I am STRAIGHT so gay/bi men in the politest way look elsewhere!

Man in Harpenden, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 18 hours ago

No longer a newbie. I’ve explored the lifestyle through private meets, socials, clubs, and events, and I’m very much enjoying the ride. I have a few fabulous female play friends already, and with the right chemistry, I’m always open to creating the perfect scenario ??

Looking for like minded, adventurous souls for NSA fun that can grow into longterm connections… with the occasional irresistible ONS. Socials, clubs, events, private parties, hotel or discreet meets, I’m easy, adaptable, and know how to read the room. Discretion available, confidence guaranteed, and happy to be filmed or photographed with the right company.

Turn-ons include…

• Role play

• Threesomes

• Cuckolding

• A hint of dominance

• Making fantasies very real ??

Relaxed, respectful, and far from shy, I love exploring desires, pushing boundaries (consensually), and ensuring everyone leaves thoroughly satisfied. If you’re looking to indulge, tease, and explore what’s been on your mind… I might just be your kind of trouble.

feel free to message or just send a wink

my FetL acc mrStalban

Results from bdsmtest

87% Dominant

83% Rigger

80% Primal (Hunter)

77% Experimentalist

74% Rope bunny

74% Sadist

73% Switch

69% Non-monogamist

68% Exhibitionist

66% Brat tamer

59% Master/Mistress

59% Voyeur

59% Degrader

57% Submissive

56% Vanilla

52% Owner

42% Primal (Prey)

42% Masochist

36% Brat

11% Degradee

10% Pet

9% Daddy/Mommy

0% Boy/Girl

0% Ageplayer

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34 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Phone Sex, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*elly99 (39), Couple on 2 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting mrsatalbans, and hit it off straight away, made me feel very comfortable and no pressure at all. Once we moved from drinks to the bedroom it doubled the enjoyment, he knows how to please you, and is very respectful on our wishes. Had a very enjoyable experience, left with a smile on our faces. Im sure its not the last time.

*reatAndTrick (35), Couple on 17 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met briefly at Penthouse Playrooms. He was very friendly and easy to talk to.

*nlyfun3 (56), Woman on 17 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this charming handsome gentleman today at Wicked Wednesday at Penthouse Playrooms today. He is engaging, intelligent and interesting. Loved how he showed respect and care for the lady he came with. A real asset to the LS. I'm sure I will see you soon.

*rMrsBB (39), Couple on 5 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this very down to earth gentleman for our first experience, great chat and extremely respectful. Felt very much at ease throughout and would highly recommend to other singles/couples out there.

*inkerbell89 (37), Woman on 15 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had another great meet with mrStalbans while attending PP together last Saturday. Despite being quite new to the club scene he was a great companion and made quite an impression on the crowd. His fun personality and wit puts everyone at ease within seconds. Every meet with him is a joy both in and out of the bedroom, and hopefully I’ll get a chance to have him again sometime soon. Tink x

*inkerbell89 (37), Woman on 14 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had a pleasure of meeting MrS last night as he came to my rescue after being let down. Absolute gent right from the start and throughout the night. Hours of naughty fun was exactly what I needed :). Until next time MrS xx

*R-WD1 (44), Couple on 12 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy at penthouse in Dunstable on newbies night. Great down to earth fabber. Stay in touch and see you there again next time

*llenjay (47), Couple on 31 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
What can I say, as a new couple to this he was an absolute gent, considerate and very generous. There were a lot of nerves from Mrs but quickly settled and we got down to action quick swiftly. MrSA struck a great balance with following J’s lead and also taking the initiative, and completely respected our ‘very limited’ boundaries whilst spending lots of time pleasing mrs. Definitely WET the appetite for us to continue exploring and trying new things!