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MR J
32 years old, Straight
6'3"
191cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF)
Couples (FF)
Women
Aged from 18 to 50
Will meet smokers
Can
accommodate
Can
travel
Webcams, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Dogging, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties
*obynsnest (38), Couple
on 7 March 2025
by Meeting in person:
Omg what can I say. He is an absolute gentleman. Amazing hand skills. Was a very wet afternoon. We both felt so comfortable in his presence. Looking forward to round 2 x
*otwifetobe (38), Couple
on 27 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Cool chap, sure we'll see more of you in the future.
*essica_rabbit8924 (35), Woman
on 17 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Well I can officially confirm you're not a one-trick pony. Baby-faced mother fucker finally lived up to his "jackhammer" nickname and now I fully understand why he got that (although nickname for you is better).
Our encounters are always a delightful mix of humor and heat never a dull moment.
He plays well with others and has seamlessly integrated into various group dynamics. His relaxed energy and enthusiastic participation make every encounter enjoyable. You're a gem!
You even saved my life! Next time, let's ensure everything's securely locked before we start swinging from anything.
*essica_rabbit8924 (35), Woman
on 8 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Absolutely scorching! From the moment he walked in, all charm and innocence, I almost believed it—but that glint in his eye told a very different story. This man is pure trouble in the best possible way. The kind that has your knees weak, pulse racing.
And let’s talk about that performance. My God... the control, the confidence...so ladies drink your water, be a good girl and buckle up because this ride is not for the faint of heart.
If that was just a teaser then I’ll be wearing my bruises like a damn trophy I need the platinum all-access VIP membership ... Please and thanks x
*aya Papaya (40), Woman
on 6 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Yap, he does have stamina Foxy, I quite agree ; P ; ) xx
*Foxy8 (43), Woman
on 6 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Finally!! That is all I'm saying hehe! I have definitely been missing out! Ladies...this man has stamina!!
*assyFox0 (34), Woman
on 5 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Met at Adam & Eves a few months back. Such a pleasure to have hosted. Good sense of humour, respectful, genuine. :)
*iki32 (33), Woman
on 16 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
Met Mr.J at club play but didn't get a chance to play that night. Thankfully was able to meet up and had a fun night. Sweet,fun and knows what he is doing. Hopefully get to meet again soon xx
*lub play (50), Couple
on 13 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
Thanks for coming along Club Play & helping make it a weekend to remember xxx We hope you enjoyed your visit & we will see you again very soon xxx Club Play – Paul & Dawn xxx Ps If you have not already done so please don’t forget to leave a club review & verification & we will do the same xxx
*eachy123 (41), Woman
on 10 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
What can I say apart from thanks for weekend i had a blast and who knew you could keep me on my toes :)
He's definately not 1 to pass up and the banter is second to none (he took it well)
Hopefully we'll bump i to each other again soon x
*assyFox0 (34), Woman
on 9 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
Met MrJ in person at Adam & Eves club at the weekend, polite, friendly, a good laugh and really got himself involved with the club and mingling with other people. Was a pleasure to meet and I hope to see you again soon! X
*oll_Face_xx (44), Woman
on 8 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
Well you survived our company! Thank you for attending UV.R at Club Play. A man of many talents including holding legs to be painted,flashing anal plugs that I shall leave to the imagination, watching gravity be defied by a certain Peach! Very good looking , tall gent , great dress sense and easy to talk to. Confident and respectful ..exactly the kind of gent that you want to cross paths with in clubland. Doll x
*oltoncouple29 (32), Couple
on 8 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
