In The Shadows

Man in Keighley, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 hours ago

“Our shadows dancing in the light . . . Slowly fading out of site . . . Forever gone, what now is done . . . Shadows never see the sun!”

Hello and thank you for taking the time to look at my profile, as you may be able to tell already, I am not very good at talking about myself, but please read on and hopefully things may become a little more clear.

About Me

I am slowly coming out of my shell a little on here, but talking about me is still my worst nightmare, but in the interests of first impressions I'll keep this lighthearted.

I have flitted between the vanilla and kink world for most of my life, as yet never finding where I truly belong. Suffice to say, in my own heart I know I need many different things that the vanilla world can rarely offer, such as a trust, honesty, compassion and to not be judged on who I am.

Vanilla Me

Vanilla me is still that awkward, shy, socially anxious man who works in an office but no one truly knows. I have found the vanilla world cold and shut off, as I feel I do not fit in there. I try to, I can act very well, however inevitably the cracks will show and people judge rather than try to understand.

KInk Me

Kink me can be described as night and day flit between the realms of sensual dominance and sadism. The best way to understand me is through my writing, see below.

Why Am I Here

I suppose, I'm here to be me, to lay out all the twisted parts of me I thought no one would ever understand.

Writing

I you have the time, take a look at my writing. I don't profess to be the next Shakespeare or anything, but when I write i tend to write from my heart, my inner self speaks rather the rational, vanilla world-facing part of me that hides away who I truly am. So please take a look, my ramblings are just that, me rambling about things I see and hear, my stories, on the other hand tend to portray my darker side, the side of me I denied for many years, but a side of me I have recently learnt to love.

Anyway, I have probably waffled on too long now and will no doubt spend the next year in the shadows feel unworthy, but who knows things may change for me.

This is my big step to finally becoming who I really am.

Please bear with me.

Mark

50 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, DP, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Toys, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*ewstart25! (51), Woman on 17 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
What can I say, I keep going back for more.... Genuine gentleman, with a naughty side, made to feel like a queen xxx

*sTryItNotShy (56), Woman on 19 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lots of flirty texting led to an impromptu meeting which really didn’t disappoint - what a lovely and thorough man he is! No regrets here!!

Friends

MsT (56), Woman
L (40), Woman
T (52), Woman
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