ENM Solo poly Dom

Man in Leek, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 months ago

• IG/FL: TheFilthEngineer

• Events: Riot | KV | TG | Townhouse

• 2025 plans: Club Love | KK | Euro trips (suggestions?)

• Looking for event buddies — London, Bristol, MCR (or elsewhere?)

• New house, new bar, new playroom ?? — parties?

Vanilla me:

Neurospicy but mask (too) well — I love the people I don’t have to.

Very demi and sapio — I need chemistry for there to be passion.

I’m a design engineer and unashamedly geeky.

I build, fix, and create — but it’s way more fun when we’re making something together.

??? What would you like to create?

Big fan of skill-swaps. I love learning new things and sharing what I know.

?? What could you teach me?

I flirt best by making ?? &??. Fancy swapping some recipes?

Adrenaline junkie at heart.

?? Used to compete in karate & semi-pro MMA… now I mostly just say, “I should really start training again.”

Big fan of strong, independent partners who know what they want.

Kinky me:

Golden rule: “BDSM is supposed to be fun — if it’s not fun, don’t do it.”

That’s how we keep it enthusiastic, informed, and ??.

Discovered the scene in 2009.

Dom with a laid-back style — strict when the dynamic calls for it, always with humour and a cheeky smile.

Happy with experienced kinksters or curious explorers, I just ask that you know what you’re looking for.

Poly life:

ENM before I even had the words for it.

Currently solo poly — open to good energy, authentic vibes, and memorable adventures.

TheFilthEngineer

43 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 40 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

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*andicorn (34), Woman on 20 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
Was lucky enough to meet this gorgeous man a couple of weeks back through a friend. Was told he was quite an expert when it came to anal too and he did not disappoint ... He trained my ass like an olympic Russian gymnast coach! ;) first gangbang experience and he helped to make it one of the best nights yet! if you get chance to play with him don't pass it up! Downright filthy in all the best ways :p and such a genuinely great guy too ... Proper gentleman :) Xxx

*irandpet (29), Couple on 7 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Known limits2push personally since I was 18, when I was new to the fetish scene he massively took care of me and has always had my back. He’s an absolute gem and a close friend. If you’re lucky enough to get to play with him he’s got a real mean streak but always is there with the aftercare when all the fun is over.

*lue-and-Grey (29), Couple on 16 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
Known this chap for year genuine safe bloke with an absolute evil twist! Dont mess him around you wont be dissapointed ;)

*esterLilac (41), Couple on 26 March 2018 by Meeting in person:
This guy came to our Frat Party at Townhouse. He embraced the theme with his companion and dressed up for the occasion. He seemed to have a fun night and certainly made use of the fetish facilitaties. Thanks for travelling up and we hope to see you soon x

*lue-and-Grey (29), Couple on 30 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Have known this guy for some years from various events in the midlands. Can say he's a good bloke with a wicked side aswell. Worth the meet! Especially if your after a Dom!