Dormant/taking a break.

Woman in Cardiff, Wales, UK

Joined: 11 months ago
Last on: 4 days ago

I’m faaaar more interested in a face pic than a dick pic, so if you do decide to drop me a line ONCE YOU’VE READ MY PROFILE, please accompany it with a face pic.

I’m a little bit disappointed that some men think it’s ok to DEMAND a response. I don’t know you, I owe you nothing. Let’s get that clear. I have boundaries and I know what I don’t want. I lead a busy life, this is not my priority, it’s a ‘nice to have’.

I’m not a domme. I’m therefore not looking for sub/sissy men. I can switch under the right circumstances but need a secure connection.

I’m NOT looking for casual hookups or ONS. I can only relax and enjoy myself when I trust my partner. That takes time.

My personal safety is paramount. I will not be meeting you in a motorway service station/your hotel/caravan etc.

I will not accept friend requests unless we have met in person. I will not be giving out my phone number. I do not have Kik/Telegram/SC.

If your initial efforts of reaching out include ‘Hi’, ‘How are you?’, ‘How was your day/weekend?’ ‘What do you have planned?’ I will assume that’s reflective of how things are gonna go in the bedroom and will not be replying, which would also be reflective of how I would respond in the bedroom given said stimuli.

I am not looking for PenPals. If you live more than 15 miles from Cardiff, we are unlikely to meet in person. I do not want yet another thing in my life that has to be organised before it can happen. You might be happy to travel (once or twice) but I’m not. I have better things to spend my money on.

I believe in the girl code. If someone thinks they are in a relationship with you and they have not consented to you playing with anyone else, I will not be getting involved with you.

I’m fussy about spelling, grammar and txt spk. I appreciate some people have difficulties here but you will come to hate me over time. I’m doing us both a favour!

The size of my breasts and the size of the biggest cock I’ve ever had is none of your damn business, so don’t ask!

Do not offer me money for sexual favours or in exchange for filming me/taking photos of me. I am not a sex worker. Not shaming anyone, just stating a fact.

Preferences/NON-NEGOTIABLES

I will not meet smokers/vapers and I’m not 420 friendly.

You need to be taller than me (5’11”+) It’s where I derive my femininity. It’s how I feel and not something I get from you simply telling me you’re ok with me being taller/bigger than you!

Got some get up and go. I lead a very active lifestyle and never watch tv.

Intelligence! I’m a massive sapiosexual and thrive on quick wit and deep conversations.

People who take care of their appearance. Tidy beards, ironed shirts, trousers worn above the butt crack and socks are a must! If you smell good, this will win Brownie points!

I go weak for toned shoulders and arms. Not He-Man but lean.

If you fall outside this criteria but decide to message anyway, I will have to assume it’s because you’ve either not read my bio or you have little to no respect for my boundaries.

I hope this goes some way to explaining why you may not have received a reply to your message. And also that it saves both of us a little of our precious time.

Thank you for taking the time to read x

Vixxen

49 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 35 to 45 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*oe joe love (38), Man on 1 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had an incredible date with a gorgeous, red-haired, magnetic woman who left me completely captivated. There’s nothing sexier than genuine connection and mutual respect — and we had both in spades. I’ll admit, I was a bit nervous at first, but she made me feel completely at ease. A lovely walk to top it all off — hopefully I wasn’t too rusty!

*IRTHYLAD20 (36), Man on 7 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely chilled afternoon walk with this beautiful women. Funny, polite, cheeky as well as absolutely stunning. Can’t wait for the next time xx

*epMan (50), Man on 10 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
What an absolutely lovely date with a warm and beautiful lady! I had the most wonderful time: treat this woman with kindness and respect and you will receive the same.

*hyguy_cymru77 (48), Man on 19 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
What can I say? WOW. A 2+hour daytime session that left me wanting more. Gorgeous body ideal for teasing, a pussy that gets very wet, the moans of pleasure an aural delight. Kinky fun including stuff that definitely wasn’t on my bingo card when I woke up. Treat her well, get to know her, and, if you’re lucky, be rewarded with a great time x

*hyguy_cymru77 (48), Man on 14 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady for a few drinks and we chatted for hours. Could have stayed in her company for so much longer, hopefully next time. Beautiful, sexy, intelligent, open, and easy to talk to, what more could be asked for? Was the kink conversation overheard? Probably, do I care? Not at all. X

*oetal_ecstacy (42), Man on 13 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had a few play dates with this lovely woman a in the past, I can confirm she is the real deal, very down to earth and a peiple pleaser. She knew exactly how to drive me toetally crazy.

Friends

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