New to this, but genuinely focused on your pleasure and chemistry

Man in Sutton Coldfield, West Midlands, UK

... "Anyone interested in a telegram group for North Birmingham DM me your accounts to join?". Friday

Joined: 8 weeks ago
Last on: 2 days ago

Hey, I’m the nice guy who’s spent way too long on the sidelines of life ... solid career, responsibilities handled, head on straight, and no drama. But I’ve always known there’s a wild, passionate side I’ve been missing... and now I’m ready to explore it properly.

I’m new to this world, so I’ll probably start a little shy and slow while I find my feet. What excites me most isn’t rushing in ... it’s the idea of building real chemistry, deep conversation, flirty banter, and genuine connection first. I love the social side: a relaxed coffee or drink with no pressure or expectations. If we click, amazing. If not, we’ve still had a great chat and can part as friends.

What I’m really craving is the kind of filthy, brain-melting fun I’ve fantasised about for years ... but I want it to feel incredible for you too. I know women often need more time, attention, and different kinds of warming up than men, and I’m genuinely eager to learn exactly what that looks like for each woman I connect with. I want to discover how you like to be touched, teased, kissed, and built up until you’re dripping with anticipation. Your pleasure turns me on just as much as (if not more than) my own.

Underneath the patient, attentive guy is a proper dom waiting to be coaxed out by the right woman (or women). Once the trust and heat are there, I love the idea of flipping the switch ... taking control, reading your body, and giving you that raw, intense release you crave. I’m all about mutual exploration: giving as much as taking, learning your unique turn-ons, and making sure the experience leaves you satisfied, breathless, and smiling.

Looks aren’t high on my list. I’d much rather fuck your mind with deep conversation and teasing banter before we ever get physical. Real chemistry is what gets me going.

If you’re patient with a respectful rookie, or bold enough to help wake up the dom inside me, drop me a message. I promise the journey will be worth it for both of us.

My Fantasies (just for fun... to get your mind racing)

These are all about building heat together, focusing on your sensations, your reactions, and what drives you wild:

Teasing Lap Dance Takeover

You in black lace lingerie, stockings, garters, and sky-high heels, pushing me into a chair and grinding slowly against me. Whispering dirty promises while your body drives me crazy... until the tension snaps and I take over, flipping you and giving you the hard, deep attention your teasing has earned. How long do you think you could keep control before you’re begging for me to ravish you?

Unleashed Dom Release

Once the chemistry is electric, the shy side fades. I blindfold you, guide you onto all fours, grip your hair, and finally let the primal dom out ... pounding you deep, hard, and relentless from behind while I read every moan and arch of your body. The shift from patient buildup to raw, animalistic fucking that leaves you shaking and completely spent. Ready to be the one who unlocks that side of me?

Cock Worship Obsession

A woman who genuinely loves sucking cock ... dropping to her knees with hungry eyes and devouring me with her mouth, tongue, and hands until I’m throbbing. I love the eye contact, the enthusiasm, and knowing how wet it’s making you. Tell me, gorgeous... where would you want me to finish so you can enjoy every second of it?

Anonymous Blindfold Stranger

You wait in full lingerie and stockings, blindfolded, door ajar. I enter quietly and take full control ... touching, tasting, and fucking you however the mood strikes, focusing entirely on your gasps and shivers. Then I slip away, leaving you breathless and wondering. Pure mystery and delicious surrender. Would you leave the door cracked for me?

Breast Worship Heaven

You straddle my lap on the sofa and slowly reveal your breasts. I spend as long as you want buried between them ... licking, sucking, kissing, and groping gently then firmly, completely focused on making you melt from the attention. No rush, just indulgent, sensual worship until you’re aching for more. How long could you let me stay there, lost in you?

Public Tease Torture

Out in public, you tease me mercilessly ... brushing against me, grazing me discreetly, whispering filthy things. I love the risk and the buildup... but even more, I love eventually dragging you somewhere private and repaying every tease by focusing completely on your pleasure until you can’t take it anymore.

Garter & Thong Flash Game

Drinks together, but underneath your outfit you’re wearing sexy garters, stockings, and tiny lace. You flash them teasingly, letting me trace the straps and feel your heat. I watch your eyes light up as you see the effect on me ... subtle at first, then bolder ... until we’re both desperate. What colour would drive you wild to wear while tormenting me?

Voyeur Cuckold Show (if this appeals to you and your partner)

You and your hubby invite me over. You put on a show for me, locking eyes the whole time, moaning my name, talking dirty directly to me while I watch (and film if you want). The burning eye contact and your pleasure being centre stage... would you narrate every sensation for me?

Distant Naughty Tease

Once we’ve clicked, you love keeping me on edge with random filthy pics or messages ... a glimpse of your curves in lingerie, a caption that makes me throb. The anticipation builds until we meet again. What’s the naughtiest little tease you’d send first to make me crave you all day?

Naughty Car BJ Adventure

Parked somewhere semi-public in my car. You lean over, getting me rock hard with your hands and then treating me to a slow, sloppy, intense blowjob while the thrill of possibly being caught makes everything hotter. I love the risk... and the way your eyes look up at me while you enjoy every inch.

Which one(s) make your pulse race the most? Or do you have your own twist, fantasy, or specific way you love to be pleased that you’d want to explore together?

Mark

39 years old, Straight

6'3" 191cm
Slim
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 21 to 75
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Spanking, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams