Hats!

Man in Swindon, South West, UK

Joined: 8 months ago
Last on: 9 hours ago

Being a nice local fwb to somebody would be lovely. Just as lovely as having a club buddy

Going to:

Chames BBW Summer beach party, 23rd August

And after this? Send me some suggestions - clubs are mad fun and I can’t get enough of them (until my wallet cries enough at least)

I’d much prefer meeting at clubs or parties than homes these days. Usually found wearing something silly. Waaaaay more fun. And besides, it's hard to plan for a home meet when I'm barely at home... Thanks to work, it’s only really weekends I could meet. Within reasonable travel distances, either my place or yours.

Usually about Saturdays (if I’m not at an event), Sundays (if I’m not sleeping off after an event) and very rare weeknights (if I’m not tired from work)

Latest test results 12th Jul 2026 - Negative X8

If I had an interview about here with myself, it’d go something like this…

Who are you?: Nineteen89

That’s a dumb username, why’d you pick it?: 1989 was a good year - then I turns up…

Height?: 5 foot 6 inches.

That's not very tall, is it?: Well, it's perfectly average, isn't it?

Weight?: I mean, not everybody gets to be basketball player height, do they?

WEIGHT?: I mean, I'm not thaaat much shorter than Tom Cruise, right?

*sigh* okay, fine. Next questions - experiences?: Not much, really. I'm probably more vanilla than vanilla ice cream. Though I am getting into clubs, and socials.

You didn't before?: No, not at all. Only started this year, and to be honest I like them. Which is weird for me because I'm normally the least social person around.

Cock details?: I mean, seriously, before 2026 I didn't even know there was a swingers club not even a 15 minute walk from my house...

Dude, will you answer the questions!?: Oh, yeah. Sorry, what was the question?

Nevermind. What are you looking for?: I like chatting and friendship. Anything else is a bonus

Seriously?: Yeah, listen - I actually find it hard to talk about "sheks" - I get all awkward about it. Dunno why... Maybe I'm secretly a prune.

You mean "Prude"?: Yeah, that's what I said.

You said "prune": No I didn't.

Yes you did...: Let's agree to disagree then.

Stamina?: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

What’s so funny?: Hahaha… oh, nothing… stamina… I got none.

What, really?: Yeah. Zero self control - it’s really something to behold at times…

Riiiiight… moving on…: I mean, a good day is me lasting longer than the first verse of so solids 21 seconds…

Okay, I get it: Good

Next question: Kinks?: Velma Dinkley

I'm sorry, what?: Did I stutter?

Dude, real kinks: Okay, fine. But I'm awkward, remember?

Like, dom, sub, anything like that?: None, really. I’m just… me.

Clubs?: Oh yes. You know, I never thought those would be my thing, but damn they’re fun.

Really? You never used to go to clubs: That’s not a question.

Wise guy. Why do you like clubs now?: I dunno. One day I went and I was like “this isn’t so bad”

That’s not how I remember your first club night… : Shhhhh… nobody needs to know…

Aren’t you super shy?: LALALALALALALALALA I CAN’T HEAR YOU!

What are you good at then?: … no comment…

Seriously?: … no comment…

Okay what ab:? … no comment…

You didn’t let me finish: Oh sorry.

You're shit at answering these interview questions, you know?: Yeeeeaaaahhh...

Stickers?: Huh?

Stickers - what’s the deal with them?: Oh, those. Yeah, I like using those name tag stickers to write my name out at clubs.

Hmm… that’s… kinda smart?: I know, right? Though they hurt like a bitch to remove…

Excuse me?: Yeah, after a night I might end up with a more bare patch of rectangular chest hairs.

So… not smart, then?: Oh no, it’s a big brain move. Plus it means I don’t get mixed up with Eddie Murphy.

Yer wot?: Apparently my “H”s sound quiet when I say them.

Oh, I see, a coming to Ame: Shut it! I’d be a millionaire if I got money for every time somebody thought that was my name.

America: … dammit…

Okay. Tell me about the balloons: …What?…

Balloons. What’s your deal with them?: …N…nothing… that’s classified…

You have a phobia of balloons?: This doesn’t leave this site, right?

Tell me: No.

