I'm just a a Lucky Dom looking to play

Man in Lewisham, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 week ago

Italian Dom, SE London (Hither Green) here, currently falling hard for Shibari as a rigger and loving every minute of it. Quiet, observant, but very approachable, if you see me at a club or social, come say hi and let’s see if we click.

# What I’m Like

- Calm, grounded, more listener than loudmouth, with a dry sense of humour.

- Big on honesty, kindness and clear communication. Drama-free, respectful and sane.

- Connection matters: chemistry first, kink second, orgasms third (ideally all three together).

# What I’m Into

- Dom, sexually and mentally; I enjoy taking the lead, setting the scene and turning the screw slowly.

- Exploring Shibari: rope, restraint, control, body worship, and psychological play when there’s trust.

- Experienced with CNC and cuckold scenarios as a bull, with clear negotiation, consent and boundaries every time.

# Who I’m Interested In

- Solo intelligent, excitable, submissive women who enjoy flirting, laughing over dinner… and then being used like a slut when the time is right.

- Couples where she is submissive or bi-curious, and he enjoys watching, sharing or cuckold dynamics, as long as everyone is on the same page and respectful.

- People who like to talk as much as play: share fantasies, limits and what actually turns you on.

# Vanilla Me

- Curious, always planning the next unplanned adventure: backpacking, getting lost in new cities, chasing sunsets with a camera.

- Passionate about food and wine: certified sommelier for fun, always hunting for little neighbourhood spots with great plates and better bottles.

- Love cooking at home and experimenting with recipes from all over the world. Feed me stories and I’ll probably feed you dinner.

# Get In Touch

If you’re a kind, intelligent sub or an open-minded couple who enjoys being both cherished and degraded, drop me a message and tell me:

- Your favourite food and where you’d love to eat it.

- One kink you’re experienced in and one you’re just curious about.

TLD.

Antonio

35 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

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*r and Mrs Navybloke (54), Couple on 2 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this wonderfully humble gentleman at a party last year, but our calendars only aligned last week. And wow! worth every second of the wait. Through shibari, he guided me into sensations and spaces I hadn’t discovered before. I’m already counting down to round two, to see where this journey leads to.

*heekypocketrocket (54), Woman on 5 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Wow! I met this gorgeous soul at s party and had an incredible time. My first shibari session. It was amazing watching him make it look so effortless before looking at the sexy results and realising my whole leg was almost braided with knots Then the leash went on and i was paraded around the party. Super hot ! There are many levels of dom. I enjoyed A, hes a gentle natured but firm dom. He isnt just good with rope. Hes sensual. A great kisser and as for the rest OMG. His xxxx is gorgeous too. We shared beautiful energy. It took me a while to compose myself after I was honestly on another planet! Cannot praise enough. Grazie mille tesoro xxx

*urnt oak couple (49), Couple on 4 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met Antonio at a private party last night and gosh, what a gem of a gentleman he is! Mrs greatly enjoyed her first proper shibari experience early on (there was a queue of ladies at the party to see what's this all about and believe me, definitely worth it!), while the group encounter with A. and other gents towards the end of the night was brilliant too. Highly recommended, regardless if you're a couple or a single lady. Hopefully our patches cross again ;-)

*arkchocolatepassion (38), Couple on 18 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
I’ve known this man for quite some time now, and we've met on a several occasions. He’s the perfect blend of charm, respect, and genuine sensuality. He introduced me to Shibari, and I can confidently say he’s incredibly skilled and knowledgeable. It’s also a pleasure to watch him practice Shibari with others. Beyond that, he’s easygoing, has a lovely contagious smile, and is such a pleasure to talk to and spend time with the hours just fly by when we’re together. He has a way of making you feel completely safe, which is so important. Probably, I have never met such a gentleman in my life. If you have the chance to meet this man, consider yourself very lucky

*rcandmrsl (45), Couple on 2 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this italian stallion at pink oyster party a real gentleman we didn’t have the chance to talk much lol but he showed my wife how good the dark italian is good in bed till next time happy swinging bud