In Reading looking for kinky FWBs (or vanilla ones)

Man in Reading, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 23 hours ago

I'm currently in a polyamorous relationship who also has a profile on Fab (Only Connection, currently hidden I'm afraid), but when I'm on this site I'm primarily playing on my own. We are open to playing together with the right individuals or couples, but if you message me here it is safer to work on the assumption it will be on my own. Of course, if anyone contacts me I think she may be interested in as well I'll let her know the profile details, so you never know...

Although I'm pansexual I'm mainly using this site at the moment to meet women, so any guys who message me probably won't be in luck. There may be the odd exceptions here and there, but I don't want to get anyone's hopes up.

I'm demi, so I'm not looking for random hook-ups or ONS. There has to be a connection between us for anything to work, and I would want to meet socially at least once before jumping into bed with anyone. Besides, sex is always so much better when there is at least a little connection there.

I have a taste for BDSM, and as you may have guessed from my profile photos I am 99% dom/top. I have switched occasionally in the past, but it's not common, if you're looking for a sub then I'm almost certainly not the right person for you. However, I have to stress that engaging in BDSM play isn't mandatory for me, there are plenty of other ways to have fun, and believe it or not, sometimes kink doesn't have to be involved at all

Last tested June 2026 with results all clear, and for the protection of my play partner it's important to say that safer sex is an absolute must.

Gary

53 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*uncouple153 (58), Couple on 22 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met G at a social event where we really enjoyed chatting and swapping stories with him and his lovely partner for the evening. Really hope we get to meet up again sometime! Xx PS - Loved the nails!

*ppox and Saph (46), Couple on 21 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was wonderful to meet this real gent at a social event on Saturday very easygoing and lovely to talk to. One of those people who is an asset to our community and it would be lovely to hang out with him again sometime.

*exysussexcpl (43), Couple on 17 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this gentleman at a bedhopper event in December. He is nerdy in a good way and great to chat with. I'm sure we will be crossing paths in the future.

*heNewForestCouple (51), Couple on 17 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine and very engaging gentleman at an organised Social in Southampton. A few common interests between MrNFC meant there was plenty to chat about beyond the spicy and our mutual friends. 100% real, friendly, approachable and the right level of confidence that never veers away from the right path.

*nly Connection (50), Woman on 15 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
A wonderful, genuine person and a sensitive, giving lover. I'm enjoying our play very much and looking forward to more!

*avla7799 (49), Man on 24 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this fantastic chilled gentleman at the Thrifty Shades Southampton social on Saturday. We had chatted prior on the event Telegram chat, soon picked up in chat Gary is a sci-fi and Lego geek - instantly knew we would get on when we met in person, especially knowing who Gary was accompanying, and oh it was very much the case :-) Gutted it was a brief chat, definitely look forward to our paths crossing again in the future!