Bi social swinger looking for new friends

Man in Norwich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 16 hours ago

I'm here to meet nice people, and hopefully enjoy the company of some of them, in whatever way is mutually agreeable. I practice ENM, and have done so for most of my adult life.

I have a very busy life, so value quality in social interactions over quantity. I'm also very sapiosexual - people's minds excite me as much as their bodies do. If you make me think, chances are you can rattle these tired, old bones, should that be of interest.

In general, I'm very happy to chat to anyone, especially if you have something interesting to say (and I won't know that until I listen). Any other activities would normally follow as a consequence of that. In other words, I don't generally do spontaneous meets, unless they're purely social.

Single guys - if you want to impress me on here, put the effort in like I'm a woman (actually for a lot of you, put in even more than that). Also, the chances of me wanting to top a random cis guy are pretty close to zero. Very happy to chat if we share a similar outlook on the lifestyle, whatever your orientation.

Everyone else, please feel free to say hello. I do enjoy some of the local socials if I get the chance to attend. I don't regularly go to any clubs at the moment, but have done in the (distant) past, and would probably do so again if I were going to meet friends.

Other potentially relevant interests include cooking (and feeding people good food - pleasure takes many forms), and photography (I'm not a pro, but I know how to take a decent picture).

Face pics are friends only, but happy to send them out if we've exchanged a couple of meaningful messages. Dick pics are private, as if you need to check out my package before deciding whether to say hello, we probably aren't going to be compatible. Of course I'm happy to show them off if it looks like we may wish to become better acquainted.

Probably worth mentioning that I've lost over 45kg, and still have some ongoing health issues, though when I'm feeling good, I feel better than I have done in years. Needless to say, I'm body positive, disability confident, and generally like to make sure everyone feels looked after.

Neuro spicy, 420 friendly (medical user), qualified mental health first aider

Have an awesome day. :)

Dan

49 years old, Bisexual

6'2" 188cm
Ample
Smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*econdtimelucky (42), Couple on 3 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy for the second time at the Norwich Social. He is very articulate and interesting. Nice to have a good chat.

*oodgirl-89 (34), Woman on 2 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely chap at the Norwich social last night. Genuine, friendly and funny. Shared some very interesting conversations. Looking forward to catching up at the next one

*razychicklisa (55), Woman on 30 January 2009 by Meeting in person:
meet this guy and he is a very frinedly genuine guy defo worth a meet hope to see him again soon xx

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