Searching for a Woman with Sapiosexual and erudite leanings.

Man in Banstead, Greater London, UK

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

I'm single. Yes really!

Please do read on.

For a woman or couple on here to actually take the time to read my profile text, I am truly grateful. Thank you.

The traffic on this site is usually one way, and I fully appreciate the amount of crude messages and phallic photography you must receive.

With that in mind, I will avoid setting my penis as my profile photo, and I apologise to the vast number of women on here who love to see a TV remote control or shampoo bottle as a size comparison, it's just not my style.

I'm not here to entice you for a quick knee trembler in the back of a van, I still hold on to a glimmer of hope that it could be possible to find something a little more exciting and long term.

Why am I here instead of regular dating apps?

Well, I'm divorced and busy with my business, and after a long term relationship I feel the need to be me, and take my time a bit. Many women on regular dating sites are fed up of guys just looking for a hookup, so I feel it is unfair to go search on a relationship site, for now at least.

But I miss intimacy, flirtation, chemistry, dates, excitement and of course great sex.

Right now a "Friend's with Benefits" situation would suit me really well.

Not just sex, dates would be great too, and ideally regular/long term.

Also, I am not in to pressure in any way and I am going to treat Fab as I would any other dating site. Yes this is a casual hook up and swingers site, but I think respect and manners are still very much required.

In the past I have visited clubs like LB and Penthouse Playrooms and enjoyed the experience. So I am happy to continue with those visits in the future with the right person, but not essential.

Very open to meeting couples, especially those looking to test the waters for the first time with a Gent who is respectful and understanding of boundaries.

When it comes to the bedroom department I am very open minded, and in the past was told my category was "pleasure dom"

Which as I understand means I like to be very unselfish and please a woman, because I derive pleasure from knowing I am giving pleasure.

If you must know about size, I'm not a 12" monster, so if your profile says something along the lines of "Size Queen,BBC/BWC Only" maybe I'm not the right fit?

But believe I am comfortably endowed, and for a penis it is apparently quite an attractive one!

If your profile text says "will fill later" or "looking for fun" I'm not sure we will get on that well. I prefer a woman who puts some effort in to her profile, even on the murky work of Fab.

Your size, shape, or the fact you may have scars or lumps and bumps doesn't bother me. I'm more of a Sapiosexual and really attracted to a woman's mind, and sense of humour.

Thank you for getting this far!

If you like the sound of me, please do send a wink or a message.

TrueGent

44 years old, Straight

6'3" 191cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 25 to 70
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Safe Sex

Friends

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