Discreet disciplinarian!

Man in Belfast, Northern Ireland, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 10 hours ago

Hi there, I am a man who has a passion for spanking ladies bottoms! I have been spanking ladies since I was legally old enough to do so, and have no intention of giving that up anytime soon! I am married to a lovely lady who is totally vanilla, and therefore doesn't share my liking for the English Vice! There are many ladies on sites like this who have spanking marked down as an interest, but really all they mean is that they don't mind having their arses slapped whilst they are making love! I am aiming to meet ladies who actually like being punished, having their bottoms spanked, strapped and caned whilst indulging in role-play like naughty schoolgirls, incompetent secretaries, lazy housewives etc whilst dressed for the part! The role-plays will always end up the same way - with them over my knee, or bending over to receive their just rewards! However, I'm not a total cad - I will rub in Nivea or Ponds Cold-Cream into their red, tender bottoms afterwards, before any "extras" begin! Being married, I obviously cannot accommodate, but I drive and am willing to travel a reasonable distance, and I will also share any hotel bills or expenses. Mornings to early afternoons suit me best, but the odd early evening meet wouldn't be completely out of the question! I cannot do "drop of the hat" meets, I will always require a couple of days notice. I am a professional man, educated and polite, but if you meet me to be punished, that is what I will do, and I shall be very strict whilst the punishment is taking place!

Most of the ladies I meet have a high pain threshold, although some do not. That can be addressed, but please, no time-wasters! If you want to try a proper spanking, but haven't experienced one before, let me know! Hoping to hear from you soon ladies, especially the badly-behaved and naughty ones! NB: I get lots of requests from TVs and gay men asking if would punish them. I must state categorically now that I punish ladies ONLY! I'm not knocking anyone's life-style, it's just not for me! Thanks for reading my profile, hopefully it will strike a chord with some naughty ladies!

68 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 75
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Oral, Role Play, Spanking, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*addysbrattyfk29 (30), Woman on 21 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this absolute gentleman for an amazing spanking session and I can honestly say it was absolute pleasure! Kind, caring and just an absolute pleasure to be around, gave me what I deserved and almost a week later I still have the marks to prove it! Until the next time hopefully!

*ature sexy BBW (72), Woman on 8 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have known this lovely man for some time but had never availed myself of his services until yesterday, after an increasing interest in spanking that needed further investigation. J was very helpful in showing me his tools of spanking pleasure and describing the advantages of each one. We started off gently with his hand and moved steadily on until almost all had been tried. I was in total control at all times, as he said I would be , and it was a very interesting and pleasurable experience that I will repeat soon. Somewhat to my surprise the time flew by and before I knew it he was busy with the aftercare. (Arnica cream on my pinkish red bottom! Not as red as I had anticipated). A thoroughly enjoyable experience - that I had said I would never do! Never say never! Thank you J for making my first time so enjoyable A xxx

*rincesstaytay_x (31), Woman on 7 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy through fet for a spanking session. He totally put me at ease, we sat chatting over coffee for ages we almost forgot why we were there lols He was an absolute gent throughout, checked in frequently and when I need to call time he stopped right away. Definitely knows how to leave some pretty marks and looking forward to more experiences with him :)

*ohn_meat (62), Man on 28 July 2022 by Meeting in person:
We have met with Jim a second time. Hes genuine and trustworthy Good entertaining conversation and doesn't overstep the mark always being respectful of the lady. Will be meeting again

*elen 500 (60), Woman on 16 July 2020 by Meeting in person:
Met up with this gentleman for coffee a while back... was easy to chat to and very respectful... looking forward to our next meeting!!!!

*ohn_meat (62), Man on 16 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
Great chap indeed ....met him for a drink..very respectful to Jen and a great conversationalist too...certainly knows how to please a lady in every way...Will definitely be meeting regularly