Chilled and relaxed

Man in Lincolnshire, East Midlands, UK

Joined: 11 months ago
Last on: 6 hours ago

*No interest in men*

They used to make us make Pineapple Upside Down cake at school. It was written early on in my life that I would find the LS!

Witty cheeky chappie, the joker at work. I don’t take myself too seriously and can laugh at myself as I am very comfortable in who I am.

Into quality not quantity (so yes that does include you). I don’t have a type, if I want to snog your face off your body size and shape really doesn’t matter to me.

I'm polite, friendly, respectful, intelligent and discreet, sounds too good to be true doesn't it!

Happily divorced, I don't want to go on ‘normal’ dating websites, have my wicked way and break hearts, that is why I'm on here, for FWB NSA fun and to connect with wonderful people in the lifestyle.

I'm happy to meet up at local club if you feel safer that way, The Mirage in Lincoln is my local.

Cleanly shaven down below

Practice safe sex.

Invites to parties are welcome.

Happy to go halves on hotel.

47 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, Anal, Adult Parties

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*aandLo (51), Couple on 5 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gent at Chunkies. He's polite, funny, and made our first visit to the club a lot of fun. And he's really rather cute. We enjoyed chilling in the pool together and all enjoyed a go on the slide. ;-)

*aisy88 (37), Woman on 23 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met at chunky and a lovely bloke and a gentleman, respectable and wonderful to talk to. Hope yo see you soon xx

*icolePierre (49), Couple on 6 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Have met this chap at a previous event socially and caught up again this evening at the Sleaford Social even though it was a chilly evening he had brought his slippers to keep warm….. that’s a different conversation ???? See you again soon x

*asingin (55), Couple on 19 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met last night for a hotel meeting after a couple of socials. Easy-going, good conversation and we all felt very relaxed in the bar. Up in the room we enjoyed a relaxed, sensual session. A good time was had by all! Very genuine, reliable guy to meet!

*N MFCouple (48), Couple on 14 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met J at Mirage, he was being a social butterfly and we had a good chat about life and the lifestyle. Exactly the sort of Solo male you want at your parties/events, would happily catch up with him again when our paths cross next

*asingin (55), Couple on 29 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met up today for a social - very relaxed easy conversation and we certainly had a lot in common - see you again soon!

*bsgb (58), Couple on 29 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Female half had the pleasure of meeting J at Mirage social last night, had a lovely evening, chatting, very much looking forward to our paths crossing in the near future on a non social night xx

*lueEyedDreamQueen (33), Woman on 3 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy for a social yesterday evening. He was easy to meet up with and very welcoming. Easy to talk to and understanding. Looking forwards to meeting up with him again.