Discreet unadulterated fun

Man in Ipswich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: 3 months ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

Welcome to my corner of Fab.

If something here catches your eye and resonates, feel free to wink or drop me a message, curiosity is always welcome.

I’ll say this upfront: if I send you a wink, it’s my non-intrusive way of introducing myself and showing that I’m genuinely interested in you and your profile. If you really jump out, I may take a risk and shoot my shot with a message. If you’ve read this and decide to wink back, I’ll take that as a mutual green light and will happily message you IF I haven’t messaged you.

I’ve been on and off Fab for around two years with this being a new profile, though I’ve been part of the swinging/adult lifestyle for closer to 4–5. My availability ebbs and flows with work, I’m in the civil service, so free time can be feast or famine. When I do have time, I like to fill it properly. Discretion is essential for me, and I both offer and expect it in return.

I’m not constantly online, but when I am, I’m here with intention. I’m not into endless conversations with no aim, disappearing acts, or flakes. I know what I’m after, and I appreciate others who do too, it makes everything smoother and far more enjoyable. I’ll put this disclaimer here, some may think it’s rude but I think it’s quite a respectable trait to have, because of my lifestyle and work, I have a zero tolerance for bullshit. If I feel that any of these non negotiable are breached or not met, I’ll just delete the chat;

A few non-negotiables that matter to me:

• Hygiene — essential and undeniably attractive.

• Self-care — I look after myself and appreciate the same energy.

• Respect — arrogance or rudeness is an instant no. I deal with enough conflict at work; this space should be easy, fun, and adult.

• Conversation — if you can’t hold one, we likely won’t click. Mutual effort goes a long way.

Yes, I’m younger, no, I’m not naïve. I’m grounded, self-aware, and confident in what I enjoy and what I bring to the table. I mostly play with couples but am also open to solo meets. I’ve experienced MMFs, same- and separate-room play, open/closed-door dynamics, and cucking/bull scenarios, all of which I’m comfortable with and happy to revisit. While I’d say I’m experienced, you don’t have to be. I’m happy with one offs but I’d ideally like to develop a semi regular dynamic with a couple. I genuinely enjoy helping others explore their fantasies in a safe, relaxed, and respectful environment.

I have a definite soft spot for older women, straight to the front of the queue, no questions asked. Confidence, experience, and maturity are incredibly attractive, and many only get better with time. I’m happy with socials before meeting, though I do have a weakness for a bit of spontaneity when the vibe is right.

I have more photos in my friends-only section and I’m happy to share, though I prefer a bit of conversation first and possibly exchanging a few beforehand before granting access. If you have zero photos on your profile, you’re not going to get a single one from me.

A little about me:

6ft, around 97kg (give or take), stocky and muscular with thick thighs and broad shoulders.

If you’ve made it this far and something’s caught your attention, a wink might just be the perfect place to start :)

35 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*issy-mae45 (24), Woman on 1 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
A last min spontaneous meet..left me with shaking legs with one hell of a mess left over my face. This is definitely going to become a regular occurrence:)

*ikki1000 (36), Couple on 29 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
So we arranged to meet mr vice for another social at our place well conversation flowed and later in the evening things got naughty and mrs had quite a bit of fun. Mr vice was a gent non pushy and very down to earth and lovely to be around till next time im sure mrs is looking forward to it already

*igglyJ91 (34), Woman on 16 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
This gorgeous man had me begging for him to come back for round 2 and 3 and he did not disappoint! The intensity in his kisses, the way he holds his own and demands obedience. I thoroughly enjoyed pushing limits with him and finding new likes! Please keep coming back for more fun Mr x

*ikki1000 (36), Couple on 10 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Well we took the plunge and finally met up with this guy for little social wasn't disapointed at all with this good looking guy, conversation flowed and seemed very down to earth, looking forward to seeing him again for some naughtiness.

*essica rarebit (43), Woman on 9 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this sexy hot guy for the first time, and hope not the last. I like naughty amd kinky and he played with me just how I like it. Shame we didn't have longer because I could have done that all night long. Thank you for the presents. I wonder what else you can fit in that toy box? Very satisfied and craving more ????

*igglyJ91 (34), Woman on 6 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
5 stars- would recommend :) This man is incredible- the looks, the body, the personality, the package :D Very much enjoyed my fun with him and hope he comes back again and again, to make me cum again and again! X

*hyC (33), Woman on 21 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Another hot meet with this one... he is so sexy he just made me melt. Gave me what I needed, I ended up a soaking wet shaking mess x

*hyC (33), Woman on 16 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy on his old account, we've met up a few times and it's always a pleasure. He knows exactly how to treat me to make me comfortable and bring my naughty little slut side out... handsome and fun, don't miss out x

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