Confident and kind, domme who listens, married playing solo

Man in Dc, District of Columbia, USA

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 6 months ago

Latest kink update: Experiences in the past few years have made it clear that I have a real predilection for the DS of BDSM that I'm having a ball exploring, but vanilla is fine too (vanilla a rare and precious and valuable and specific flavor all its own!) I’m also fascinated by the idea of being a bull, either for a cuck or hot wifing situation.

Latest relationship update: I'm married to my favorite person ever. We met at an enm/kink happy hour. She was there for kink, I was there for enm, but she teaches me more about the joys of dommeville every day. She's truly monogamous, I'm truly not. We eventually decided we were important enough to each other to work it out; that's an ongoing process. I'm happy to discuss if anyone has questions, and if anyone has useful tips/advice/empathy to share, I'd be grateful as fuck.

A while back I discovered Sex at Dawn, which confirmed, with boatloads of science, all the things I'd been moving towards (slowly) for years. I think, in the end, what I am is a romantic who's a bit poly and definitely on the domme-side, with a high sex drive and an open mind.

On the whole I've found it a gigantic relief to be myself about sex, and I'm open-minded enough not to shrink from other people who let me be that way, even if at first glance I'm not into what they're into per se. Like I said, I'm open-minded, and I've got some boundaries (no blood play or thank you) but I'm willing to give most things a go and try to find the enjoyment in them.

Mostly, what I'm looking for is an arena to express myself, my body and my views honestly, in a way I can't do in most of our fucked up, repressed, antiquated sexual society. Anyone who wants to help me do that will be improving my life, and I'll be grateful.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Non-monogamist

89% Voyeur

87% Dominant

68% Daddy/Mommy

62% Primal (Hunter)

62% Vanilla

60% Degrader

58% Experimentalist

55% Master/Mistress

51% Rigger

49% Brat tamer

48% Exhibitionist

46% Ageplayer

41% Owner

40% Sadist

34% Rope bunny

34% Submissive

25% Switch

10% Brat

8% Primal (Prey)

1% Boy/Girl

1% Pet

0% Degradee

0% Masochist

39 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 40
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, Cybersex, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties