Woman looking for men, couples

Woman in Leamington Spa, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 days ago

I am a 50 year old bi-curious woman and I'm looking to meet men, couples.

Pretty open minded as to what I’m looking for on here, personally I need a connection, there has to be an attraction, chemistry, a spark and that can only be ascertained from meaningful chat and then a social.

I hate to be a bore but experience has lead me to have to lay down a few rules, please respect them:

I’m not looking for hook ups, so any requests to join you in a hotel later on in the day, just won’t be opened.

I won’t look at messages or profiles if there’s no profile picture.

Please don’t ask for face pictures, I will decide when I’m ready to share those.

Other than that, play nice, or naughty.

Perdita

51 years old, Bi-curious

5'5" 165cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
More than 5 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men
Aged from 30 to 55 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*red and daphne (55), Couple on 17 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of accompanying this beauty to the Warwickshire udp social. Pre drinks beforehand, great night, lots of banter, turning heads all night, and rightly so. x

*arwickshire UDP Social (56), Couple on 16 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Once again this gorgeous lady brought the sass, the charm, and a whole load of sexy to our latest Warwickshire UDP Social. She arrived looking absolutely stunning, adding a touch of Xmas pud glamour to the crazy Xmas knitwear, and dived straight into the games without missing a beat — total vibe from start to finish. From sharing mulled wine, serving sass, and demolishing jumper cookies, she brought fun and energy at every turn. Friendly, effortless to chat to, and the kind of guest who lights up the whole room the moment she walks in — she genuinely helped make the night what it was. We’d have her back at any event in a heartbeat. Can’t wait to see her again. Ali & James xx

*ukeTheDrifter (42), Man on 16 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We have been chatting for a while and the stars aligned when we were both in attendance at the Warwickshire UDP Social. Educated, funny, great conversation, well presented and incredibly sexy. I'm so glad that we finally met. Hopefully our paths will cross again soon :-)

*red and daphne (55), Couple on 16 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
After spending some time chatting to this very sexy siren and her partner in crime we all met up for a cheeky social. Laughs and banter ensued throughout the evening. Looking forward to catching up soon x

*ornycouple1978 (47), Couple on 4 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met J and K at a recent Bedhoppers social after first catching up together at the hotel bar. From the moment we sat down it just clicked—great chat, loads of laughs, and an instant connection. Karaoke with them was a highlight of the night (UB40 and Mr Brightside will never sound the same again ??). After the social the four of us carried the party back to their hotel room… and wow, what a night. Watching S and K together was insanely hot—kissing, teasing, and more… and when J and I joined in it just went off the scale. Both J and K are sexy, fun, and genuine people who made the whole evening feel easy, natural, and very, very hot. Looking forward to more good times with this gorgeous pair x

*handlerMonica (57), Couple on 8 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
We bumped into PB at the bar at the Warwick UDP social looking extremely glamorous and demure(her, not us!). It soon became apparent though that beneath that cool exterior beat the heart of a woman on a sexual mission! An absolute pleasure to share a couple of drinks & stories with you xx C&M xx

*akeMo (52), Man on 8 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Been chatting to the lovely K for a few weeks ahead of her first social, UDP. We met away from the venue and she walked in looking stunning. She may have been a bit nervous but she radiated with smiles and sexiness in her pink dress. Fantastic company, funny and engaging with those she met. She's about to start an interesting journey and I hope I can play a small part in it. J x

*arwickshire UDP Social (56), Couple on 8 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for being the absolute highlight of our tropical shite shirt soirée last night. From start to finish, you brought the energy, the laughs — and somehow, in the middle of all that wild print chaos, a surprising touch of sexy glamour. And let’s talk about that beautifully sexy pink dress… a total serve. Among the sea of neon pineapples and tragic flamingo prints, it was elegance, sass, and danger all wrapped in one. Absolute scene-stealer. You’ve officially earned VIP status for any future fashion disasters we host. Haha. Ali & James xx