A very nice and polite gentleman knows abit about the swinging world too good conversations in the hot tub then we took it to a room, maybe our paths will cross agen but won't be in Southampton xxx
*ntamed Nights (43), Couple (FF)
on 23 September 2024
by Meeting in person:
One the most genuine single guys out there. Very very respectful, a wicked sense of humour and a naughty twinkle in his eye and on top of all that he's super sexy too. He's always a fantastic addition to any event and we love seeing him. One day, when Bex isnt working she will get her hands on him! Thank you for coming. Bex, Paul and the Untamed Nights team xx
*inkycouple2022 (38), Couple
on 22 September 2024
by Meeting in person:
We've met a couple of times now first time at a after party at MaevelUs, then again last night at Untamed. Hes polite, friendly, and respectful. Gives good hugs and even asked him for a cheeky kiss which he obliged. Look forward to seeing you again at other socials x
*arvelUs (38), Couple
on 10 September 2024
by Meeting in person:
What can we say about Mr. J that hasn’t already be said?! As single guys go, they don't get any more respectful than J! He is a tall, babyfaced super friendly guy who will hug you every time he sees you. We have spent a lot of time over the last year with J, he makes Sam feel super comfortable in a play session but also is always happy to come and chill on the sofa as part if the family. Mr. J never has a bad word to say about anyone, everyone we know loves him even our little boy has befriended him due to his kind nature. The only other thing we should mention is his stamina! Mr.J will certainly give 100% and go like a jack hammer all night, he's nearly as good in bed as Chris… but not quite! Lol Xxxx
*osie Smiles (55), Woman
on 8 September 2024
by Meeting in person:
I’ve met this gorgeous cheeky man a few times at Studland then we went to Temps together … lovely guy, good fun, so friendly, hot kisses and very passionate… don’t miss out girls he really is hot .. x x happy fabbing gorgeous x
*arriedCouple92 (32), Couple
on 7 September 2024
by Meeting in person:
What a bloody lush guy. Tall handsome and gorgeous cock. Has got good chat and a cheeky smile. Nice to meet you and really hope to see you again soon! Xx
*areham naughty 2 (47), Couple
on 28 July 2024
by Meeting in person:
Meet this sexy guy tonight at the MarvelUs social, didn't get to chat much but was happy to get a slap on the arse, definitely look forward to meeting him again.. S and M x
*ompeyFunCouple1 (47), Couple
on 7 July 2024
by Meeting in person:
We've met J a few times at clubs and socials. He's such a happy, easy going guy and full of fun. I (Donna) finally got the opportunity to play after the MarvelUs social, don't need to go into details but a bit of alone time in the bedroom was most enjoyable. See you at swingathon for a repeat x
*ll Kinked Up (42), Couple
on 19 April 2024
by Meeting in person:
We’ve known this Chap for a while now, and thoroughly enjoy his company when he attends our social events. He’s a cheeky chap with a naughty glint in his eye, and has become a firm favourite with the ladies, but not only that, he’s a genuinely lovely guy who is an absolute credit to the swinging lifestyle. One of fabs rarities! Thank you for choosing to support our social events! J & T xx
*layfulpair223 (34), Couple
on 1 April 2024
by Meeting in person:
We have known Mr J for some time now, have had the pleasure of spending time with him at clubs, socials, and studland beach. Always pleased to see him, even more pleased to finally get a bit of jackhammer J and it was definitely worth the wait! ;) xx
*nicorn Dynamite82 (42), Woman
on 30 March 2024
by Meeting in person:
Meet this guy at MarvelUs social
Very laid back flirty guy that loves hugs
Despite my nerves I missed out on the chance of giving u a birthday snog maybe next time we meet I might be lucky x
*andS500 (46), Couple
on 3 March 2024
by Meeting in person:
Have met J a few times now to chat with. Last night was the first time playing properly and he didn't disappoint. Very friendly, respectful and good with his wood! Certainly helped Mrs S have a good time! X
*oney and the wolf (39), Couple
on 18 February 2024
by Meeting in person:
What an absolute gorgeous man. He watched while I was having fun with another couple then got my hands on him in another play room. Super sexy and ladies if you like a good hold around the neck then this gent is your guy.
Hopefully next time full on play xx
*randmrsbigboobs (40), Couple
on 15 February 2024
by Meeting in person:
Wow! Invited J round and was not disappointed, he looks incredible and is a chatty, friendly guy. Upstairs, things just got even better! He certainly knows how to please, was very quick to find my spots and did not let up! Such a cheeky, naughty personality and pushed my boundaries whilst still making me feel comfortable. Thanks for an amazing time, you’re welcome back any time ;) xx
*irty_little_blonde (39), Woman
on 4 January 2024
by Meeting in person:
Spoke to J for a while now. Missed the opportunity to meet last time he was home so managed a social this time. J is handsome, genuine and is very easy to get along with. Looking forward to meeting J again when he’s back home x
*r-reliable (47), Man
on 10 December 2023
by Meeting in person:
Thank you for attending my party and helping to make the evening such a fantastic event, nice guy, polite, respectful and popular with the ladies
*ithin-Temptation (36), Woman
on 17 November 2023
by Meeting in person:
Got to see this lovely gentleman a lot recently but he keeps slipping away from me and we still haven't had the opportunity to play. It's always an absolute pleasure to see this gent at untamed and recently the Southampton social. Don't work too hard and will look forward to seeing you very soon xxx charly xxx
*etsplaynaughty69 (41), Couple
on 15 November 2023
by Meeting in person:
We meet this young man at club, very good sex, planty of orgasms, and fun to be around.
*implyCJ (44), Woman
on 5 November 2023
by Meeting in person:
Mr J wore me out at Untamed last night. This man has stamina and fucks like a jackhammer. To top it off he’s amazing with his hands causing soaked stockings, bed and floor - I’ve never been so dehydrated. Some day I’ll make it to the end of round one! Ladies, look out for this delightful gent. He’s a good one.
*corps_x (32), Woman
on 4 November 2023
by Meeting in person:
I’ve met this gorgeous man multiple times now at Untamed events, he’s such a gent. Kind, articulate and delicious to look at. Can’t wait to see what his hands have to offer….. see you soon, Mr! Xx
*ir and Ladylotus (45), Couple
on 4 November 2023
by Meeting in person:
Our paths have crossed a couple of times recently and we eventually got to play in a naughty group session. Mr J is a true gentleman, with a very naughty side. Caz really enjoyed giving Mr J his happy ending. I'm sure our paths with cross again and more playtime will be had!!
*heekyCouple500 (30), Couple
on 26 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
We Met this lovely guy at a social he is so genuine and easy to get on with can't wait to see you again soo
*randMrsGspt (33), Couple
on 22 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
After several times of seeing this guy at club events we met again at Untamed last night and had ourselves some naughty fun! What else can we say he is friendly, respectful and everything you could want from a single guy in the lifestyle. Look forward to seeing him again in the future X
*okiQ (32), Woman
on 19 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
Well mr J, thank you very much for this evening. After a bit of back and fourth with messages and socials at un this chap knows how the female body works not only did he manage to get me to cover myself in my own juices his stamina excels him if it wasn’t for the heat I’m sure we would have gone on for longer, ladies this is a guy you don’t want to miss out on.
*ithin-Temptation (36), Woman
on 15 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gentleman dressed as what i can only describe as a pimp to the 80s themed UN party. He looked amazing in and out his costume, really friendly, good looking, tall and a good laugh. Unfortunately I didn't get to play with him this time but will hopefully get my hands on him next time our paths cross. I've heard and seen nothing but good things and for a first impression I really wasn't complaining. Hopefully see you again soon xx charly xx
*acob (30), Couple
on 15 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
J is the funniest, kindest man around! Plus he knows how to please a lady. He’s got great chat, made us laugh a lot and was very respectful in the playroom! What more could you ask for?! Looking forward to seeing you again x
*ischief Parties (53), Couple
on 2 October 2023
by Meeting in person:
Thank you for coming along to our party on Friday, it was our pleasure having you come along to what was a very mischivious night. Mischiefs :)
*andC23 (36), Couple
on 24 September 2023
by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say ladies…don’t miss a chance to be with Mr J. He has a rather nice…ahem…and knows what to do with it. C was left very satisfied. We would happily play again.
*etcurvymilf (41), Woman
on 17 September 2023
by Meeting in person:
An absolute delight. Strong, fit and reliable. Delivered exactly what was promised with an explosive synchronised ending. Don't miss out on this one ladies!
*r_Mrs_W_22 (34), Couple
on 17 September 2023
by Meeting in person:
Meet Mr J last night in Swindon, what a gentleman.
Very easy on the eye and great to talk to. Mrs W was luckily enough to have the pleasure in playing with Mr J and boy he has stamina. Hopefully will get a chance to meet again.
*ntamed Nights (43), Couple (FF)
on 11 September 2023
by Meeting in person:
We met this absolute gent on Saturday when he came to Untamed nights. Confident, considerate and definitely easy on the eye. It was a pleasure to host you and we hope to see you again soon.
