Life is too short

Man in Bedfordshire, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 18 hours ago

I have been part of the lifestyle for many years, initially exploring as a couple and later independently, so I know what I enjoy and what I do not. The social side of things has always appealed to me just as much as anything else, and I am a regular at clubs.

I am not particularly interested in one night stands or purely transactional encounters. What appeals to me far more is genuine connection. Long term friends, friends with benefits, and meeting people to socialise or head to clubs with is much more my pace than anything fleeting.

To be clear, I am not into drugs, so please do not ask. If that is your thing, no judgement, just not for me.

What I do value is good conversation. I enjoy getting to know people properly, whether that is over coffee, a drink, or even the increasingly rare concept of an actual phone call.

I would describe myself as straightforward, relaxed, and possessing what I believe is a decent sense of humour, though reviews may vary.

I am not here for endless messaging, time wasting, or pen pal situations. If we get on, I would much rather meet, have a laugh, and see whether there is a genuine connection in person.

If you enjoy good company, appreciate honesty, and are looking for something fun with substance rather than just a one off, we will likely get along well.

Hotsp

36 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 40
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys

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*enniedan (45), Couple on 13 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met at the VA Onyx party, lovely guy and lots of fun