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Hello there!

We’re the bed hoppers - also known as Mr and Mrs H.

We’re a 40 something married duo looking for couples and single ladies to have sexy times with. We like to chat and get to know people before hooking up. We enjoy the social side of swinging almost as much as the sexy. We love flirty, fun and sexy chat - but we’re not so keen on downright filthy messages and extreme close up pictures.

Mr H is the talkative one, especially on social media and would probably describe himself as a sexy hobbit. Mrs H is the flirty in person one, less likely to get excited about chatting online and wouldn’t describe herself at all. We like same room play, Mrs H is bisexual, Mr is not and we do enjoy toys (especially robots and transformers - well, one of us does).

We love a lot of nerdy things - from Marvel and Star Wars through to Gremlins and Labyrinth. Ok, that’s not a huge gamut but we also enjoy video games, great food, the occasional drink or three and chilling out to some great TV.

We’re not heavily into kink, BDSM and so on - we like to keep things light and fun. The rock up and fuck approach is definitely not for us either. We don’t play separately - we love being on adventures together.

We’ve been in the swinging lifestyle around five years now - so have definitely experienced the odd thing or two. We’re mostly based on the south-coast but we do travel from time to time (pandemic aside).

We also run the bed hoppers podcast which you can find here: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ue6PNBuMHYNkYfNev1JDr?si=ba3c8d01775b4887 and in most places that you find a podcast. You can follow our Twitter here: https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK

We do meet listeners (and also people who don’t listen). Feel free to message us about the show or about getting to know us better. Of course, other conversations are available. We’re always happy to talk about anything nerdy!

You may have also seen us on the Channel 4 documentary (Swingers) and on Youtube. We also run our own social events - look out for updates about those.

Single guys - we’ve blocked you as we got fed up fielding messages from single guys trying to hook up when that really wasn’t what we were looking for. If you do have a genuine question or have thoughts about the show, please email us at **dhoppersuk@... [register free to see email addresses]

Future Meets and Events


Club night on Saturday 24 September 2022 in Greater London: Le Boudoir
At this meet looking for: F M MF 
We’re taking over Le Boudoir in London with Wanderlust Swingers for a night of frisky flirting, frivolity and fun. Tickets include early access, welcome drinks, a private chat group and more. Find out the deets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

View meet listings, add yours at the Meets & Events pages.

Mr H

44 years old, Straight

5'8"  173cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Mrs H

48 years old, Bisexual

5'5"  165cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 21 to 55
Won't meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Oral, Group Sex, Adult Parties

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*orningStarWickedAngel (47), Couple on 22 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
These two are legends. If it wasn’t for this gorgeous pair we would have no clue what to expect from our first club experience. They were fun, friendly and downright sexy. We like the social side of this lifestyle just as much as the sexy side, and would really love to be in the (probably very long) queue to have a drink and a laugh with them! Mr H has excellent taste in shirts and Mrs H has excellent everything. Hope we see them both again soon xx

*hetwoofus. (45), Couple on 29 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
Well we don't really know where to start with this wonderful pair, sorry it has taken us a while as you know English isn't our first language, when we first joined the lifestyle we found their podcast and we had them cumming in our years for two weeks, when we came home we felt like we could conquer the swinging world with all their sound advice ha ha. (How wrong were we ha ha yep we fucked up and made mistakes too) We later reached out and low and behold they were real.....shift forward two and a bit years and we became online friends and attended the famous Bh 1.0 and Bh 2.0 socials and what a welcome we received it was like we knew them for years. The come together event that was organised was another amazing event and we were privileged to be asked to attend. Without doubt Mr and Mrs H are one of the most complimentary, funny, stylish, sexy hosts and couples we have had the pleasure of meeting and so happy to be classed as friends x We have tried to leave a trip advisor rating but couldn't find them on there, so we will have to do our special rating.......out of two we would give them one x x x Thanks for letting us come together We absolutely love you guys XxX Massive cwtches T & J X Roll on when we get together again x Thanks for being you x