Fine then: …

Last question, do you think anybody actually reads these?: Hahahahaha no… if I had a pound for every person who actually read this to the end… I’d have £2. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s just amazing it’s happened twice

Future Meets and Events

Club meet on Sunday 23 August 2026 in West Midlands: Chams BBW event!
At this meet looking for: F MF FF
Made it on to the guest list for my grand return to Chams for the BBW event! Deciding what hat to wear this time…

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Hakeem

36 years old, Straight

5'6" 168cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 25 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Safe Sex, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys

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*unny girl7 (51), Woman on 3 August 2026 by Meeting in person:
Shiver me timbers! I bumped into a swashbuckling sexy pirate @Clubalchemys DV party at the weekend. A mutual friend had introduced us at a previous party so there was no need for a formal introduction,and we soon made our way to a private room. Things got very hot indeed,I wont go into too much detail however I will let you know that this gentleman has oral skills that are just out of this world..... Hope to have the pleasure of walking the plank with you again soon. X

*ust ms lovin (43), Woman on 3 August 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had previously met this one at the SSP party, but I definitely wasn't expecting our second meeting to be quite so eventful... and I'm certainly not complaining! That bingo sheet definitely made sure neither of us had a quiet night. From the moment we bumped into each other, I had a feeling we were going to cause a bit of trouble, and you certainly didn't disappoint. No need to apologise about the drink, it was a small price to pay for everything that happened on that very hot dance floor. I don't think either of us expected things to escalate quite that quickly, but I'm glad they did. You're every bit as cheeky and funny as I remembered, . An incredible kisser, dangerously addictive companyYou certainly know how to keep a woman entertained, and I don't think I'll be forgetting that dance floor any time soon. Safe to say you've left me wanting more I can't wait to see what trouble we get ourselves into next time. MWAH Ms.... xx

*S PARTIES (42), Couple on 29 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for joining us at our Taste The Chocolate Soirée, it's you gorgeous people that help make these nights unforgettable. The first event in TTC's new home and what an absolutely banger it was! You brought the sexy and then some! The vibes you created really helped shape the atmosphere, you came through with that energy and respect and a little extra spice, that makes a night feel good as well as super sexy! Not sure which the guests loved more his outfit or Patrick the Parrot! Much love and appreciation for coming out to support us, hope to see you again at many more events. Until then keep it sexy and take care, Rosie and Dee x

*alistra (36), Woman on 28 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
After chatting for a bit we got to meet via SSP. Fan skills are immaculate as were the ruffles. Very approachable and easy to chat to and have a laugh with. Now where's that 4 at hahah

*ove2play8381 (43), Couple on 26 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was a pleasure to finally get to meet this hot guy at the SSP Taste the chocolate event last night! He definitely stole the show dressed in full pirate mode complete with parrot, which perched on him in interesting places ;-). Full of fun and a lady pleaser we really enjoyed chatting with you! Can’t wait to see what you come as next time! Until then, much love C&M xx

*exy-Blue (51), Woman on 26 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Ladies, what can I say about this absolute legend? Met at SSP event. He came dressed as a pirate, complete with parrot. Has the best FAN skills and knows how to treat ladies. Funny as anything. We didn't play but I know if we had I've have been giggling from far more than just being made to cum. Do not pass him by. Kisses Blue xx

*urvy and blonde (51), Woman on 23 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Chatted to this guy a few times now at different events and online chats he definitely lights up the room with his banter and silly hats looking forward to seeing you again at many events planned the same places as you see you soon x

*irmingham House Parties (35), Couple on 22 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Nineteen89 was at the last BHP. Was great as always to see him in our events. What a great and fantastic guy. Cheeky, friendly and funny but holds his own in the bedroom with shouts of joy coming out of any room he is in. The ladies were glad you were there. Thank you for coming xx

*exkitten2025 (41), Woman on 21 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy gent a few times now at different parties. Well what can I say he definitely got a soaking. Thanks for the line of the fan till next time xx

*usciousL2025 (49), Woman on 20 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
I have met this gorgeous guy a few times now at different events and always have a laugh and enjoy his company. He literally lights up a room. Love spending time with him and the ‘ice’ was a very welcome addition. Look forward to seeing you at more events xx

*exangel0.2 (44), Woman on 20 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Where to even start?? This guy first made his impression on me, with his awesome effort at a cowboy themed event! He's attention to detail and pull off a character is second to none. He's also incredibly funny and full of emthusiasm! A real gentleman in the swinging scene and beyond, but if I had known he was going to seize the moment and have his way with me, after kindly inviting him to peruse my mini fridge, I may have lied! Hahahahahaha H is attentive to the female form and certainly didn't disappoint! ;-) You can't miss H, he's always the one in the funniest fancy dress with a beaming smile! Don't let his charm fool you into thinking he doesnt deliver at the finale! Kisses, Kitty. xx

*unny! (43), Woman on 6 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Great to see you at DV on Saturday night. Thank you so much for joining us and making it a night to remember! This gent is everything the lifestyle should be about…absolutely hilarious, great fun and has an epic wardrobe of accessories! It’s a pleasure to host you and we hope to see you back soon. Bunny! xx

*leasinglipznhips (37), Woman on 6 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
An absolute gent over the weekend. So glad I finally got to speak n chill with you. Still scared from plain cheeseburgers. Until next time ?? Miss Hipz

*avidandclare (70), Couple on 5 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
I'd had my eye on this fella since he caught it at Chams recently (he's hard to miss in his light-up hat!) and I didn't have to wait long to finally meet him when he showed up at DV. It was worth the wait! Funny, sexy, great conversation and a fantastic, very girthy cock, which he knows exactly how to use. Hope our paths cross again xx

*atrionaSavage (52), Woman on 30 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this delightful man at the Chams BBW party. Lovely to both look at and chat to. His fan was very helpful to me in the latest heatwave. Look forward to seeing you again sometime, Cat x

*bw321 (34), Couple on 28 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
A very last minute meeting but so glad we did, he's very very funny, polite respectable made us feel immediately at ease and we both had an amazing time would love too meet again

*ambo919 (48), Couple on 12 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
What an amazing gangbang we had hosted by our friend here! He was so attentive and on the ball, it’s honestly the best meeting we have had thanks to this guy! He is a credit to the swinging scene, if you don’t know this guy then you need to, your find it hard to find such a genuine bloke. Thank you for today, looking forward to our road trip to a house party tomorrow x

*irmingham House Parties (35), Couple on 24 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
nineteen89 Attended the BHP event last night and what can we say, he’s a firecracker of a man. Lovely and fun. Lights up the entire place with his charm and he did wow the ladies who were lucky. We’re glad he enjoys the BHP and we look forward to hosting him again soon.

*windonSwingers (33), Couple on 23 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for supporting REMIX & the club review. Your support really does mean a lot to us. We really hope to see you again soon. Swindon Swingers Club Xx

*ord and Lillia (46), Couple on 20 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
We went to Swindon Remix last weekend and started having some fun in a public area. This handsome fella watched us for a bit before asking politely if he could join, how could we refuse? Respectful and mindful about boundaries, Lillia thoroughly enjoyed playing with him and would happily do so again. Thanks for helping make our night ;-).

*ockDuo (60), Couple on 17 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
A woman just can’t resist a man in uniform and I had been wanting to ask this guy about his hose when I first saw him! Luckily he joined in the fun on the swing as ever he did his profession proud being fully prepared and ready for the job. A great fun guy to know, polite and respectful and boy what a hose! Ladies if you want a big surprise you had better start a fire ):)

*ambo919 (48), Couple on 15 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting up with this guy again today. We all went to temptations together for the first time and played multiple times. As before he was very respectful, clean, polite and pleased chase with he’s oral skills and he’s cock. Pleasure meeting up with him again and we have scheduled our next meeting ?? this guys a real gent and so easy to get along with. Thanks for a wonderful day

*assyfun2023 (51), Woman on 26 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say .. after talking abit with Nakeem we definitely made up for it when we finally met at the Midnight Exchange Party in Cardiff this weekend.. such a great genuine respectful guy .. great vibes a laughter great personality… very sexy and when it came to the playing side well oral skills amazing and definitely felt amazing when fucking … I think the videos speak for themselves and what an amazing time had. I definitely look forward to our other events in May and definitely lots more fun to be had …. Till then babe try and behave lol xxx

*idnight Exchange Party (46), Couple on 26 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for supporting Midnight Exchange Cardiff last night! Your support truly means the world to us..We couldn't do this without you. Hope to see you again soon! ?Midnight Exchange Team xx

*windonSwingers (33), Couple on 25 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for supporting REMIX WELSH INVASION. Your support means a lot to us. Without you, we wouldn’t be able to do what we are. Thank you. Hopefully see you again soon. Swindon Swingers Club Xx , )

*avi12 (31), Man on 21 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met Hakeem in welsh invasion event , he was a nice guy.

