to see him again at future UN events.

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