*isterandMissy (48), Couple on 26 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
If you’re looking for a shy and retiring couple, these guys are really not for you. Mr H is a charming gent with the gift of the gab but Mrs H is no shrinking violet either. We were lucky enough to attend their VA take over and holy moly was she stunning! Fun flirty and intelligent company. Can’t wait to see them again xx

*randMrsC2019 (40), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
Although the amazing Bedhoppers don’t need us to verify them as genuine we want to at least show how awesome they are. After talking for a year with online calls we finally met them at their arranged social in Feb, we didn’t really get the chance to talk to them properly that night so made sure we spoke to them for their most recent social. MrsH is an amazingly gorgeous woman and MrH is amazing, both were the light of the party and made sure everyone felt welcomed! It was great talking to them throughout the evening and looking forward to the next time.

*infulcouple (41), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was amazing to be at your VA social. For our first social event it was great to be surrounded by such an amazing group of people. It takes an impressive couple to pull that many great people together. We look forward to chatting more next time.

*ikAsh (49), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
A massive thanks to Mr and Mrs H. The VA event was incredible... we loved it! Not only do they organise the best events, but they ensure everyone has a chance to get to know each other beforehand, via a well organised discord group. They really do go above and beyond to make their events super special, with the friendliest guests. We feel very lucky to have attended two of the events and hope to be at the next one. They are also a super sexy, fabulous couple xxx

*um and Pineapple (40), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
What amazing couple. Only got to speak to Mr H but Mrs H is stunning. They are amazing hosts and will hopefully get to speak and play with more in the future.

*oxmia98 (39), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
I can verify that these guys are most definitely genuine. Mr and Mrs H are our heroes, I (Penny) even went as far as sifting through their bins to find out what she would be wearing so I could match. What a fantastic event the VA takeover was (just wish we could have been there from the beginning. They really know how to put on a sexy party, they took the VA’s standard event name K.I.S.S very seriously by making sure they kissed as many sexy people as possible ;) We can’t wait for the next one. We are still buzzing from the weekend and feel so privileged that we can call these two our friends xxxxx

*ABootyHung (38), Couple on 25 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
You guys did it again!! Can't thank you enough for organising a great event with such amazing people. VA was the perfect place for it too! 3 for 3 now. Will definitely be at the 4th! You are both awesome, thanks again x

*rewanna151 (53), Couple on 12 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple at the Bedhoppers Social, well it was just as well we did as they organised it ! After online group chats leading up to the event it was fantastic to finally meet them both in person, great company, running a fabulous function, looking amazing and can't wait to see them again soon at the next one !

*umber_3 (47), Couple on 10 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met the delightful Mr & Mrs H at their recent Bed Hoppers social event. Awesome hosts, attractive, attentive and socially engaging. Very much hope to get to know them better and spend more time together. X

*izardJester (37), Couple on 9 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was great to meet Mr and Mrs H at their recent social event. Both were friendly and very welcoming, and managed to put on an absolutely fantastic event in a gorgeous venue. Thank you for having us and we can't wait to (hopefully) do it all again.

*inkyLoveLee and Capt WT (40), Couple on 8 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met the lovely Mr & Mrs H last year for a drink and a chat. They were completely open, honest and solidified our choice to go forward in the lifestyle… if it wasn’t for them, who knows where we’d be. We were also lucky enough to be invited to their amazing social last weekend. Thank you so much for the time and effort you put into it and for greeting us so warmly when we arrived. I think it was a roaring success and we had the best time! Xxx

*ABootyHung (38), Couple on 7 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Huge huge huge thanks to these two beauts for hosting another brilliant social event at a fantastic venue. We had such a great time and will definitely be at the next event x

*utieBi_and_her_guy (27), Couple on 7 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
The Bedhoppers , these two are absolutely stunning and have the personalities to match. We attended their social and were in awe of how welcoming they and their attendees were we hope to cross paths with you both again in the future x

*oprocksandCoke (43), Couple on 7 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Big shout out to these fantastic beautiful people. If you don’t know who they are get on vanilla internet and look them up, we honestly haven’t had better hosts at a party vanilla or spicy than these two gorgeous humans. We are already clearing plans and making recommendations for our next opportunity to mingle with these guys and their sexy friends!!!

