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Man in Oldham, North West, UK

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Introverted, affectionate, and quietly intense. I don’t do crowds, clubs, or noisy chaos—I crave stillness, deep conversation, and genuine connection. I’m the type who thrives in close, emotionally rich dynamics built on trust and curiosity.

Physical touch is my love language—slow caresses, firm grips, the press of skin on skin. I’m drawn to warmth, but that warmth doesn’t mean softness alone.

Beneath the quiet is a sadistic streak. I’m not loud about it—I don’t need to be. For me, sadism isn’t just impact or pain for its own sake. It’s psychological. Intimate. A look, a whisper, a push that blurs the lines between pleasure and control. I enjoy exploring that edge where trust deepens, reactions are raw, and surrender is real.

I’m a nerd at heart—movies, books, story-driven games, philosophical rabbit holes. I want to build something layered: the kind of dynamic where kink, care, and connection all live in the same breath.

Not here to collect partners or scenes. I’m looking for intentional, emotionally intelligent connection—someone who wants to go deep, feel everything, and maybe smile a little when it hurts.

39 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

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Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 44
Won't meet smokers

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Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

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