A cuddle, orgasm and a cup of tea!

Man in Maidenhead, South East, UK

Joined: 11 months ago
Last on: 1 week ago

Having been involved with this scene for a number of years, I know what I like and have a good idea of what I’m looking for. I’m a chilled out, easy going guy and looking for the same in others. This has to be fun and I do like to smile and have a laugh as as well as good sex.

If you’re looking for porn style sex, I’m not going to be for you. I’m 44 years old, in decent shape with a little belly but the connection mentally is as important to me as the physical one.

Like most people, instant connection of eyes meeting across a bar is a huge turn on. That first look and then look away gives me butterflies. I also feel better sex comes though from meeting someone over time and that needs to be discussed and nurtured.

I am looking for a down to earth woman or couple who would like to meet for a drink to see if there is a connection. I’m a sensitive chap but can be naughty and happy to take the lead when the time feels right. I prefer a curvy figure but don’t really have a type as such. If we meet, find there is a mutal attraction, let’s see how it goes from there. I’ve also had some bi experience and whilst it’s still a bit taboo for guys to be open, I’m very comfortable with where I am and meeting a bi couple would also be something I’d like to try again.

I run my own business which gives me flexibility and I can host and travel.

Please do get in touch if you feel like we might be a good fit.

Jay

44 years old, Bi-curious

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 35 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*ustful_Lovers (49), Couple on 19 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
This handsome gent joined us for a very hot Saturday evening playdate at ours. Having met him previously for a brief social, we didn't need any long intros before the fun started. Eager to please and R was thoroughly spoilt. Hopefully we can arrange another soiree soon. A recommended addition to any night in!

*andm200 (53), Couple on 6 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting J last night, what a true gentleman. J more than respected our boundaries and went at a pace that suited us. We liked how comfortable he made us feel and he was honest, friendly and very easy to talk to. Highly recommended! Will definitely meet him again xx

Friends

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