Experienced gent looking for new play partners

Man in High Wycombe, South East, UK

Joined: 4 months ago
Last on: 6 hours ago

Poly / ENM Brat Taming gentleman

Have been on the scene for 2 years now, have met some wonderful people and had a hell of a lot of fun.

Enjoy the social side as much as the play aspects of things.

I’m an empathic pleasure dom that adores taming brats and love a good dungeon, that said happy playing vanilla or kink.

Connection key.

Enjoy visiting clubs (PP, Ignite, VA) Music festivals (Shambala) and in general having a laugh.

One half of ShamFam with my lovely wife (we have profiles on most of the apps) am also in a poly relationship.

Many verifications can be found on our couples profile here, on swinghub (shamfam user name) and we are X (shamfam username)

Looking predominantly for solo connections with females and couples, that said both my wife and poly partne are also on the scene so connections as a twosome are possible too.

Below written by my wife as a fun date night task :)

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Introducing my husband:

Ladies (and gentlemen!), allow me to introduce my exceptional husband—a man so irresistible, it would be unfair to keep him all to myself. While we are primary partners and deeply committed to each other, we are also open to exploring meaningful and respectful connections with others.

Standing tall at 6 feet, He is the perfect blend of deviant and gentleman. His sexual skill set is well-honed, guaranteed to satisfy in ways that will leave you wanting more. He’s a master at creating pleasure, effortlessly using his hands, mouth, and every part of his body to ensure excitement in the bedroom never wanes.

His natural dominant nature, especially his ability to tame even the brattiest of partners, is as thrilling as it is respectful. He thrives in power dynamics, but always with an unwavering commitment to consent and mutual enjoyment. He knows how to take charge in the bedroom, but his focus is always on ensuring his partner feels safe, respected, and fully engaged. Consent isn’t just a priority—it’s the foundation of every experience with him.

But there’s much more to him than meets the eye. He’s one of the kindest and most caring men you’ll ever meet. A genuine listener with a pragmatic mind, he’ll make sure you feel heard and valued. You’ll never be short of engaging conversation or feel a dull moment on a date with him—his wit and charm will keep things flowing effortlessly.

First impressions? Expect to be impressed. He’s well-groomed, well-dressed, and can whip up a delicious meal that’ll leave you craving more—both in and out of the kitchen. And if things move to the bedroom, his stamina and enthusiasm, coupled with his considerable assets, will enthrall you from start to finish.

45 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Men Women
Aged from 20 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*ady_Siren (51), Woman on 15 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
This veri is long overdue! I've met with Sham on a number of occasions at various clubs. Respectful, intelligent gent and a great laugh. He should come with a warning as gosh ... outside of the various toys, he's very well equipped. A real delight socially and for lots of naughty fun. See you soon darling, Sx

*thcliath (43), Couple on 29 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
One of our favourite people on the scene, we're always delighted to see A&A! Must catch up soon

*uggerBeardandtheQueen (34), Couple on 29 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have played with this gentleman on multiple occasions, solo, with my partner and with his- each time very pleasurable!Met at VA FOF festival, but also did our first private meet at their house, and the odd club night out. We love this guy individually and as part of a couple. He is very skilled, has a whole host of toys and is a true gent to talk to x

*oweliktr (43), Man on 29 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
This man is a good friend and a stand up guy. One of my favorite humans, he’s a pleasure Dom but sometimes I wonder if that’s an excuse to get the aftercare cuddles. Now that he knows he’s bi, I figure it’s time to reenact our first threesome with the lovely Alice (my other favorite human) to explore all the new options??

*izzybirdnow (43), Woman on 29 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Where do I start again with this amazingly awesome individual? We’ve had the most wondrous experiences together and written some lovely verifications for each other, unfortunately my account was deleted and we’ve lost them. He is in tune with his playmates in a very generous way, I love his naughty mind as well as his big…. play bag! He is thoughtful, considerate, fun but most definitely a deviant in the most fantastic ways. I had the most intense, long, hot sessions with this beautiful human and we always part company with huge smiles, wobbly legs and in my case a red bottom! This guy is definitely one to play with if you love long hot sexy sessions, laughter and great aftercare. An absolute star that I am so absolutely pleased to have met and played with. I consider him a friend now, one that also blows my mind!

*osebud_23 (35), Woman on 28 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
This one is an utter gentleman, and both comes equipped and knows his way around a dungeon. Known for a while now and always lovely to see you at an event, Catch up soon! X

*r Dreamie (51), Man on 21 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
An is an absolute gentleman that we have know for a couple of years now. You are in good company and great time if you get a chance to interact with him