Sexplorer with an appetite for fun

Man in Derby, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 5 days ago

I'm 50 and have been swinging and attending many clubs and parties for nearly 28 years. I'm also on the fetish scene but far less so nowadays.

I'm tall, not AMAZINGLY well built but improving due to daily exercise, friendly and polite yet filthy and kinky {I like the term 'Gentleman Pervert' as a description] and may be at a party near you sometime. I used to have a part time play partner - indeed, in the many years I've been playing, I've had several - but post-pandemic, I am now once more free and unattached. Whether this is a good or a bad thing is up to you.

NB [recently added] A few more things you may wish to know.

1] I am on the high-functioning end of the ASD spectrum. This may mean that sometimes, I won't know what to say, and on other occasions, I will ramble. This has also been exacerbated by the fact that for the last ten years, I've been living outside my hometown [London] in various Midlands-based locations where it's extremely difficult to make friends once over the age of 27. Thus, I'll admit, I probably gone a LITTLE bit stir-crazy from lack of proper social interaction- so bear with me!

Down South, you see, my social behaviour flows perfectly naturally, at least in the vanilla world: however, they're also all mega-woke and PC on the swingers/fet scene down there, so I don't feel comfortable in their clubs anymore either. I can't win!! Basically, if you understand all this from the start, we'll get on- at least in theory, anyway...

2] Despite the fact that I love hot, steamy, seedy, sleazy, sweaty kinky sex, there's also a gentler, far more romantic side to me- so I must therefore say, if there are any ladies out there who actually like kissing as well as fucking, please make yourselves known to me. Kissing is, to me, one of the most sensual, sensuous and sexy things one can ever do with another person- as long as it's done properly of course!! Ditto nibbles, gentle bites etc. Moreover, chances are the sex will be a lot better if this happens first- although obviously in a group/gangbang scene, this wouldn't apply. If consensually invited, jump in and get to it!!

3] It must also be noted that, though I am to all intents and purposes still a swinger, a kinkster and a 'gentleman pervert' who likes sex with multiple partners, I STILL sometimes entertain thoughts of finding 'that' perfect person with whom to share the journey. Ideally, they'd be about 30-40, intelligent and articulate with a love of good music, good movies and great sex, and possess the looks and aura of a classic English Rose, American 'rock chick' or Irish Colleen. If such a person still exists anywhere, again, make yourself known! Sometimes on today's Scene, I feel like I'm drowning in a sea of WAGs and chavs: is a touch of class really too much to ask?

PS I can travel AND accommodate, although I am reliant entirely on public transport as I don't drive.

And there you have it.

Tim xx

Timmylea

50 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 70
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Watersports

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*earandloathinginleeds (29), Couple on 14 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of chatting to Tim at Quest. Really genuine down to earth guy who is very cool!

*lub play (49), Couple on 11 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
This guy is a lovely guy who we have had the pleasure of having at our club. Genuine and a lovely guy. We're so very glad you had a good night and hope to see you soon. Paul & Dawn XXX

*egoalltheway (56), Couple on 28 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
We met Tim at Swingathon. In a whole event where we knew almost no one, Tim made the effort to approach us in a nice friendly way. S really loves interesting intelligent guys and Tim is all that and more. The conversation flowed and when in due course the opportunity came along to involve him in a nice little fivesome he fitted right in and we all had a fabulously sexy time. We’re very glad to have met him!

*incs Kinks Couple (40), Couple on 11 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
We met Timmy at the Attic last night, he's a chatty, warm and friendly gent and saw to it that some of greedy girl G's needs, resulting in a very wet and slippery mess. We had a good chat and quite a bit in common, will definitely meet again and things could get even more interesting! Thanks Timmy, for helping make our night fab x

*heLadyWithTheLegs (43), Woman on 30 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
I owe this lovely gent an apology for the length of time it's taken me to write him a verification... Meet the delightful Timmylea shortly before Christmas, when I was being a rather greedy girl in Birmingham... Had some very enjoyable playtime, and good conversation - thank you! Dx