Secret Desires lounge Portsmouth Venue

Couple in Portsmouth, South East, UK

Joined: 3 months ago
Last on: 16 minutes ago

WHERE DESIRES MEET REALITY

WELCOME TO SECRET DESIRES

Welcome to Secret Desires lounge — SD lounge , our private members’ adult lifestyle lounge in Portsmouth.

Created by Seb & Dulci, Secret Desires has grown from years of hosting adult lifestyle events around the UK into something we’ve always wanted — our very own permanent home on the South Coast.

We wanted to create something more personal than a traditional club.

A place to socialise. A place to make friends. A place to explore. And most importantly, a place where you can simply be yourself without judgement.

Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle, just beginning your journey, or simply curious about what SD is all about, our aim is to make you feel comfortable and welcome.

Inside SD Studios you’ll find a mixture of social and adult spaces, allowing you to enjoy the evening at your own pace.

There is absolutely no pressure to participate in anything.

Come for a drink.

Come to socialise.

Come to meet new people.

Come to explore.

How you enjoy SD is completely your choice.

Consent, respect, discretion and good behaviour are at the heart of the venue.

?? OUR BAR & SOCIAL SPACE

SD lounge has its own licensed bar and comfortable lounge areas where members can meet, chat and relax.

Secret Desires lounge is a private adult members’ venue.

We don’t simply allow anybody to walk through the door.

We want our members to feel comfortable knowing that the people attending have made the effort to join our community.

HOW TO GET ON OUR GUEST LIST

1. APPLY TO JOIN SECRET DESIRES

Contact the SD Team or apply through our official membership channels.

2. COMPLETE VERIFICATION

New applicants may be asked to provide basic information, identification and photographs as part of our verification process.

This helps us maintain the private nature of our community.

3. GET APPROVED BY THE SD TEAM

Applications are reviewed by real members of our team — not an automated system.

Once approved, you’ll be able to access our events and membership community.

4. CHOOSE YOUR EVENT

Check the SD calendar and select the event you’d like to attend.

Some nights are open to different guest types, while others may be specifically for couples, singles or another part of the community.

5. BOOK YOUR PLACE

Purchase the appropriate ticket or reserve your place as instructed for that event.

6. YOU’RE ON THE GUEST LIST ??

Once everything is confirmed, your details will be added to the guest list ready for your night at Secret Desires Studios.

Never been to a lifestyle venue before?

Don’t worry.

You won’t be expected to walk through the doors knowing everyone or knowing exactly what to do.

Our team will welcome you, explain the venue and help you settle in.

There is never an obligation to play or participate.

Plenty of people initially come simply to socialise, meet the community and experience the atmosphere.

secret

32 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Fabulous
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Desires

34 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF)
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cross-dressing, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*andw (43), Couple on 2 November 2026 by Meeting in person:
Second time we have been to SD studios and it just gets better... could not ask for a better club on the South coast... if you have not been you SHOULD....Great hosts, Great Venue, Great location...definitely will be on our regular list...

*abriellaGrayson (34), Couple on 18 October 2026 by Meeting in person:
The best organisers, their events are always great and a genuine lovely couple!! Always had a laugh and a great time with them, hope to see you again soon! X

*urious Couple01 (45), Couple on 3 October 2026 by Meeting in person:
Went to this club as part of a takeover and absolutely loved it! What a fantastic venue really nicely done, clean, modern and with loads of space for socialising, meeting people and having some fun. The whole place has a great feel to it, and it’s exactly what Portsmouth has been crying out for. We’ll definitely be back!

*ick and Red (52), Couple on 21 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Wow love this place, it is clean well organised and most importantly staff and owners are friendly, our first time actually having fun in play rooms and it was amazing. So glad we have a class venue in Portsmouth and hope to spend many nights having fun in this club

*rezfan (30), Couple on 21 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Hosted a great evening with a private photographer to allow us all to get lots of sexy photos. Great venue, great event and we will definitely be returning on a regular basis x

*tomiccouple500 (37), Couple on 20 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Another amazing night at SD studio. We attended the boudoir photo shoot night. Everything was organised amazingly. They had enough time for everyone to have there photos and a little playtime afterwards. We love this place and are so glad they are on our door step. Here is to many more visits ???? xx

*andw (43), Couple on 17 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
We have been to lots of SD events in the past and they are always not to be missed...S&D always make us feel so welcome, and clearly some real thought has gone into the new club we are so pleased they are now Permenently on the south coast.. ..... see you on Halloween...

*argotrobbie (40), Couple on 16 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Love this couple and have always enjoyed SD events. It has now got even better with SD Studios opening. A fantastic venue that pulls in a hot crowd. Can’t wait to visit again!

*layfulAbs (29), Man on 15 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Know SD for a little while now. Absolute lovely couple and very fun + sexy. Confident, easy going people who love to put on a great party. Excited for the next party and theme xx

*P28 (55), Woman on 14 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
I have had the pleasure of attending a few SD events at different locations, its fabulous to see they have their own venue dedicated to our pleasure. The new venue is a credit to them and looks gorgeous, with a bar area and play rooms all decorated to the standard you would expect from these guys. On top of that they always make you feel welcome and from the pov of a single lady they also make me feel safe.

*ayleigh Davis (47), Woman on 14 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Mr D and I have attended Secret desires events for many years and they've always been a brilliant night, with a lovely crowd and good vibes. They now have their own venue and it's stunning! Do get yourself along to one of their events.

*r and Mrs Davis (47), Couple on 14 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
Have attended SD for many years now, they are always amazing events and now they have their own venue to boot! The SD lounge is fantastic, plenty of room for drinks and socialising as well play space too. We've been there several times now and cannot wait until our next visit. K and P xx

*layingTogether21 (30), Couple on 14 September 2026 by Meeting in person:
We've been attending SD parties for a long while now! These two are it! They are wonderful hosts and know how to bring a very sexy group of people together! They are both genuine and beautiful humans inside and out and not sure we would have ever experienced the things we have without their parties! Their new venue is absolutely beautiful and we can't wait for many more SD nights to come! M&J x