*alalulah (24), Woman
on 19 August 2023
by Meeting in person:
This man is the total package!! His pictures absolutely don’t do him justice - he’s incredibly sexy which is complimented by his dirty mind and great sense of humour. He had me on my toes all night hoping he would take me to a room and I am very happy that he did. He’s a fantastic kisser, can deliver a beautifully crisp spank and definitely has the necessary tools to make any woman happy. I can’t wait to see him again! Lots of love, Lala xxx
*estinysswingers (35), Couple
on 25 June 2023
by Meeting in person:
Mr. J has been chasing my tight pussy for years…. I finally gave it to him last night. It was very hot. Loved every inch xx
*awtyredhead (31), Woman
on 9 June 2023
by Meeting in person:
Well had an amazing surprise when this one turned up at cupids tonight. Had a lot of laughs. BTW he plays dirty at pool haha then had a lot of fun in couples room.. When he used his real skills and made me squirt evwrywere leaving a lil puddle haha ooops. Xx
*awtyredhead (31), Woman
on 23 May 2023
by Meeting in person:
So after a month of been a good girl and waiting for this one to be back in the area finally managed to get him round... Omfg was it worth the wait... Amazing kisser and a cock that I just loved to suck.. Had me Cumming repeatedly and panting for breathe afterwards.. Really knows what his doing and how to please a girl.. Even gives cuddles after... Funny and genuine lad.. Can just chill and let it flow with him..can't wait see you again feckkkkk!!!
P. S my ass is still red
*orbiddenNights (39), Couple
on 8 April 2023
by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely respectful down to earth guy at our party last night, he really knows how to pleasure a lady with a nice body too, not to be missed ladies x
*inger and Beard (37), Couple
on 1 April 2023
by Meeting in person:
Met this gent a couple of times in cupids. He is friendly, respectable and funny. He tried to help G play pool. He's a cheeky chappy and completely genuine. Can't wait to see him again. G & B xox
*ouxx2324 (25), Woman
on 1 April 2023
by Meeting in person:
A lovely guy to chat to, and we had some fun behind closed doors to! Thanks for a good night x
*hocolate buttons (36), Woman
on 9 January 2023
by Meeting in person:
Lovely friendly guy. Great kisser and knows how to make a woman squirt. Until next time baby face CB
*urvyBanana (32), Woman
on 2 January 2023
by Meeting in person:
Met this cutie at Cupids on NYE! fantastic kisser and certainly not shy! Look forward to seeing you again ;) N x
*llthecurves01 (23), Woman
on 24 November 2022
by Meeting in person:
Had my eye on this one from halloween night and managed to get him to come out with me. Had a great laugh and an overall amazing night. So nice and easy to talk to and can always put a smile on my face. Any girl would be lucky to meet you so girls don’t miss out x
*nk Angel (43), Woman
on 11 November 2022
by Meeting in person:
Loved how a quick comment lead to a steamy, very wet encounter with this hottie at Cupids the other night. Hope to see him around again sometime as I loved every minute of our fun together. xEx
*hoenixPhyre (36), Woman
on 4 November 2022
by Meeting in person:
Absolutely awesome time xx
*ed Riding Hood 95 (30), Woman
on 25 July 2021
by Meeting in person:
Where do I start ! genuine respectful sexy guy with a great smile made me feel so comfortable especially being my first time at a club
Great banter even better sex! Definitely knows what he's doing Had me cumming numerous times ,I have never squirted in my life didn't think I could, This guy made it happen .. I'm still smiling now ! Look forward to seeing him again , don't pass up an opportunity with him lady's the crown jewels are on point ;) xx
*ngelb (46), Couple
on 18 July 2021
by Meeting in person:
What a guy took me and fucked me like a stallion he is cool top lad and genuine and had me cumming in a mess x
*urvyunicornsquirter88 (37), Woman
on 3 May 2019
by Meeting in person:
Omg what a lovely gent, amazing kisser and my god had me squirting within minutes, ladies don't miss the chance with this lovely fella, see you soon for more fun x
*Xxbeth (36), Woman
on 3 February 2019
by Meeting in person:
Wow! What can i say i dont normally play with younger guys but fuck im glad i did ! This guy had me squirting everywhere !! Cannot wait to do it again very very soon ;) ladies dont miss out this guy is fucking awsome and has a cock to die for xx
*eemawD (37), Couple
on 26 August 2018
by Meeting in person:
True gent, really helped us out on our first meet, friendly, relaxed and played by our rules without a problem. He’ll be coming again.
