Curvy libra blonde looking for FWB social fun and more ; )

Woman in Carlisle, North West, UK

Joined: 7 months ago
Last on: 18 hours ago

Hi! If you're not a quality intelligent guy and you don't know how to make a woman feel special you can bugger off now ;) My expectations are high xx

If your profile pic or name has any reference to cock I won't reply to any messages, I'm looking for quality guys and not desperate fuckers... thanks!

I'm pretty new to swinging and looking to explore on my terms! I'm definitely a submissive and I like an older 'daddy dom' type man ;) I much prefer sensation and pleasure to pain, not big into that at this point...

Please gents, dick pics are not something I want to see until I've met you and decided to take it further!! Size is also not of interest to me, before I've even met you ;)

Have had a 18 yr monogamous marriage... Still living with hubby and having sex with him but trying a more open relationship where we both have other sexual partners ;)

Moved to Cumbria from Hampshire last year... I'll be honest, Cumbrian is not my first language!! But I'm learning! ;)

Nothing fake about me - apart from nails sometimes! - what you see is what you get ;) I never use filters or edits/enhancements on my photos and I'm totally honest... I appreciate when men are honest about their looks/age/relationship status/etc! Just say it for what it is chaps :) I'm happy to be discreet if that's what you need!!

Looking for quality, genuine friends with benefits, not one night stands or fuck and go type meets... I love the social side and good chats, so if you can only do a quick fuck in a carpark now and again don't bother reading any further and certainly don't message me ;)

Definitely need to meet socially first to check we would work!

I'm not interested in meeting couples or doing threesomes at this point...

Anal is not my thing, but I do love kissing and licking... oh and sucking ;)!

I like watching football, I have adopted Carlisle United FC since we moved and I follow Man City (gotta love Haaland!) ... I also love rock music :)

I hate religion and politics... oh and Donald Trump so if you're passionate about any of those move along please chaps ;)

Don't even think about messaging me if you're a smoker, jobless or car-less and you can't afford to look after a quality lady LOL! Oh and by the way, good personal hygiene is a biggie for me too ;) I like my men well dressed and smelling good xx

Last STI tests negative [hidden].

Positive vibes only!

Xx PurpleMama xX

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Lyd

40 years old, Straight

5'3" 160cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Regular drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 40 to 60
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Toys

Verified Genuine Profile

*ootlad101 (59), Man on 27 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Hi just to verify i meet lyd today she is a lovely good looking girl great smile easy to get on with has a body to die for we spent the afternnon in the bedroom all i can say lyds love making skills are unmatched very romantic and sexy what went on in the bedroom is private but all i can say unbeatable if you get a chance of meeting her please treat her nice and look after her a superb lady

*_temp_account (43), Man on 15 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Another meeting with that beautiful lady :) it was fun, both the social part (a dinner) and a sexy part I did enjoy it quite a bit :P Whoever is lucky enough to be with her, is - well - a lucky person.

*irram (50), Man on 31 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely genuine lady for a drink and a bit of flirting today. She is a sensual tactile sexy woman. I am very much looking forward to some adventures with her.....to be continued :-) Xxx

*unstuff (54), Man on 29 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met up with the lovely Lyd for a social a couple of weeks ago and we had a lovely evening with some great chat, fantastic food and a to a end the evening a little frolicking in my car. She is a beautiful looking women with a very naughty glint in her eye and doesn't stop laughing. The following week she told me she's got a hotel booked and would I be interested in joining her, well, how could I refuse. The evening, night and morning just few in; with not a lot of sleep had by either of us. I certainly opened her eyes to many things, as she will say herself, she a bit of a novice to the Fab world, but she was eager to try and seem to very much enjoy herself as did I. I very much hope to be part of her continuing journey of sexual and sensual exploration. Fun Xx

*ordweaver2018 (40), Man on 7 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Lovely afternoon with this beautiful lady doing a little exploration! Next time we need a much longer session with far more time to explore! Thanks for a fun start to the afternoon gorgeous.

*imba the Lion (48), Man on 4 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
I had the pleasure of meeting Lyd recently socially in a peaceful setting and with the permission of her husband arranged a meet which was good fun. Please show respect to Lyd she is a lovely person. Hopefully meet again soon. Simba xx