Seeking a Spirited Spankee

Man in Frodsham, North West, UK

Joined: 10 months ago
Last on: 18 minutes ago

A confident, yet warm and friendly ‘emotionally intelligent’ hedonist seeking mutually treasured connections. No drama, no rush, pressure or expectations…just shared respect, expression and chemistry. I’m naturally nurturing and like to look after those who I connect with.

I’m passionate in everything I do, whether that’s in a purely vanilla sense, or in a more kinkily creative way, either approach can be fun and mutually rewarding.

Kinks include sensual/light/erotic spanking, affectionate dominance, teasing ass-play and taking my sweet sensual time to ratchet-up the tension in the room.

I do, very occasionally, spank and sensually discipline carefully selected submissive guys, but definitely younger than me and in good/average physical shape. It’s fair to say that different people bring forth a different approach and application.

I like to think I’m patient and understanding with those new to this particular fetish, so if you’re curious about receiving a stimulating and arousing spanking then get in touch. I love introducing this to new connections and them wondering how they did without it in their lives!

I don’t work from ego, so I welcome being guided by present boundaries and a submissive discussing their emotional and physical needs and desires with me. Through experience, I’ve found that the best sessions arise from clear and honest communication all the way.

I like to sprinkle in lots of affectionate affirmations to mix in with any strict time…and always some soothing aftercare available as both rest and chill together. I’m more sensual than strict… and more caressing than caning!

I like to really take my time in gently building up the colour on a presented bare bottom, slowly covering the whole area with a tingling and arousing heat. Spanking properly is a craft and done with spirit and care it can feel amazing for both involved. I never spank as a punishment, more the opportunity for someone to follow my orders with relish and share their submission with me in a sensual and respectful setting.

I like to get to know how others ‘tick’ and what turns them on, so I can then use that knowledge to heighten a sexual connection. I like to keep things strict yet classy and elegant, I’m an old-school gent like that. I like to think that I have the presence, confidence and tone of voice to conduct focussed sessions, so those in my company can relax and fully trust in my experience while I gently take the lead.

I can be playful, or a little more focussed…depending on the dynamic and particular needs/desires. Levels and boundaries discussed beforehand and always adhered to, I’m as much in control of myself than controlling anyone else. I’m a firm believer that submission is a gift and never a demand.

Equally at home sharing affectionate down time while enjoying a duvet and movie day. I especially love a drink and a chat with a like-mind until the early hours and getting kicked out of a restaurant! I’m especially adept with those new to kink and providing a safe and patient space for the magic to happen.

I’m experiencing with meeting singles, or anyone married/divorced….and couples too, as either a respectful participant or a witness/voyeur/photographer….i love discussing the perfect scenario with a friendly couple and then sharing in the magic!

You know that feeling of tingling anticipation when you’re looking forward to meeting up with a stimulating connection? One that feels natural and positive and that thought brightens your day? That’s what I’m looking for as a sexually creative man.

I’ll happily share more of my experiences and background with those who are already experiencing in this craft, or those who are simply curious and wishing to try something new. I’m a generous communicator, so I’m happy to chat, even without anything happening for real.

Bear in mind that I don’t use my phone, or any messaging apps, maybe email if we form a rapport on here. I always meet others in a public place/pub/cafe before venturing further, so that both can relax and feel safe. I can either host in my comfortable home or travel to you, as I move around most of the UK frequently with my business interests. Face photos supplied on request with those of mutual interest.

Seeking mutually rewarding chemistry, with emotional intelligence and a subtle sense of humour as a prerequisite x

50 years old, Bi-curious

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Regular drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 25 to 59
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Making Videos, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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