Well-travelled. Selective. Discreet.

Man in Southampton, South East, UK

Joined: 8 weeks ago
Last on: 24 hours ago

Back after a long break — used to be here as part of a couple with plenty of good experiences and verifications. Life happened, disappeared for a decade… now starting fresh as a single guy.

Based in Southampton. Split my time between the UK and travelling — usually escape to Spain when the weather turns miserable here.

Pretty easygoing, respectful, and know how to behave — but I’m not here to waste time either. I like good energy, natural chemistry, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

Yes, I know it’s not easy as a single guy on here… but I also know what I bring to the table.

Ideally looking for a genuine FWB situation with a like-minded lady — someone I can explore the scene with locally and across Europe when travelling.

I split my time — half the year in the UK, the other half travelling the world. When the UK turns dark and cold, I disappear to my base in Spain.

No drama. No pressure. Just the right energy.

41 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 45
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Group Sex, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Swingers Clubs

Verified Genuine Profile

*onnieAndRide (43), Couple on 13 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
A really fantastic guy, very pleasant to be around. Really chilled and very respectful too all at our meet. You wont find a better guy in the next 10 years really genuine amazing guy. My wife really enjoyed his company and skills we look forward to a a great friendship with him and many more meets.

Friends

Ride (43) & Bonnie (41), Couple