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Almost impossible. We’ve tried and tried and probably heard every lie or story they can spin just to get you to meet them. Will promise the earth about being up for regular meetings but in truth you will be doing well even to get one meeting from them and almost always are never interested in becoming regular in the slightest. We’ve had more luck on dating apps and finding guys who are not looking for first date fucks and are happy getting a few vanilla dates under the belt first with Helen then we introduce the fact we are swingers but looking to find a regular boyfriend arrangement. Some guys run for the hills but most guys are intrigued and want to find out more, usually set up another date style meet but this time hubby included so everyone knows genuine and on board. This approach has lead us to 3 longer term guys and all have become more than just sex meets. Sorry to waffle on but definitely looking on here just tends to lead to wasted time and frustration unless your happy with mostly one off meets |
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"Be single?
Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty "
Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??
Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.
Personally the last guy we had lasted 2.5yrs and ended up almost full 3 way poly relationship with Helen spending very regular time with him. We have a campervan and they would have weekends away together and sometimes all 3 of us. They had a week in turkey together and he joined us on a week in Spain. Our family had all met him on the understanding he was my good friend and I’m sure there was some strong suspicion of our arrangement. Luckily he lived far enough for no friend cross over but close enough to easily be together so his friends were all fully aware of the full situation. His job involved him working away so he didn’t have time for the full family life so suited him perfectly the arrangement we all had. Only reason
We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.
Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.
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By *entoMan 12 weeks ago
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
Arghhh!!! Why I can’t find people like you too in my area ?!?
Absolutely gorgeous!!! Nice profile |
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Mrs E is brand new to all this but I have had an account t on here for over 10 years that I am sporadic on until we made a couple profile and I know exactly where all these comments here are coming from we are just starting to come back on after a 2nd break because Mrs E has been put off by the timewaisters the last guy knew he turned Mrs E on so would message and tease her all up till she is basically there then just disappear for a day or days and this wasn't a 1 off this was loads had tk delete and re write profile 3 times as we were sure we must be attracting the wrong sort
When I was on as a single male and now we are on as a couple I can totally see why single guys never get a mail we can't even get to the social stage and really not sure what way we want to go if any couple wants to mail for advice or anything or just a chat we both use site so could be either messaging
I am not writing this for single guys to go try me blah blah blah |
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"Be single?
Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty
Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??
Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.
Personally the last guy we had lasted 2.5yrs and ended up almost full 3 way poly relationship with Helen spending very regular time with him. We have a campervan and they would have weekends away together and sometimes all 3 of us. They had a week in turkey together and he joined us on a week in Spain. Our family had all met him on the understanding he was my good friend and I’m sure there was some strong suspicion of our arrangement. Luckily he lived far enough for no friend cross over but close enough to easily be together so his friends were all fully aware of the full situation. His job involved him working away so he didn’t have time for the full family life so suited him perfectly the arrangement we all had. Only reason
We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.
Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.
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I’m intrigued by this post as I felt it was just single guys that struggled to actually find something a bit more regular and meaningful. I was on Fab a few years back, but got bored with time wasters and it’s still a bit of the same set up. I hope you all find what you are looking for! |
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I guess it all depends what is meant by a boyfriend in this context.
Is it someone to wine, dine, take out on dates, buy her gifts and presents, take her away on weekends… and then she goes home to her husband? i.e. a lot of financial input for a side shag with no commitment?
Or is it a just a regular “go to” person when the wife is feeling horny, with shared or minimal costs involved?
Both are fine, by the way, but I guess the pool of men prepared to do the former may be smaller than the latter and hence harder to find? |
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I guess it all comes down to preferences in what any user is looking for on here .
I'd hazard a guess that a big majority of guys are herefor uncomplicated meets where there is very little commitment required and the boyfriend label might just be a little to commitment focused for what they're looking for .
I think alot of guys get harshly judged for their preferences unfairly . Everyone's here for their own reasons .
Perhaps for the specific need and want of a boyfriend a polygamous based site might fair better than a site thats designed for swinging casual hook ups.
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here... ... ..."
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...she needs to leave the venerated land known as Caledonia and saunter slowly towards the Dickensian streets of ye olde London Towne. 😇 |
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I can as a couple I see the mail we receive and we are looking to be tempted into trying things we think we want to start with mr watching while Mrs is with a guy but the problem is virtually no mail we receive tempts her as they are either far to long and just rabbit on or short like fancy a fuck.
Mrs has to be attracted to the guy and has to be turned on by him and we have no intrest in bi guys or married guys that are cheating.
We are definatly not desperate so we won't settle for he will do we both know it will take time to find the right one especially on here.
And the way some guys speak to her is just vile but that is why the block list grows.
