Cutting to the point

Man in Haverfordwest, Wales, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 days ago

Updated. This site saddens me. When it’s a case to get to know each other, the slightest view of an opposite view with the person you speak to results in them no longer talking to you. This place is jaded that people are waiting for failure to make themselves feel better.

Let’s take a couple I spoke 2 for a couple of weeks. Vibed and got on but the moment I mentioned something I kinda like but wasnt for them.. Instant block (btw nothing shocking).. BUT HOLD UP.. it was non offensive, in fact a compliment but just because it wasnt for them…after 3 weeks…no thanks..

People who ask for socials and want to get to know each other, are you mad enough to think you’ll agree on everything, arent minds as well as bodies supposed to be challenged… speaking of which…

There is no day and age or age range where you “dont have the ability to upload a pic”. It’s even worse when you have a pic uploaded and it’s years old!!

How about this for 2026.

Blank profiles or “fill this in later” - no please can you stop deluding yourself that will help

Yes ladies, you are inundated with messages from guys on a sex site.. What’s the point?

Can we also stop the whole send me drinks trend as well.

Old pics.. Is that the old Oh I cant take a pic issue.

Also if you want a face pic, it works both ways. In the day and age of equality how about its a mutual swap. If im going to send you a face pic and im not your type, say so! Don;t be ghosting and to that point what makes you think Im your type. No adult discourse, no what you you mean, instant judgementlism.

Thing is I know I’m legit.. I don’t have to post a penis pic because I have more than that to me. I’ve ran, cycled and travelled more than most, my dick isnt the biggest achievement.

Below is the cliched bull nonsense you have to write for this site. I know my worth…

Single, professional, clean male with no attachments (no hidden girlfriend or wife) seeks good clean fun. I’m always respectful, showered and fresh. Have own private secluded place :)

Exciting times wanted. No pressure or drama. It is what it is on this site. Happy to do a social before hand etc etc

Open minded and just realised I can have a bit of a dominant side when called upon.

Yes. I do have face pics but I like a bit of interaction before blindly sending out to the internet.

Some of my bucket list ideas

Another 3 some

mature ladies

And a few you can ask me about.

james

49 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 25 to 85
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

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