Open minded fuckery

Man in Reading, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

Hey.

I've been described as a 'degenerate pervert' and 'creatively filthy'. I think both are fair comments ; ). I'm open minded and willing to try most things once. I enjoy slow and sensual vanilla through to down n dirty kink. I lean towards taking the lead in the bedroom and love bondage, spanking, teasing and being in control, although I'm happy to switch in the right situation too and I'm very focused on making sure my partner(s) are having a great time.

I've had a lot of fun playing with couples and I'm happy to fit into your dynamic.

I'm a regular gym goer and try to take care of my body through diet and exercise, cycling and walking etc.

I'm the proud owner of a short beard so if you're looking for boyish and smooth, this man ain't for you - I do keep the garden well mown though.

I'm looking for friends and partners in crime, singles and couples, and enjoy meeting in clubs or out in the real world. The social side of swinging is fun too, and I like meeting and getting to know interesting people. I'm attracted to intelligence, sense of humour and kindness.

I consider myself 98% straight, but recently some of my fantasies have involved mmf/bi fun and I'm curious to explore this with the right couple - if this is a cherry you'd like to help me pop then do get in touch. Otherwise all my experiences have been straight, and I'm happy to continue this way.

I've distilled some of my experiences of going to club nights as a single guy and in a couple into a guide for single guys who'd like to visit a sex club. Hopefully you'll find it helpful, you can read it here: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1767126

Reach out if you'd like to know more.

D x

Dave

49 years old, Bi-curious

5'6" 168cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 49
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

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*windonSwingers (32), Couple on 27 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was absolutely lovely to see you all at our REMIX event. Thank you so much for coming out and making the night what it was! We truly appreciate your support. Every bit of it helps us work towards expanding the club and offering you even more exciting experiences in the future. Can’t wait to see you at the next one! Swindon Swingers Club Xx

*MW Socials (57), Couple (FF) on 9 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for attending your first HMW social with us, it was great to meet you. We hope you enjoyed the evening and will be back soon x

*anilla switch (53), Woman on 9 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
I had the pleasure of meeting Needle-in-the-hey-stack at the Fleet social, such a lovely gentleman and as it happens we seem to have lots in common. So pleased we got the chance to chat and hopefully our paths will cross again. Vs x

*erkshire_99 (48), Couple on 12 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
The country pub where we first met OrganicVanilla didn't have the cosy nooks advertised so our social intrigued the bar staff! We arranged a second meeting where we could have a lot more fun away from prying eyes. OrganicVanilla was a true gentleman and while we'll keep the spicy details to ourselves it was a very satisfying evening.

*eltCuteMightDelete (43), Woman on 21 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely meeting Dave tonight! Conversation was flowing and interesting and he is easy to talk to. Hope to see you again another time x

*aucySecretCouple (48), Couple on 6 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet Chilled-n-kinky at an impromptu visit to Abfabs on a Friday night. He was polite, friendly and a great example of how single men should be. A fun, hot and sexy session was had by all!

*S2629 (33), Couple on 22 February 2020 by Meeting in person:
So refreshing to meet a single guy who’s actually respectful and a genuine guy! Had such a laugh chatting with you and just goes to show it’s not always about sex! Hopefully bump into you again soon

*igout4fun (51), Couple on 22 February 2020 by Meeting in person:
We met at AbFabs Heathrow and got to have an amazing threesome. He’s genuine, very respectful, sensual, passionate with great stamina! Kissing him was amazing and he certainly knows how to touch and please a woman. It would be awesome to meet up again for some more sexy fun. Thanks for a superb time!

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