We are currently re writing our profile for the 4th time so thinking what to write but you say you don't understand women struggling well trust me there is loads of blokes but finding the right one a needle in a haystack is easier. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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The problem here might be that the most of guys just want to see your pictures, videos and have a wank. When someone asks about meeting in person they very often block you or disappear (work both ways though) I have a lots of messages even from guys who only want to wank despite of the fact I’m not bi or gay.
Would life not be more interesting if we all meet rather than dream? |
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"The problem here might be that the most of guys just want to see your pictures, videos and have a wank. When someone asks about meeting in person they very often block you or disappear (work both ways though) I have a lots of messages even from guys who only want to wank despite of the fact I’m not bi or gay.
Would life not be more interesting if we all meet rather than dream? "
Absolutely correct. I moved a guy from my profile here to verify as a couple for him, txt on phone, swapped pics, making arrangements, he knew what we were looking for and agreeable....then he disappears. Comes back 2 days later asking me what happened? All of a sudden he doesn't know "how things work"
Eh hello?
Pure gaslighters. How he is verified, I will never know.
Not to mention the straight guys looking for me to meet them for bi fun, and I'm purely straight.  |
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I'm genuinely amazed that you're having so much difficulty given the amount of guys on here, however my amazement is tempered by all the comments across many threads stating how poor some guys are at basic, polite and well written messages along with empty or minimalist profiles. It is tough on here as a single guy even when some effort goes into the profile and messages. I've sent many messages that haven't been replied to, I take it on the chin and accept that we all have our own preferences and I certainly won't float everyone's boat. If I had arranged a meet I'd need my leg to fall off (or similar) before cancelling. Hopefully you'll find the right match soon. |
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The amount of mail couples get on here and I can't talk for single females is unreal and it is impossible to reply to half nevermind all mail.
If your out in the pub and wink to someone over a bar and they turn away do you go running after them telling them they are rude |
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Personally I’m struggling to find the other way, looking for someone to be a boyfriend for in these situations and having no real luck, except getting the messages from guys on single profiles asking to meet them and their partner but when you ask to speak to the partner too… you get blocked 🥹
But, if any couples here are interested, my mails open and I’d love to arrange a date or 2 |
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I was a single guy and met a married couple for a 3 some and then ended up being the boyfriend of the wife for 9 years which was great so it definitely can happen, and it can work great.
If you have manors, make an effort and your a nice person good things can happen on fab for sure!
Btw this was back when fab was full of actual swingers  |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
What does the wife want in her bf?? How does this work around your marriage? I would, like many, love to be a wife's boyfriend.
There to please her, without having to do the housework? 🤔😂 |
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"Almost impossible. We’ve tried and tried and probably heard every lie or story they can spin just to get you to meet them. Will promise the earth about being up for regular meetings but in truth you will be doing well even to get one meeting from them and almost always are never interested in becoming regular in the slightest. We’ve had more luck on dating apps and finding guys who are not looking for first date fucks and are happy getting a few vanilla dates under the belt first with Helen then we introduce the fact we are swingers but looking to find a regular boyfriend arrangement. Some guys run for the hills but most guys are intrigued and want to find out more, usually set up another date style meet but this time hubby included so everyone knows genuine and on board. This approach has lead us to 3 longer term guys and all have become more than just sex meets. Sorry to waffle on but definitely looking on here just tends to lead to wasted time and frustration unless your happy with mostly one off meets"
I would love to find a boyfriend but I have found exactly the same problem on Fab.
Can I ask what dating sites you have used to find a suitable guy. |
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"We feel your pain. Exactly the same boat as us on here meeting good quality potential guys. Any ideas are welcome  "
I would suggest keep looking as only you know of any stipulations or specific attributes etc you seek |
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I'm open to this. I know that me being be scares a lot of couples, not really know why, but I understand, everyone has their preferences.
You can check my profile and my verifications, I'm selective about people I meet, I only meet people who I consider being in the same wave length as me. Down to earth, safe and happy with life. Being with an extremely hot person, not always results in a great experience, so I'm very selective when it comes to personality.
Anyways, I don't usually message people on here, if people want to chat they'll reach out. I send the occasional wink or fab the occasional video or pic, but I don't spend too long on here.
If you want a regular boyfriend in Glasgow city centre, feel free to reach out.
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
It’s not easy for guys either, too many time wasters have ruined it for single men on here, (hola to all who try to keep fab real) |
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Depends on what role you plan for the boyfriend.
Is the role just to go on dates and have some hot nights. Is the boyfriend allowed to see other woman in the dynamic ? I like the idea of a relationship only focused on the romantic and the sexual but ultimately it’s a lot of investment into a woman that ultimately is dedicated to someone else.
Being someone’s boyfriend comes with some responsibility beyond the fun stuff, I would deffo need to get more of a return than just being summoned at someone’s convenience. |
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I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.
