Gentleman and bastard for clubs and parties

Man in Reading, But Travels, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

Update.

Looking for playmates for solo and also to join me and a submissive friend for specific kinky scenarios. I thought my profile needed to be a bit more light hearted, yet direct for this site, so here goes.

I've been a Dominant sex addict for as long as I can remember. I didn't know what a Dom was until the internet told me via a dial up modem, and then it literally clicked.

For me, firstly, sex has to be fun and not vanilla. I'd rather go dormant than have 'normal sex'. I'm on a few sites, but this is by far the one with the most users, so it's worth persevering with, despite the halfwits and fakers. I've met some great people from here, but sadly waste far too much time talking to time-wasters and loons.

This is why I will always ask a couple to send a specific 'non face' photo to prove they are the female (blokes, what do you get from pretending you're a couple?)

Anyway, I did say I'd make this lighthearted.

Sex for me has to 1) be fun and 2) be out of the'ordinary'. Yes I'm a Dom, but I'm not all about spanking and control. I love enabling others' kinks and seeing them open up. Try me, I've done some incredible things over the years.

I love parties, clubs, multiple, setting up scenario, and I host in hotels as well as travel. If it's not illegal, I'm game. I dare you, try me ;-)

Oh, and one more thing, if you're going to vote for Reform, we definitively won't get on.

Hello,

About Me: I'm a dominant, single male 57yo, well built, dad bod, but gym fit, with a girthy member, and I'm very assertive.

I am honest and trustworthy and I build up friendships with the submissives I play with. That is unless she's after a one off fantasy, of which I'm more that happy to help with.

I'm very experienced with Cuck couples and love the myriad of scenarios that can come out of it.

Kik Berkshire_boss

Dominant Bastard

58 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 35 to 58
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Watersports, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Cross-dressing, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*mmoralLady (52), Woman on 9 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Sometimes, in life, something quite perfect can find its way to you. This exquisite Dom has reignited my passion for all things kink. Highly experienced and versatile in his craft, he comes equipped with all the tools to keep a submissive lady on her toes. Both physically and mentally. He considers, he listens, he applies, he delivers. I'm taken to the edge and back, with multiple waves of pain and pleasure expertly and carefully managed. The ride he takes me on is out of this world and I simply cannot get enough. And I know we've only just skimmed the surface of his dark and beautiful mind. More please Sir.

*rincessHx (36), Woman on 12 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
I wanted to conclude the story for anyone reading Sir’s veri’s. In total I met this wonderful dominant 5 times (3 x social, 2 x play). He will forever be ‘the one who got away’. In the end, he decided for me, for us, that the fit just wasn’t quite right - and it has to be right for high octane contractual TPE D/s. But anyway, this wasn’t before he left a deeply lasting impression. I revere him, and would do anything for him at this point. He knows this, yet exercises the most strict self-control and won’t indulge my bratty little nonsense despite our chemistry being so electric. Anyway, moving on. If YOU’RE a submissive, and you want a dominant. A Sir. And this.. intelligent, detail oriented, caring and kinky man puts a contract in front of you: SIGN IT! Don’t hesitate like I did. You’ll regret it forever. He’s unique. There isn’t another like him on Fabs and I’ve met and talked to a boat-load of ‘doms’. We still talk regularly and I feel we’re still going to have a great friendship, maybe even one that involves him giving me guidance with others and taking me dogging (among other things discussed). But, I can confirm with sadness, he’s back on the market for a very lucky submissive somewhere. Thank you, Sir. For everything x

*rincessHx (36), Woman on 20 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this cool, calm and collected (but subtly dominant) Sir for a coffee to discuss a potential dynamic arrangement. I was incredibly nervous but he put my mind at ease both before and during our social. He allowed me to interview him and ask questions. He passes my vetting (based on r/SubSanctuary guidelines) so I would/will see again. He’d brought along a detailed contract and limits grid for me to review and take away. Honestly, I’ve never met someone who knows what they’re doing in terms of establishing a dynamic, with such competency and attention to detail. I walked him back to his van and he kissed me with passion and tenderness :’) Also, he promised to throw me in the back of said van at some point. Hehe love it :) Stay tuned to see where the story goes… maybe I’ll be leaving another veri soon. Also (yeah, I’ll finish this eventually), for his age (haha) he really looks after himself and is even more handsome in person than the photos x

*inkandclasscj (46), Couple on 15 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Exciting, sexy, erotic are the words I would use to describe this meet! He is a gentleman that knows how to dominate a woman and make the bdsm experience even more exiting. Perfect first meet x .. hopefully I will get cuffed again x

*dam and slut (66), Couple on 10 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
I knew fairly quickly I had found a man skilled in bdsm and made a snap decision to have my slave task for him. I took her to him, gave him my rules, the scenario, mentioned what she needs and like a true gentleman he is, he gave her it. Like the the genuine person he is, he respected all protocols, boundaries, limits and experienced enough to push boundaries..which is exactly what I wanted. When I returned to pick her up, exactly on the agreed hour..I was met by a truly satisfied slut, who had that sub spaced dreamy look on her face..Thank you Sir.. I look forward to sharing her with you again.

*ollinger (54), Woman on 17 July 2017 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for showing me a world I didn't think exisited. xxx

*elrose57 (64), Couple on 5 July 2017 by Meeting in person:
A very laid back and easy to get on with guy, who makes you feel at ease with what it is you want, can recommend and prompt you to go for it, you wont be disappointed

*obby248 (53), Man on 17 February 2017 by Meeting in person:
I had the pleasure of spending the evening with intelligent bull and his female friend. Both genuinely very nice people. Very easy to get along with and welcoming. Lots of fun was had :-) Hope to see you both again soon.

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