Newly single, looking for party invites, new lady friends, couples aft

Man in Portsmouth, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

About me, I am a straight, polyamourous male. I've been swinging for quite sometime as a single male, and more recently, as a couple, though sadly I am back to being single.

I've also been introduced into the wonderful world of bdsm, Kink. I've been in the scene about 15 years now, constantly growing, learning, and enjoying. It's not my 24/7 life, but if that's your thing, I am definitely into it.

My life outside of fab is very vanilla. I like rugby, dnd, lord of the rings, my ps5, walkin dead. Im a bit of a geek, a druid, and pagan. I enjoy most forms of sex, I mean, who doesn't?

One-offs are fine, but I would rather find a regular partner or partners.

I'm also looking to make friends, join groups. I especially would like to start going to house parties, but for a single male, its near inpossible without help, so, pmsl, HELP!!!! I do enjoy the social side as well as sexual side of this site.

I am happy to go slow, chat, get to know people, have a social or 2 first. In fact, I enjoy that sort of build up, the chatting, sexting, etc. There are a few stories in the forums I've written, about a few meets I've had, or fantasies I've got. Take a look. See if you can work out what's real and what's fantasy.

If you've read this far, still here, and happy to chat, message me, come and say hi.

Fully inoculated and regularly std tested. Also had a vasectomy, I mean, who wants more gingers in the world, right? Lol.

== Results from [hidden] ==

100% Dominant

100% Master/Mistress

100% Voyeur

100% Exhibitionist

98% Rigger

87% Owner

83% Sadist

81% Brat tamer

80% Daddy/Mommy

79% Degrader

77% Non-monogamist

74% Experimentalist

69% Primal (Hunter)

54% Vanilla

15% Ageplayer

0% Switch

I am not into punishment to change a sub’s behaviour. I am into funishment for My own enjoyment

Much love and blessings. Xxx

Harvey

55 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Webcams, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Phone Sex, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, DP, Dogging, Cybersex, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Adult Parties

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*legance Socials (37), Woman on 13 August 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was genuinely lovely having this gent join me at the Elegance Summer Social. I was completely blown away by the support for the night, and it was great seeing you chatting, mingling, laughing and getting involved with everyone. You brought brilliant banter, a cheeky personality and, most importantly, were friendly and respectful throughout the night. What I love about these socials is seeing people relax, feel confident and just be themselves, and you fitted into the Elegance crowd perfectly. Plenty of laughs, cheeky smiles and good vibes — exactly what I want Elegance to be about. Thank you personally for supporting what I'm building with Elegance. It's amazing people like you who walk through my door that make these nights what they are, and I genuinely appreciate your support. You're welcome to attend anytime, and it'll be a pleasure to have you back. Roll on the September social so we can do it all over again more laughter, dancing, flirting, cheeky banter and memories to be made! Ellie xx

*legance Socials (37), Woman on 16 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of welcoming this great guy to our very first Elegance Portsmouth Social… and he was an absolute credit to the evening ?? Friendly, easy to chat to, and most importantly respectful throughout, he brought a relaxed and genuine vibe that fit perfectly with what our socials are all about ?? It’s always appreciated when someone understands the importance of good energy, boundaries, and making others feel comfortable — and he did exactly that. Thank you so much for supporting our new venture, it really does mean a lot to us. We’re so glad you joined us and we look forward to seeing you again at future events… plenty more good nights ahead ?? Ellie & Gent xx ??

*atapusslife (39), Couple on 11 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
This man is the most sexually naughty person I've ever met. Well spoken. Talkative and always smells and dresses very nice. God I'd love to fuck him

*sletwo (54), Couple on 10 October 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met this couple at liberations. Easy to talk too nice genuine couple. Never played but they looked like they were having fun ; )