We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.
It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there. |
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"Almost impossible. We’ve tried and tried and probably heard every lie or story they can spin just to get you to meet them. Will promise the earth about being up for regular meetings but in truth you will be doing well even to get one meeting from them and almost always are never interested in becoming regular in the slightest. We’ve had more luck on dating apps and finding guys who are not looking for first date fucks and are happy getting a few vanilla dates under the belt first with Helen then we introduce the fact we are swingers but looking to find a regular boyfriend arrangement. Some guys run for the hills but most guys are intrigued and want to find out more, usually set up another date style meet but this time hubby included so everyone knows genuine and on board. This approach has lead us to 3 longer term guys and all have become more than just sex meets. Sorry to waffle on but definitely looking on here just tends to lead to wasted time and frustration unless your happy with mostly one off meets"
That is not a waffle, that is very interesting. |
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By *exsaCouple 10 weeks ago
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"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.
We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.
It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there. "
I love this! Its great to see when it works. |
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By *bcplCouple 10 weeks ago
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Stick in there folks it does happen, my hotwife has had a few FB’s, they come and go, life gets in the way and it’s not always a priority but when it does work it’s worth the hard work and patience.
Ghosting, no shows, sh’t patter and guys down on performance are all part of the journey to that one right guy r guys  that click 
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"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.
We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.
It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.
I love this! Its great to see when it works. "
Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works. |
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"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.
We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.
It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.
I love this! Its great to see when it works.
Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works. "
How does your current situation affect meeting other women? |
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"I'm on the other side of this scenario, where I am the boyfriend, or in our view, partner is more accurate.
We're not local to each other, she's is Aberdeen and I'm Falkirk. We met through a dating app out with Fab, one of the slightly more leftfield ones. Certainly she had similar issues to OP, lots of guys messaging who were either time-wasters, ghosted her, stood her up or weren't "okay" with her being married. She was looking for a more casual boyfriend with occasional meets for dates and sex etc. She was always honest about it being okay for her and the other person to develop feelings of that happened. We met and have became long term partners with a firm commitment to each other. Neither of us were expecting it to become this serious, but it has. She is bisexual and would like to express her bi-side again as she hasn't for a long time. In time we want to look towards swinging together whilst maintaining our own relationship as well as her and her husbands.
It can happen OP, I think unfortunately it just takes a bit of work to get there.
I love this! Its great to see when it works.
Yeah, quite unexpected for both of us to be honest. We've just clicked and it works.
How does your current situation affect meeting other women?"
At the moment it doesn't. For now we're just concentrating on nurturing our relationship so it's not really a factor. In time we may choose to meet others together, or separately. She has no issue in me meeting others and I'd also choose to be open and honest with anyone else about being partnered. |
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I don't know why it should be so hard (ooh err missus!) as I thought most blokes would jump at the chance is something deeper than a quickie, and regularly, or maybe that's just me? I can see why time wasters put people off, just making it harder for genuine guys who get tarred with the same brush . |
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
I'm having the same issue with a girl, I see "I want regular meets" then after 2 or 3 they're gone |
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By *inghoyukMan 9 weeks ago
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I’ve done this before with a couple which lasted over three years. It was brilliant, but just required us to keep in touch and plan ahead for meets.
I’d love to find it again, and I’m verified through party meets, but I think it’s harder as a single bloke to find a regular couple! x |
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Suits some not others …
I travel with work so it suits me but as we all know couples / females get loads of mail so your mail gets lost sometimes or bulk deleted .. and on the other side spent time chatting , sent pics etc talked about meets picking up wife etc to go for a meal etc then they disappear ! And drop you a message a month later as if they have never spoke to you … er no thanks
There is guys out there that have the time and it would suit both , maybe you have to reach out to them  |
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I would happily apply for the role of bf on the side. The issues of wading through all the nonsense to find the hidden gems work both ways.
Couples and people in general can’t find the reliable single fella on the side. Or the reliable unicorn.
On the same token there are so many idiots and time wasters the profiles mentioned above are very dubious and skeptical leaving the genuine ones lost in the mix of shitty ones
Goes both ways. Best thing to do is to be patient, keep trying and eventually you’ll find what you’re looking for.  |
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This is an eye opening post!
Cant believe we have couples struggling to get a regular single guy to have regular sex with.
Seriously? Does this happen?
I recon this site is 50% single males, 30% couples. 10% single females.5% TV, 5% fake profiles and creeps.
From what i see its single males hunting couples primarily
Anyone struggling drop me a line
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"Be single?
Maybe guys get fed up of being a novelty
Bit of a narrow minded comment is it not??
Who has ever mentioned about a novelty as you have no idea what depth of boyfriend the op is looking for.