*romNorfolk (42), Couple on 7 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Thank you to these two amazing people for organsing the Bed Hoppers 2.0 social, was a great event. Looking forward to the next one to see their gorgeous faces again.

*ed Petal (44), Couple on 7 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Thank you from putting on yet another fabulous social and for allowing us to be part of it again. You two are also some of the loveliest, generous, funniest and all round excellent people one could ever meet. We’re looking forward to the 3.0 event. Love, P&E

*axandmabel (36), Couple on 6 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say. These 2 are mega ! Sexy, beautiful and brilliant! We are in our way home from quite possibly one of our best nights ever ! Their social was perfectly planned, every person we spoke to was soooo lovely and we can’t wait for the next one !!! Hope to see you again soon , tracey and James xxx

*att damon (50), Man on 6 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful couple at their social. What can I say about the BedHoppers that hasn’t already been said… well nothing really, but it’s all true, they’re funny, fantastic, lovely people that make this world just a little bit better.

*ikAsh (49), Couple on 5 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met the super sexy bed hoppers at their wonderful social. Thank you so much for pulling out all the stops to ensure a fabulous evening. We met the loveliest people and had the best time in a very cool venue. Can’t wait for your next event… we’ll definitely be there xx

*isterandMissy (48), Couple on 5 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to meet Mr & Mrs H last night at their fabulous Bed Hoppers social. Great hosts, a hot couple and really engaging company! Hope we can get to know these guys better and catch up somewhere very local soon! Thanks for a fab night! S & S xx

*itenDays (47), Couple on 5 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
We finally got to meet this great couple at their social last night. Great venue and a great group of people were gathered. We are sure our paths will cross again and we are looking forward to more time in this couples company. Nitendays xx

*lueMaddy52 (36), Couple on 3 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
The lovely Mr and Mrs H proved to be the perfect hosts and were kind enough to ease us in gently (pun always intended) with a lovely evening in the ‘Hopp Inn’… A genuine pleasure to spend the evening with this fun, sexy and gracious couple; looking forward to seeing them again in the not too distant future ?? xx

*oxmia98 (39), Couple on 17 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Better late than never… we felt honoured to be invited to the bed hoppers New Year’s Eve celebrations, along with a couple of other amazing couples. Drinks were flowing, games played, laughter and giggles throughout and later exceptional play took place pausing just in time for some naked Auld Lang Syne. Everyone of the sexy party people are a joy to be around, we’d happily do it again next year and any other time of the year.

*rSpriteandMsClitBang (37), Couple on 12 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
We probably should have written these beauties a veri a long time ago. They are not just some of our closest lifestyle friends, they are bloody awesome people who we enjoy pants on, as well as pants off, fun with! They're both gorgeous and genuine, Mrs H does sweet and coquettish beautifully, right up until the point she starts running a teasing finger down your spine, and you know fun's on its way. Mr H is charming, and funny, and absolutely wonderful in ensuring everyone is having an awesome time, from providing brilliant playlists, to ensuring you are quivering from his exemplary skills. Just brilliant sexy humans. Nuff sed. Xx

*resh84 (37), Couple on 6 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely evening socialising with mr and mrs H! Our first social and they made us feel incredibly comfortable! A gorgeous couple inside and out! Look forward to more drinks in the future! :)

*oxmia98 (39), Couple on 22 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
We can’t believe how lucky we’ve been to see them twice this year and this time included, what felt like some long overdue, sexy playtime. We literally hopped in to their bed to warm up and soon found ourselves wrapped around this gorgeous couple. Oh my God, she's so hot, She's so flippin' hot, she's like a curry & Mr and his Rodius Prime, oh my! Neither of of us can actually recall how we got naked, but have left with some very vivid happy memories. Mischief managed? We hope not.

