Experienced Dom | Discreet Gent | Looking for connections & advent

Man in London, Greater London, UK

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

“I’ve been part of the kink world for 25 years—yes, I started young; yes, there’s a story; yes, you can absolutely ask me over a drink some time.”

I’m a thoughtful, experienced Dom who’s always been fascinated by the psychology and the relationship behind power exchange. Technique matters, sure, but the real spark is in the trust, the communication, and the delicious tension that builds when two (or more) people understand each other’s minds.

About seven years ago I was approached by a couple who wanted a “dominant bull,” and to my surprise, I immediately clicked with that dynamic. Since then, I’ve had some incredibly rewarding connections with couples, ones built on honesty, humour, and a shared appetite for exploration. I’d love to find a couple again for something ongoing, steady, and genuinely enjoyable for all involved. I’m also very happy to blend BDSM with cuckold-type dynamics when it feels right.

I’m equally open to meeting submissive women who resonate with my energy - curious, self-aware, playful, and looking to explore with someone who actually listens, leads with intention, and respects boundaries as much as he enjoys pushing them.

I’m not here to rush or collect encounters. I’m a believer in chemistry, conversation, and taking time to see who we really are together. I’m always happy to verify, meet for a social first, and move at a pace that feels comfortable.

If you’re confident, curious, and enjoy a mix of intelligence, humour, and a well-tested dominant streak - let’s start with a message and see where life takes us.

If you're a couple who can't verify female half then please don't waste my time.

Tony

43 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Spanking, SM, Safe Sex, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, DP, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal

Friends