Time to Switch

Woman in Leeds, North East, UK

Joined: 4 months ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

I am NOT here for a ONS

Messages that just say “Hey” or anything really generic will be deleted - we can tell if you haven’t read our profiles… have a think before you need to tell us something super impressive like you are a “genuine guy” or whatever

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Main couple account on LJNerdy2025 with pics, vids and verifications. Feel free to reach out to couples account for group or threesome fun. I regularly go through messages on this profile with my husband who has access to this login, so we can decide who’s going to work for us.

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I have primarily taken on a domme role in play for years and have recently been rediscovering my submissive side. I’m after someone I can see regularly and buildup trust with to play out our fantasies- with the right person. I myself am a bit of a soft/ pleasure domme.

Looking for someone to give me a good seeing to when I need taking care of. I may need a firm hand, but you shouldn’t have to use more than your voice. Except me to smirk and maybe giggle as/ if I obey.

Depending on dynamic I might be a bit of a mischief or a little bratty if you’re lucky. I can be a good girl too if you deserve it… I don’t get on my knees for many. I like to please, I like to be praised and I will react well to hearing you enjoy me, but I expect you to put effort in. Husband treats me like a queen so my standards are high. So, yes, I’m picky.

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A social with me and my husband is 100% necessary so we can talk expectations and boundaries. I’ll message here until I feel comfortable and there’s a good vibe. I’ll be taking my time in getting this right, if you start getting pushy it will only push me away. Happy then to switch to WhatsApp once a date for meeting has been set up between all 3 of us. Social may be a club meet at Pandoras in Leeds.

Don’t expect immediate responses.

Dick pics without convo will get you sent straight to the bin.

I won’t accept friend requests from people I haven’t met or don’t plan to meet.

Winks without a message will be deleted.

There needs to be mutual respect and clarity. I have been clear about my wants, if we can click you’ll hear more about my needs.

If this is too much work for you then move on.

To be clear, I won’t be wearing restraints or taking pics with you straight away- these things require trust in an established dynamic, so if you message asking about this before we’ve even met, it’s off putting and will probably make me uncomfortable if I’m honest.

Message with “Winter” once you have read this and understood what you may be taking on. If you do message, bonus points if you include how you’d handle a new sub.

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SHUK tested as of Nov 2025

35 years old, Bisexual

5'4" 163cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women
Aged from 27 to 54 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys

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*actile Intentions (39), Man on 1 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Enjoyed another lovely evening with this sexy lady. A good kiss always sets the mood. Sensual hot kisses turned into wanting to get her out of her sexy outfit. Already looking forward to next time xx

*omad_87 (38), Man on 8 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
A social with this Minx turned into an absolutely cracking time. Shes flirty, filthy and such a good girl. Im looking forward to many more, and maybe some nerdy games too ;)

*rDarius_Acrux (42), Man on 21 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Where do I start, such a sexy, kind hearted, delicious, insatiable vixen of a woman! Her body is yum, such a great person to speak with and vibe with on a chill aspect. I have known her and her other half a while. If she decides to set her eyes on you I promise you, you will struggle to stop, struggle not to want to experience her again and she will make you possessive and hungry. She is such a great vibe and horny devil. Look after her

*issy-Marie (38), Woman on 11 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have known this sexy Minx for a good while now. I have been fortunate enough to play with both her and her hubby and also a cheeky solo play one sexy night at a club. We left the men down stairs and holed up in a room where we quickly devoured each other. Her tongue is so soft, so gentle, so skilled! I could wrap my self around her for hours. But also such a genuinely gorgeous personality too. I'm so pleased weve met and become friends. Long may it continue. Treat her well everyone, she is a queen who needs worshiping x

Friends

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