NM/poly gentleman rogue seeking saucy shenanigans

Man in Tamworth, West Midlands, UK

... "Good morning, Fabbers. I’m off to Surrey on business today. Behave yourselves while I’m gone xx". 11 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 8 hours ago

Update as of December 2025:

Why hello there. Thank you for visiting my little corner of FabSwingers. I hope you like what you see. I've used this site a few times in my life. I was here in 2021 as part of a couple’s profile and then again for the second half of 2022 as a single chappie. I took a year out in 2023 while I mourned the loss of my brother. I returned in 2024 a Non-Monogamous partner in two polyamorous relationships. One of my partners lives in Australia and I see her once a year. My other partner lives in Derbyshire and I see her about half of each month.

My situation allows me to date and play with others outside of my Polyam relationships, providing clear communication is maintained. My partners are fully aware and wholly supportive of this, as I am of anything they wish to indulge in. This has resulted in some truly wonderful connections. My relationships, like my family life, do take priority over casual dating and play, and I do ask that play partners respect this as I will for them and their situations.

My partner in Derbyshire and I practise strict Parallel Polyamory, meaning anyone I engage with remains separate to her and that relationship beyond the who, where and when for dates. As I only see my Australian partner once a year at the moment that time is sacrosanct and we are not looking to add anything or anyone to that dynamic. Again, I ask that people who connect with me respect the way things aer with me, just as I will respect how you work. Wax play is solely for me and my Derbyshire parter, but other forms of play can be discussed as and when necessary.

It’s taken me a long time to get to where I am, and I couldn’t be happier with how my life is right now in terms of being with people, dating, playing, and forming relationships. For so much of my life I had to ignore this side of me because I either wasn’t in a dynamic that would allow it or I felt I was dog something wrong or abnormal. I’ve embraced the non-monogamous/poly lifestyle with open arms and I make no apologies for the fun I have now.

If your profile draws me eye then I’m likely to send a Wink in lieu of a message. I’m aware how bombarded the ladies of FabSwingers can get, and I don’t want to add to that. So, if I Wink at you it means I’m hoping to get to know you. I will also pay attention to what your bio says, shockingly. If you ask for a message instead of a Wink that’s what you’ll get. If I’m out of your age range then I’ll simply stroll on by. It’s not difficult.

I am based in the West Midlands and I live alone. Family commitments mean that I can't meet on the spur of the moment, but with the proper planning I can accommodate and travel. I can't drive, so any travelling I do will be via train, etc.

I will post wekly photos to whet people's appetite, and I have an existing gallery for you to feast your eyes on.

So, that's me. If we don't know each other yet why not say hello?

A little housekeeping before I let you go:

- Fully vaccinated

- Underwent a successful vasectomy in July 2022

- Receives sexual health screenings every six months

- Non-smoker

- Not particularly into drugs

Weatherwaxx

47 years old, Bisexual

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 40 to 60
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Phone Sex, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Adult Parties

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*lue_Oasis (36), Woman on 1 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
I've known this lovely gentleman for a few years now, and he is a delight xx Really kindhearted and pays the utmost attention to whoever he is with, and he's cute as well! Definitely recommend xx

*eidi3 (49), Woman on 4 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
What a great way to spend a Sunday, a lovely walk with a few amazing kisses, great conversation before indulging in a little bit more fun later in the bedroom. Let's just say his tongue works very well ..... A really awesome sexy guy x

*miilou (33), Woman on 8 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Wow! What can I say! Such a delicious gentleman! He made me cum so many times!! Definitely not sorry about the mess! My legs are going to feel it tomorrow! Can’t wait for more in the future!

*miilou (33), Woman on 31 August 2024 by Webcam:
Connected with this charming gentleman recently. The conversation has been great! Tonight I cheekily asked for him to control my remote toy on video call, to which he did & made it a delicious time! I definitely look forward to a prompt face to face very soon!

*ERENA7 (35), TV/TS on 12 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
I have known this HANDSOME, KIND, POLITE Man for Many years, since we were raving in Clubs. He is intelligent, FUN and though he is a GENT he is dirty where it counts in the bed.. made my eyes roll back I can say.. Don;t mess him around as he is one of the best people on here xx

*erendipity1978 (47), Woman on 26 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well, what can I say. Both times meeting this gentleman have been a lot of fun. An interesting respectful and friendly person to talk to and get to know. His skills in the bedroom are absolutely not to be missed. He’s responsive, attentive and was happy to match me for experimenting and seeing where things lead. Looking forward to meeting again x

*lue_Oasis (36), Woman on 11 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
I've known Weatherwaxx for a few months now and played with him on several occasions. He's definitely a good egg, respectful and fun to be with.

*oprocks (47), Man on 1 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
I have met this guy a several times when we were both in previous relationships and I can say that on each occasion he was the perfect gentleman and treated both the ladies with absolute dedication to their needs whilst remaining completely respectful and courteous to me. A pleasure to play with in and out of our clothes!

*lare87 (38), Couple on 4 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
I know Weatherwaxx outside of the play arena and have done for over 5 years. He is funny, kind and has a good sense of humour. Any lady or couple would be in very good hands with him.

Friends

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Blue_Oasis (36), Woman
Clare (38) & R (37), Couple