Openminded man looking for a woman

Man in Kelso, Scotland, UK

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

Hello I’m John I’m 59 and looking for new friends or even someone I can spend my life with. It has to start as friends first to see where it goes and I’m a patient man. If I wasn’t I certainly would not still be on here.

I’ve been separated over a year after 27 year marriage during last 20 years been pretty sex starved and need someone who knows how important sex is in a relationship and wants to keep it alive for as long we physically can. Not looking for one night stands specifically but we need to engage to know if there is a spark there.

I do need someone who knows friends too as it’s hard to make friends in Scottish Borders especially at my age and I know from prior to being married you can never have too many friends and if it’s an fwb arrangement even better until we find what we want?

Any takers come say hello can provide face pics too.

I am a sensual being love to touch feel and open to new adventures with a sexy woman must stimulate mind and body but 1 out of 2 ain’t bad . I’m also a gentle dom I enjoy pleasuring women but not in a controlling and disrespectful way. Focus is your fun ??

just ask

59 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Taking Photos, Spanking, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Blindfolds

Verified Genuine Profile

*quusOrca7819 (47), Woman on 13 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met J a while back at After Dark, he's a lovely gentleman, great chat and fun company. See you again soon xx

Friends

K (30), Woman
Curvy (51) & * (61), Couple