Personally the last guy we had lasted 2.5yrs and ended up almost full 3 way poly relationship with Helen spending very regular time with him. We have a campervan and they would have weekends away together and sometimes all 3 of us. They had a week in turkey together and he joined us on a week in Spain. Our family had all met him on the understanding he was my good friend and I’m sure there was some strong suspicion of our arrangement. Luckily he lived far enough for no friend cross over but close enough to easily be together so his friends were all fully aware of the full situation. His job involved him working away so he didn’t have time for the full family life so suited him perfectly the arrangement we all had. Only reason
We parted is he took a permanent job in Dubai so became impossible.
Maybe the op isn’t looking for this deep an arrangement but you me or anybody doesn’t have enough context to make judgments on whether or not it is a novelty situation they seek.
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Could start a long distance one as I'm in London x |
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"This is an eye opening post!
Cant believe we have couples struggling to get a regular single guy to have regular sex with.
Seriously? Does this happen?
I recon this site is 50% single males, 30% couples. 10% single females.5% TV, 5% fake profiles and creeps.
From what i see its single males hunting couples primarily
Anyone struggling drop me a line
John "
It’s because the majority of single males aren’t single and can’t commit to what the OP is looking for for. |
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"Would love to have FWB with a hot wife so she can go home and tell her man about her fun "
This - would love to have FWB who is a hot wife, with discretion, sending her back to her man fully satisfied, and her sending me back to my wife fully satisfied is a pretty big turn on for me. It’s just getting the discretion element for me - not everyone wants to be discreet it seems. Required due to home and work life, unfortunately but would love to experience this. |
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"Would love to have FWB with a hot wife so she can go home and tell her man about her fun
This - would love to have FWB who is a hot wife, with discretion, sending her back to her man fully satisfied, and her sending me back to my wife fully satisfied is a pretty big turn on for me. It’s just getting the discretion element for me - not everyone wants to be discreet it seems. Required due to home and work life, unfortunately but would love to experience this."
It’s the time to do it regularly. Everyone is busy these days |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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I have offered my services before. Discreet and easy going no drama and always respectful. Maybe I should say and do things all wrong. Maybe even get a answer if I did that. As shits seem to be getting more attention from the women on fab than I am. Seems you want drama. |
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"I have offered my services before. Discreet and easy going no drama and always respectful. Maybe I should say and do things all wrong. Maybe even get a answer if I did that. As shits seem to be getting more attention from the women on fab than I am. Seems you want drama."
But surely you see there has to he a connection and an attraction? And that has to go both ways. Very difficult to find, we have hoped to find a a reg fb for the mrs for ages. Its not just about someone saying i will. |
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By *iatorMan 5 weeks ago
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
Hey, I’ve looked at your profile I’m not believing you can’t find a guy and especially on here buttttt if you are struggling I’d throw my hat in the ring or anywhere else come to that haha. |
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I’ve thrown my hat in the ring few times with this person and they’ve not even read my message. Then I see posts like this on the forum and think, why am I even bothering reaching out. It seems the person is looking for attention and likes/Fabs more than an actual boyfriend, but that’s just my initial thoughts. I figured I’m wasting my own time with that so I’ve given up and blocked them so I don’t see them on my feed or searches.
My own search continues lol |
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"I’ve thrown my hat in the ring few times with this person and they’ve not even read my message. Then I see posts like this on the forum and think, why am I even bothering reaching out. It seems the person is looking for attention and likes/Fabs more than an actual boyfriend, but that’s just my initial thoughts. I figured I’m wasting my own time with that so I’ve given up and blocked them so I don’t see them on my feed or searches.
My own search continues lol"
Or maybe they are just not interested in you!! |
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
I'd say most guys would be up for that, but potentially think that they are not what you're looking for (type) and not message, try putting your type or preferences and that might bring more genuine folk |
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I like the idea of regular but I find I meet the couple . The say regular but not really as they start looking for more meets in between so I think it’s not easy to find regular which I would like. |
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In another life this is something that I’d have been interested in. Something regular and finding people you can get along with and connect with. Is far better than a one of meet Although these days a one off meet would be nice but far from easy |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"What does a wife have to do to get a boyfriend on the side who is not a timewaster. So many dreamers on here."
So..many weeks later, does the wife have a boyfriend yet? |
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Unfortunately for me it seems that once you get past 50 or 55 there are very few women or couples that want to know. I’d love to meet for a social, but even that seems to be difficult in most cases! |
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By *onnyMan 2 days ago
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Sorry to jump in on the conversation. I've been on fab for two years, and after writing numerous messages to couples, maybe 1% will even bother to reply. I won't lie, I already have one regular couple to play with, but it would be nice if I found another one. But 99% of couples act like kings, so if you can't find someone to meet regularly,you are clearly replying to the wrong people. |
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