*eforfuncpl (57), Couple
on 7 February 2016
by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at partners last night
Respectful and can hold a conversation and knows what to do on the swing haha helped clean up my mess! Well he helped make the mess, it went everywhere !
Be sure to give this guy a chance as he's a decent guy and not like some young single guys who can't control themselves be sure to say hello next time xxx take care xx
*inkoxton (29), Woman
on 10 January 2016
by Meeting in person:
Very nice guy, nice Bod too
*estinysswingers (35), Couple
on 14 December 2015
by Meeting in person:
This pleasant young man is great to talk to, knows how to treat and talk to a lady and is very charming. Do not pass this one up ladies X
*nDeexXx (60), Couple
on 22 November 2015
by Meeting in person:
Showed us round Partners last night and had a number of chats during the night.
Many thanks catch up again we hope
Andy and Denise
*ack.n.Danni (56), Couple
on 30 August 2015
by Meeting in person:
Meet round at our for a blindfold session, Mrs loved it, genuine guy, good times all round
*lirtyGirl1 (44), Woman
on 9 August 2015
by Meeting in person:
Met Joel several times now in Partners. We all know that it's not easy for single men on here/the scene but one things for sure........having this guys qualities will certainly get you further than the pushy, disrespectful & expectant men.
Joel is a bit young for me BUT........with his warm, welcoming & friendly personality, I would not hesitate to invite him to join us at a sexy party in my home & it's always great to see his face in & around the club. Getting to consider this young, confident & attractive male as a friend. See you soon Joel :-)
Kelly xx
*elshycakes1 (44), Couple
on 5 August 2015
by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at partners certainly knows his way around very respectful
*utty_Jiggle (44), Couple
on 2 August 2015
by Meeting in person:
We met this gent at Partners last night. He is respectful, down to earth and a dab hand at blackjack. He is a genuine man, with impeccable manners. Single men should take a leaf out of your book. We hope to see you again soon.
*anfriday and fridaygirl (56), Couple
on 12 July 2015
by Meeting in person:
Met this chap in Partners on Friday he may be young but is very respectful and courtious .
Saw him play on a couple of occasions looked like the ladies were enjoying him !
If all young single chaps followed his example ....
*ll 4 her (53), Couple
on 12 July 2015
by Meeting in person:
Met at Partners, was very polite and respectful, certainly makes the effort to please, we have no problems confirming he is genuine and looks like his pics. G&V
*ooty and suu (57), Couple
on 28 June 2015
by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at a club
What can we say that others havent
Apart from its all true and more
What a 100% genuine guy
Hope to see you again soon
*ric and Ernie (44), Couple
on 27 June 2015
by Meeting in person:
What a lovely lad! Easy to chat and to get along with. Knows just what he's doing and is what single guys should be like! Absolute pleasure to play with this lad! Cheers Hun xx hope to see u soon x
*xijen (60), Woman
on 27 June 2015
by Meeting in person:
found you lol..seen this sweetieheart a few times now at partners..wonderfull guy..down to earth..wont mess you about..good looking guy..polite not pushy..if only all single guys were like this guy..looking forward to our next game of pool..girls dont miss out on this guy..great body,good looks,hes got it all
*elightz (54), Couple
on 21 June 2015
by Meeting in person:
We see this lovely, charming young man whenever we visit partners club. He's got confidence and knows exactly what he wants. We see him more of a club friend so we don't play but we've heard of some of the antics he's got upto on the swing and in the play rooms. He's a very genuine guy so if any of you ladies want a younger intelligent man this is your man don't pass him by. See you soon and mike says get practicing your pool lol xx. Gem
*cequeen68 (56), Woman
on 17 April 2015
by Meeting in person:
Well I've met this young man before he became a fabswinger. He's a handsome young man and has a nice rock hard cock thats for a long time. Hoping to teach him a few tricks. See you next time xxx