In Reading looking for kinky FWBs

Man in Reading, South East, UK

Joined: 8 months ago
Last on: 26 minutes ago

I'm pansexual, male presenting non-binary, not really interested in one-off meets, things are so much more interesting when there's some connection.

I have a primary partner in crime, she has a profile here but it's hidden at the current time. Any play involve us as a couple for now, although the exact nature of such play is open for discussion.

I have a taste for BDSM and am generally dom/top, my play partner leans more towards the sub side of things, but it isn't a 24/7 thing for us, just when we're in the right mood for a bit more kink.

I'm demi (as is my play partner), so not looking to rush into anything,.much prefer to meet first for a drink before jumping into bed.

Last tested early December 2025 with results all clear, and for the protection of my play partner it's important to say that safer sex is an absolute must.

Gary

53 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, SM, Safe Sex, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*exysussexcpl (43), Couple on 17 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this gentleman at a bedhopper event in December. He is nerdy in a good way and great to chat with. I'm sure we will be crossing paths in the future.

*heNewForestCouple (51), Couple on 17 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine and very engaging gentleman at an organised Social in Southampton. A few common interests between MrNFC meant there was plenty to chat about beyond the spicy and our mutual friends. 100% real, friendly, approachable and the right level of confidence that never veers away from the right path.

*ady Incognito (50), Woman on 15 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
A wonderful, genuine person and a sensitive, giving lover. I'm enjoying our play very much and looking forward to more!

*avla7799 (48), Man on 24 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this fantastic chilled gentleman at the Thrifty Shades Southampton social on Saturday. We had chatted prior on the event Telegram chat, soon picked up in chat Gary is a sci-fi and Lego geek - instantly knew we would get on when we met in person, especially knowing who Gary was accompanying, and oh it was very much the case :-) Gutted it was a brief chat, definitely look forward to our paths crossing again in the future!

*ady Incognito (50), Woman on 12 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
I first got to know Gary on social media and recently met him for lunch and a natter. He's an awesome guy, very caring and considerate, with a great (and naughty!) sense of humour. He's a lovely friend and a real gem of a person. :-)

Friends

D (43) & J (38), Couple
Gav (48), Man
A (50), Woman
MJ (55) & Ouizzi (46), Couple