Man looking for women, couples

Man in Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

Joined: 9 months ago
Last on: 3 days ago

Not here to collect matches or fire off copy/paste messages. I'd rather meet interesting people, have a laugh and see where the chemistry takes us.

Confident, easygoing, tattooed and apparently much better behaved than I look...Usually.

I'm attracted to personality as much as appearance. Good energy, quick humour, a bit of mischief and someone who knows what they want will always get my attention.

I enjoy the build-up as much as anything else — flirting, tension, anticipation and that moment you both realise exactly where things are heading.

Open-minded and experienced, whether that's one-to-one, group dynamics, a little exhibitionism or exploring fantasies with the right people. Naturally more dominant but for me that's about confidence, attention and understanding the person I'm with.

You'll often find me at clubs and socials, usually talking to people I've only just met like I've known them for years, so if you see me come and say hello

Respect, boundaries and consent always come first. If you like confidence without ego, flirting without pressure and someone who can make you laugh while wondering what might happen next... we'll probably get along rather well.

39 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Dogging, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*CSwingers (35), Couple on 21 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met M at Xtasia alt night playing a spicy card game. He was a funny, a great laugh and such an easy to talk to guy. Was great to meet you.

*DSD9495 (32), Couple on 15 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gent in the queue at Xtasia. He was looking fine and had a personality to match xx

*ixie99 (26), Woman on 12 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this handsome chap a couple times now and accompanied me to a new club. Super funny, attractive and knows how to make you feel comfortable! Not to mention gives amazing head and left me very breathless, wet and messy every time ;9 looking forward to more adventures xo

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