Single female looking for casual fun

Woman in Worcester, West Midlands, UK

Joined: 10 months ago
Last on: 11 hours ago

NO DICK PICS.

Fastest way for me to lose interest is to send me a dick pic. If I can't touch it, I'm not interested in looking at it. So sending me a dick pic, or having your profile picture as a dick pic will get you ignored.

I do not meet up with random strangers for sex. If your message basically is "I'm free, want to fuck, the answer is no. The "friends" part of FWB is important. I need to know I'm safe alone with whoever I'm meeting.

If you've gotten this far, I'm on here because I want a sex life. Safe sex only, condoms are essential. My preference is meeting for a social first, and I prefer meeting people at Xtasia/Flirts in general as a safe location for me.

I'm looking for FWBs and I'm not asking for monogamy, in either direction. I want to experiment and have some fun. Since joining the swinging scene I have been playing with all genders.

I do not want to be be complicit in deceiving one half of a couple. Equally, if you are in an open or poly relationship, I want to meet and speak to the OH(s) BEFORE anything happens. If you lie to me about your relationship status,even if it's "only" omitting the fact that you are in a committed relationship, then you will not see me again and/or will get blocked.

What happens in a party, stays at the party. I am open to multiples.

Show you have read some of my profile by greeting me as Foodbringer. Just keep an eye on your autocorrect.

I want to be kissed and touched by someone who is proud to make me scream, rather than lying their like a toy and making me achieve my own orgasm. I am proud when I make my partner orgasm, I want somebody with equal enthusiasm.

I'm not looking for a huge male. I have some pain issues, and 7+ inches is a "handle with care" situation, rather than an easy party.

No means no. Stop means stop, and wait means wait. Otherwise I'm open to games, roleplay, dress up, "how many positions can we try," oral, anal, I think most situations where privacy from the general public can be achieved.

Please bear with me, I am not the fastest at working my way through my messages, and I am still learning how to use the site. So far, I'm finding features that I want to play with, like forums.

I like the idea of a clothed first meet over the web cam to see who I'm talking to, before a f2f meet up.

Gemma

42 years old, Bi-curious

5'5" 165cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Men Women
Aged from 25 to 58 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Group Sex, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*BW_Bi (36), Woman on 14 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this beautiful woman and her friend at Xtasia, they made me feel so good, beautiful inside and out, hope to see her in the future :)

*onfidential Encounters (43), Couple on 5 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
We had the great pleasure of meeting this lovely lady at FFFF event at Xtasia, was a great pleasure to chat with so welcoming and friendly, stunning inside and out x

*picyBerryx (41), Woman on 17 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
I recently met this wonderful lady at a Scissor Sisters event and had the pleasure of sharing in a beautifully sensual experience together as we focused on pleasuring another lady between us. Everything flowed naturally, and I truly enjoyed witnessing their massage skills in action x

*andJW (49), Couple on 14 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing lady at the Scissor Sisters party and very much enjoyed watching her massage skills in action! X

*ew to this life (40), Couple on 9 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady at the Lock and Key event. We had a lovely chat, she was really down to earth and sweet. We hope to meet again x

*inxy550 (55), Woman on 8 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Bumped into this stunner last night at the lock & key event. Was nice to see a familiar face. Gem looked lovely in her lingerie and oozed confidence dancing around . Didn’t get a chance to say goodbye as she was otherwise occupied behind the curtain. No doubt I’ll see you at future events x

*ealhairy (60), Couple on 2 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely genuine lady at xtasia on Saturday. What a find. Totally honest in what she is wanting to achieve and brilliant to be around. We had a bit of a cuddle; hopefully a bit more next time. We found her awesome. X

*SM2024 (39), Couple on 1 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady at Xtasia's 80s & 90s night. Really sweet and sexy and it was our pleasure to help with a kissing challenge ?? look forward to catching up again x

*om and Jerry69 (37), Couple on 25 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
We have had the pleasure of meeting this gorgeous lady at a couple of events now, she is so easy to talk to, always great to see and catch up with, she has a very fun and playful personality and she rocks up looking stunning. Always a pleasure and until next time ;-) Tom&Jerry xx

*egs2Die4 (39), Woman on 25 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this little gem at Girls Night In last week. Does what she says and says what she does-easy to talk to and was eager to join in with the night activities! Hopefully see you again soon lovely x

*inxy550 (55), Woman on 10 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely genuine young lady and her beautiful furry friends today for drinks and chats. Was refreshing to meet someone that’s as down to earth and honest as myself. If you get the chance to meet her, you’ll be guaranteed 100% transparency, no hidden agendas and won’t tolerate fools. So he warned, treat this true Gem with the upmost respect and I’m sure you will be rewarded. Today a made a true fab friend. Look forward to seeing you at the socials in future x

*rizo (39), Couple on 6 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
One of the most genuine and down to earth people you could hope to meet, absolute pleasure to spend time with. Look forward to seeing you soon xXx

*oxx_W (32), Woman on 5 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Wow! This beautiful creature appears so innocent on the outside but she is absolute FIRE when you get chatting. She's cheeky, kind and fun loving. Had a wonderful photoshoot for her and her suggestions were brilliant! Great to meet you gorgeous ??

*arier (37), Woman on 4 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady briefly at xtasia last night as we were in the queue. Really sweet and friendly. Hopefully we get to chat more soon ??

*urple_rain. (35), Woman on 4 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met Gemma at the ffff event. She Such a lovely genuine and welcoming women to chat to. Next time I will find you for shots at the bar. Look forward to seeing you again. Maze x

*raig4973 (31), Man on 4 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
If an unassuming look is the sexiest thing. This lady is truly it! Do not let that smile fool you, you are in for a treat! A lady who knows exactly what she likes and how she wants it. And someone who delivers when giving back just as good too. Once the comfort is there, you'll never regret her company. Put in the effort and she will reward you in all the filthy fun ways. Also... ask about her massages!

*layfulguy123 (31), Man on 23 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Arranged to meet at xtasia, and had a wonderful evening. It all Started in the hot tub, where we relaxed and had a destress from the week chatting was really easy. We mingled and chatted to people we know before we went down to playrooms where I had the most amazing massage imaginable. If you like massages then need to see this woman Hopefully can help her with duo massages in future

*iper422 (37), Man on 22 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Well i must say gem was such a pleasure to be around great to talk to having a conversation with gem was really pleasant, and her massage's are the stuff of legend may need one myself lol will there be some play in future? Who knows but either way certainly one id meet for a social anyday

*unflirty 22 (56), Couple on 22 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We this absolutely stunning lady last night at xtasia. A quick chat but hopefully more to come in the future she looked absolutely stunning in her black and red outfit. See you soon L&J xxx

*hris and Zoe (41), Couple on 5 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to see you at our Halloween party, thanks for joining us and being part of a fantastic night. Look forward to seeing you again soon. x

*ess (41), Woman on 2 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Gorgeous human. Decent human! The rare kind that needs to be treated like a rare quality gem. Absolutely beautiful and a pleasure to meet at xtasia!

*cotforfun (32), Man on 2 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely social meet - time went by so quickly. Fingers crossed we can get to know each other better in a private setting soon.

*ALM (54), Couple on 26 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Spent a fantastic evening with this lady at Xtasia, looking forward a wet and wild time the next time we meet xx M

*h007dbs (42), Man on 2 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
After chatting with Gemma on here for a while we decided to meet, she invited me to her place where I was greeted at the door by Gemma. She made me a cuppa and we put the world to right. Then was invited upstairs what followed was incredible dressed to impress and so naughty loved every moment. Looking forward to next time already x