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Woman in Oldham, North West, UK

... "So many abusive men on here. Just because you get told no. Sad.". 2 hours ago

Joined: 2 months ago
Last on: 28 minutes ago

Profiles are almost like instruction manuals. How are some of you still getting it so so wrong?!

IMPORTANT STUFF

What I want from you -

Single (I despise cheaters).

LIVE within 15km (9.5 ish miles)I dont care where you work, and your profile should match what you're telling me.

Be able to accommodate in your own home. No hotels, outdoors or car meets with strangers.

None smoker. Also includes vapes.

Send a face picture with your first message.

I do NOT want you to send a picture of your dick. Sending a dick pic without consent is illegal, even on here.

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Do NOT message me if you're not what I am looking for. Don't "just chance it anyway", it will be a NO, and it won't be a polite no. I am not here to chat, or give advice. I only want to speak to people I am interested in meeting.

If you friend request me without messaging me instant block. Also I ignore winks. So message. Or don't.

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A BIT ABOUT ME

I've been on and off here for almost 2 years. I know what I want, and what I don't want. I already have FWBs and FBs who don't live close enough. I want someone closer so I can meet more often. I have a friend who is my club buddy, and we see each other in and out of clubs. This isn't likely to change unless I meet someone I want a relationship with, so don't ask me to stop seeing him. I am looking for friends with benefits, the social as well as the sexual side. Not looking for one offs.

I am single but cannot accommodate. I won't meet smokers or people who do drugs of any kind. I am not 420 friendly.

I like people who are fun, adventurous, talkative, confident and energetic. I have ADHD and would like to meet people who match my energy. I am attracted to personality over looks, which means I'm also put off by personality.

I enjoy lots of sex, socialising, walking, gym, swimming, cinema, films at home snuggled on the sofa. I love halloween, and any opportunities I get to dress up.

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WHEN IT COMES TO MEETING

Social first, in a public place, always, no exceptions.

Somewhere quiet but casual; cafe, pub etc. Not a restaurant.

We pay for ourselves.

We make our own way there.

This is not a sex guarantee, it is to see how we get on.

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TURN ONS

Smiles, kisses, touching, long sessions in bed, quickies, outside, car fun, teasing, giving oral, MMF, MFF, swapping, swinging clubs.

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TURN OFFS

If you have pictures or videos of you with someone on your profile. Wearing masks in your pictures. Talking about sex in the first message. Hidden profiles. Calling me pet names like love, babe, honey, darling, miss, missy, Mrs, hun, etc. Foot kinks. Massages, being treated, sub/dom, BDSM, DDLG, mummy/daddy, sending my used underwear, anal, rimming, pegging or anything to do with bums, humiliating or being humiliated, breastfeeding, paying, being paid, watching on cams, phone or video sex with people I have never met. Sexual messages from people I don't know. Also, cringey usernames.

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46 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 30 to 40
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes

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Verified Genuine Profile

*ister Meaner (36), Man on 11 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Very down to earth and easy to speak to, Red is definitely a friend anyone would want as she’s respectful, easy to get along with and will happily hang out & talk for hours on end without anyone getting bored.

*r79 (31), Man on 6 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Where to start haha, been meaning to meet for a while and finally got her in bed, came twice before I finished, so naughty and a tease, can’t wait to fuck her again and her her cum again

*forfun69 (34), Man on 26 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met for a social and they are lovely, had a laugh and chit chat ??

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