Just a guy looking for a fun and sexy relationship.. .

Man in Chatteris, East Midlands, UK

... "(THUNDER) Sound of the drums beating in my heart the thunder of guns". Tuesday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 9 hours ago

Well hello i am commander and i am new to the world of swinging and possibly BDSM I am a sub who wants to switch but I would probably be better as a submissive who enjoys pain, i am still learning and would make a great canvass for someone to stamp their mark on if you know what i mean. I am here looking for a woman or trans woman who i can connect with in both a very deep emotional level and also a fun and adventurous level. I am a kind, caring, loving, and affectionate who will love you like no other, i am incredibly loyal to those who treat me right, I am also socially awkward too and quite shy though.

I'm interested in many things of the swinging and BDSM world and i am looking for someone to show me around and explore these things with, am not a big chap in that "lower department" so if smaller guys aren't your thing please don't waste my time..

i have been found at the annex from time to time, and i am easy to talk to feel free to come and say hi i don't bite hard at first.

In Vanilla life I am a security officer and You'll usually find me at home or in the car travelling around the uk or down the pub with my mates i am a fun and funny guy who loves a laugh and a joke but also has a serious side. I am easy to get on with and talk to. I love to listen to music of all genres and types. If you're shy its fine don't worry i understand that say hi or send me a wink and I'll message been here a while have met some great people and hope to meet more and hopefully find the one for me. X

commander.

44 years old, Bi-curious

5'4" 163cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cross-dressing, Cybersex, DP, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Toys, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*ABflirty (53), Woman on 27 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
I meet this lovely man at the Annex club and was feeling like I new no one but he chat to me at the bar and made me feel welcome x And told me about the club.

*erenakMackyasse (61), Couple on 7 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at the Annex Neon Party and had a great chat - we look forward to catching up with him again

*adam (39), Woman on 5 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Having met SUBCommander a few times at the annex, very polite and kind gentleman. Was a pleasure showing him my bag of tricks x

*nne Callan (55), Woman on 14 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at the GG at the Annex. Lovely chap, long may he be out of his comfort zone.

*k1bka (40), Man on 12 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Meet at annex his first night newbie night then greedy girls great to talk to and a good sense off humour lol and as for bdsm from what I Heard ASS OFF STEAL lol ??

*hirt_Potatoes (39), Couple on 10 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Honest, caring person. Really genuine bloke, met up regularly, even visited my house. Truly a wonderful man!!

Friends

The Annex (CLUB) (32), Woman
Simon (61) & Jackie (54), Couple
mike (40), Man
Lys (24), Woman