*heSchwingers (40), Couple on 21 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
A long overdue note from us to you. Our entry to the lifestyle is intertwined with you, your podcast, and your continued ambassadorship (is that a word?) of the lifestyle in such a positive way. We first met at ‘the borgy’ and you did not not disappoint, you greeted us with a cuddle and the warmest of welcomes. And… well there’s an episode of your podcast if folks want to hear more about that night. We’re gutted we missed your social, in essence, gutted we didn’t get to spend more time with you both at your social. We did have a great night at the brum social and have popped our social cherry. Can’t wait to see you both again xx

*odacious_Bunnies (25), Couple on 24 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had such a fun time meeting these guys last night. We’d had a good vibe from their messages so decided to book a hotel and spend the night on a first meet. After a really fun dinner/ drinks we ended up back at theirs. They’re both really witty, look great and so know what they’re doing in the sheets: J almost came early from Mrs H head game, abs G could have happily had Mr H carry on all night. Really hope to see you guys again soon!xxx

*EandLL (38), Couple on 24 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting these two at the Unseen Lounge. We've listened to the Podcast and did our best to avoid doing the whole 'I'm such a huge fan' thing. We waited for a gap in admiring fans to say hello and had a good chat about mutual connections and previous socials we have attended. We look forward to meeting Bed Hoppers again, perhaps at one of their socials?

*ecretVixenSecretStag (36), Couple on 21 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
These people are just legitimately awesome. Like, really awesome. Now, I know you’re thinking, “Wow, they sound pretty awesome”, well, take that level of awesome and double it. No, triple it. Now you’re getting closer to the level awesome that we’re dealing with here. Did I mention that they’re awesome?

*arah_kieran_uk (37), Couple on 19 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
What can we say that hasn’t already been said about this wonderful couple?! After years of listening to Mr and Mrs H podcast (listen if you have’t already it’s fantastic) we finally got to meet them in person and they certainly did not disappoint! They are every bit as charming and sexy as we had imagined. Although we didn’t get to spend as much time as we would have liked with them we intend on making up for that at the next event for sure. xx

*ivingOurBestLife2019 (42), Couple on 15 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing couple at their first ever social this weekend. They have done so much for the lifestyle and in particular us as a couple through their podcast we couldn't wait to meet them, and what a fun and gorgeous couple they are too! The effort that went into to organise such an amazing event with amazing people is testament to their passion and commitment to the lifestyle.

*ittyandtheboy (38), Couple on 14 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We’ve met the wonderful bedhoppers before, they are fun kind and generous. They also are an asset to the whole non monogamy community. The social they organised was the best lifestyle event we’ve ever attended. Here’s to many more years of the bedhoppers!

*oxmia98 (39), Couple on 14 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
They say never meet your heroes and there we were at the Bedhoppers social with these two amazing, sexy people. We started out in the lifestyle having listened to their podcast so when we were invited to the social we couldn't wait. What a fantastic event, so much work and creativity to bring lots of wonderful people together. We loved the online chatting and getting to know everyone beforehand. On the day people travelling from all over the country felt like a team finally coming together in a movie. We can't stress enough how much we loved being in a room with such a truly awesome bunch of open, friendly, sexy, hot, hilarious and caring humans. Any nerves just disappeared so quickly, though I (Penny) may have to start over with Mrs H after the attempted theft of pizza and pins was not well received!! However not apologising for olivegate #wasnotmyidea We really really really can’t wait for the opportunity to meet with them again soon, 8 of clubs it is. ;) xxxxx

*urvyemily (39), Woman on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
A veri might not do this couple justice, but I'll try ;-) Mr & Mrs H are amazing...social..friendly..sexy.. hilarious.. fun.. sarcastic.. beautiful friends. We have made amazing memories together. The social was amazing, can't wait for more. Thank you for being in my life and sex life :-). Mwah xx

*ineapple_shots (38), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say other than Mr & Mrs H are possibly our favourite couple on fab. Thank you for inviting us to your social. It was incredible. You both looked stunning and made the perfect hosts. Can’t wait to catch soon. Maybe even join you on a podcast. Lots of love and kisses Pineapple_Shots

*aughty Hubby n Sexy Wife (51), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Joined this fantastic couple for their first Social. What can be said they don’t disappoint, what a fantastic social and venue and of course podcast. Was a pleasure to travel well over half the country to attend. Credit to the community. Big Thanks R & R :-)

*isnerds (38), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Thank you Bedhoppers for having us at your social. We had the absolute best time. We will see you again very soon friends, we miss you already xxx