*avanna40 (40), TV/TS on 19 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Well to say this guy is an absolute gentleman, met him before and can hold a convo, habe to say its always good seeing you see you soon hunni xxx

*ilkyHotChocolate (47), Couple on 19 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this sexy guy at remix last night. Fun , cheeky and above all polite and respectful, Had a couple of very fun play sessions with him during the evening and OMG he knows how to use his tongue...Hope we meet again soon xx

*aniellaDesires (39), Woman on 18 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Attended my TLC leaving party last night! Such a respectful man! Has a great cheeky smile and great conversations! Thank you for fulfilling 1 of my fantasies! DD xx

*tag and Vixen LoveBirds (37), Couple on 14 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Well after hearing wonderful things about Nineteen89, we finally met in Birmingham. He is such a laugh, bringing plenty of banter to chat groups and at events. Loved meeting you and I know the ladies enjoyed your presence. Hopefully we get to meet again. Vixen

*nn and Peter (67), Couple on 13 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this sexy guy on Saturday at BHP.T got talking to him and we went upstairs for a very funsexy time . We seemed to play together most of the evening having much fun. He certainly knows how to please the ladies. Very giving . Dont miss any opportunity with this great sexy guy.Till the next time . Trace and Steve xx

*irmingham House Parties (35), Couple on 13 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Wow, what can I say. We welcomed Nineteen89 to his first Birmingham House Party, and boy did he impress. He went all out on a cowboy costume for our wildest theme, and thoroughly entertained guests in social areas. His energy is top notch and he loves banter and joking around. That aside he knows when its time to get down to business and please the ladies in the bedrooms, making sure they were lassoed and teased with his cowboy weapon. Be sure to come back to us, we loved having you. Jery and Vixen

*eanne2022.. (46), Woman on 10 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting this lovely guy at BMFC.. he is a funny guy and very altruistic.. id forgotten my fancy dress outfit so he gave me some, he bought me a drink (very rare these days sadly) we had a chat and a giggle. He then said about his love of giving oral so we found a room and my word he has skills and stamina. Not to be missed xx

*isneyCouple85 (40), Couple on 6 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this friendly sexy gentleman on at our first ever BMFC event over easter. We bumped into him a few times through the night and had little chats. He then approached us and asked us to play which we were more than happy to, especially once P saw him wearing a label with the message 'Will you let me eat you' and boy did he live up to his offer! P had an amazing time being pleasured by this very sexy and talented gentleman. He is definitely not one to miss ladies. Hopefully we will meet up again for more fun at another event.

*windonSwingers (33), Couple on 26 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was absolutely lovely to see you all at our REMIX event. Thank you so much for coming out and making the night what it was! We truly appreciate your support. Every bit of it helps us work towards expanding the club and offering you even more exciting experiences in the future. Can’t wait to see you at the next one! Swindon Swingers Club Xx

*aniellaDesires (39), Woman on 25 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing human at Remix recently! He is just amazing Great team we made haha! Top wing woman! See you soon for more mischief! DD xx

*ambo919 (48), Couple on 22 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at Remix and the 3 of us had some naughty fun. Very polite, clean and friendly, easy to communicate with. Hopefully get to meet up again soon.

*hispers69 (68), Couple on 22 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Wow. What an absolute pleasure to meet this lovely funny sexy guy at Remix last night. We chatted in the bar and then I had a wonderful time popping his club cherry. His fantastic oral skills made for a very satisfying conclusion to a great night. Hope to meet again soon! Xx

*ellie49 (49), Woman on 22 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful guy for a second time, he is such a genuinely nice guy, the fun was amazing in and out of the playrooms. So glad I could help you tick off a few firsts, you always think outside the box to put a smile on someone’s face. Last time googly eyes this time stickers and allowing me to write over your amazing body. Enjoyed every second of the time we had together and wow what a way to end the evening Thankyou so much and can’t wait to see you again xx

*ravCouple18 (29), Couple (MM) on 6 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting this lovely guy tonight. Had lots of fun, and nice to just talk with as well :) Showed up on as arranged, no messing around. Hoping to get the chance to meet you again soon.

*he New Glos Social page (56), Woman on 1 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for joining us all at the Glos social look forward to seeing you at many more xx Mwah miss n xx

*igCock2Try (38), Man on 28 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
A complete spur of the moment meet that exceeded my expectations and more. He’s a v friendly guy, great to chat to and even better to play with. Highly recommend meeting him if you get the chance. Ladies, His cock is one of the thickest I’ve seen. Thanks again mate. ????

*ew Gloryhole (46), Man on 3 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
What can I say about this lovely genuine man....he's doesn't stop talking and has a great sense of humour...he made me laugh constantly. He is also a very sexy man with an amazing THICK sexy cock that I struggled to get all of it in my mouth (a first) lol Was amazing to stroke and suck him until he gave me a huge load to swallow...it went everywhere as well as down my throat hehe Just a lovely horny man who i would 100% recommend a meet with if u get the chance. Thank u sexy man xx