*urpees_and_wine (47), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had the absolute pleasure of meeting the bedhoppers (and a whole host of other great people) at the best social event in Southampton. They are a really lovey couple - friendly, funny and very sexy. Plus they arranged the most awesome Saturday evening event. We would love to meet you guys again for drinks, food and whatever comes next. Thanks again for arranging a great evening

*ed Petal (44), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Not that anyone doubted that the Bedhoppers aren’t a real couple of course, but we did have the pleasure of attending their social this weekend. It was an absolute pleasure to meet the hosts in person and to be part of the event. We can honestly say that these two are responsible for the best night of 2021. As well as that, they are amazing, gracious hosts, with an excellent sense of humour. We can’t wait until the next one. Love, P & E xx

*ABootyHung (38), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of being invited to the very first Bed Hoppers social and what a great shindig it was! Perfectly organised, with amazing people at an equally great venue. When's the next one?!?

*ute poly couple (40), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Having been such an important part of Virtual socialising to us during lockdown it was so lovely to meet you both in the flesh. Funny, creative, well groomed and sexy individuals as well as a beautiful couple. The kind of couple that make you smile to see them interact together because their love for each other ouzes from every pore. Thank you for inviting us to your social. Make sure we are on the list for the next one please! X till next time.

*hetwoofus. (45), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well finally got to meet the bedhoppers and yes they are just as amazing we thought would be, funny sexy and amazing hosts and all that jazz Thanks for giving us a social party that we will never forget big cwtches T and J

*isCockHerTail (40), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We were very honoured to be guests at the inaugural bed hoppers social. Mr and Mrs H did a wonderful job of putting on a fantastic event in a first class venue. We were delighted to see how relaxed and friendly everybody was a testament to the inclusive and welcoming culture they have fostered in their pursuit of promoting the swinging lifestyle. We can't wait for the next one.

*ineapple_shots (38), Couple on 3 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well our Monday evening was a delight! We met Mr and Mrs H for a social, what a great couple, very down to earth and funny. What a stunning, sexy couple, we would definitely like to meet again. We’ll be wearing our badge with pride??! Xxxx

*ecretVixenSecretStag (36), Couple on 15 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
What can we say about this sensational pair that hasn’t already been said? The bed hoppers are just the most wonderful couple. We have been very fortunate to build a lasting friendship with them based on our common interests ;) Mr H is a handsome gentleman who’s charm is matched by his cheeky streak. Mrs H is an elegant angel with devilish side! We have had some incredible encounters with them and hope to have many, many more! Please show this couple the love and respect they so richly deserve.

*anderlust Swingers (37), Couple on 13 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Mr and Mrs H are a delight, they are witty and have fantastic banter.. often times flying right over my head even though my reflexes are awesome. They are a fantastic example of pants on/off friends where you can visit HP themed bars, go to resorts with or play games into the early hours of morning. Glad that a random forum bought us together.

*isnerds (38), Couple on 9 February 2020 by Meeting in person:
Spent a wonderful weekend with these two tucked away in a barn conversion in Wales. Great conversation, lots of alcohol and some mind blowing sexy fun. These people are exactly what you would expect. Funny, sexy as hell and great company. We had a blast Bedhopping!! Until next time. See ya real soon xxxx

*ptownfuk (51), Couple on 28 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
We met these super sexy super cool hotties last night for dinner. Lots of laughs and stories shared and a good time was had. Lovely people and hot as fuk.

*exybristolcouple (58), Couple on 27 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely couple! They brought something ‘extra special’ to our recent party and after a few very pleasant suppers in the run up to our March party, we were SO glad that we were able to get them to come to our recent little event - SBC 7. They are a super attractive, sexy couple and are an inspiration to any party goers! On a personal level, their sexy couple play on the Friday night was totally inspiring for ‘Mr’ and ‘Mrs’ as things got hot, as they so often do during an SBC Friday night! They made a big impression on the other guests and we think that they might be rather ‘popular’ in the future ;-) To see 'Mrs Bed Hoppers' snogging 'Mrs SBC' in the midst of the naughty fun in the kitchen, brings tears of pride to the eyes of old-time party fixers like us. Gawd Bless yer BedHoppers! Let’s do it all again soon x