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Hello there!

We’re on an awesome lifestyle journey and would love you to join us. We are Mr and Mrs H - and we run a sexy lifestyle podcast called bed hoppers. Oh and yes, that was us on the Swingers TV show on Channel 4. Don’t let that put you off though!

Before we talk about us, please note that daft messages will get a daft answer. And single guys - we love hearing from listeners but we’re really not up for meeting single men - sorry but it’s just not our thing. It’s also important for us to stress that we’re a team. Mr H answers most of social media - so do keep that in mind (please don’t send us a dick pic or a clunge plunge).

So, who are we? We are a 40 something married duo looking for couples and single ladies to have sexy times with. We like to chat and get to know people before hooking up. We enjoy the social side of swinging almost as much as the sexy. We love flirty, fun and sexy chat - but we’re not so keen on downright filthy messages and extreme close up pictures.

Mr H is the talkative one, especially on social media and would probably describe himself as a sexy hobbit. Mrs H is the flirty in person one, less likely to get excited about chatting online and wouldn’t describe herself at all. We like same room play, Mrs H is bisexual, Mr is not and we do enjoy toys (especially robots and transformers - well, one of us does).

We do meet listeners (and also people who don’t listen). Feel free to message us about the show or about getting to know us better. Of course, other conversations are available. We’re always happy to talk about anything nerdy!

About the show

We talk about our experiences - and offer a flavour of what swinging has been like for us. We try not to take ourselves too seriously and like to have a laugh and make a bunch of movie and tv references too (we are nerds at heart).

You can find us on podbean, iTunes and a number of other platforms. We’re also on twitter as bedhoppersuk.

If you’re new to podcasts - think of them like a radio show you can listen to online (on your phone, computer, Alexa etc).

If you fancy listening to our show, you can find us on iTunes (for apple users) and pretty much every other podcast place (Spotify, google, pod bean and so on). Just search for bed hoppers and you’ll find our show.

We are also on YouTube, Twitter, Instagram and a few other places. Don’t be shy, feel free to pop us over a message. There’s a load of pics of us all over the place!

Mr H

43 years old, Straight

5'8"  173cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Mrs H

48 years old, Bisexual

5'5"  165cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 21 to 55
Won't meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys

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*ivingOurBestLife2019 (41), Couple on 15 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing couple at their first ever social this weekend. They have done so much for the lifestyle and in particular us as a couple through their podcast we couldn't wait to meet them, and what a fun and gorgeous couple they are too! The effort that went into to organise such an amazing event with amazing people is testament to their passion and commitment to the lifestyle.

*ittyandtheboy (37), Couple on 14 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We’ve met the wonderful bedhoppers before, they are fun kind and generous. They also are an asset to the whole non monogamy community. The social they organised was the best lifestyle event we’ve ever attended. Here’s to many more years of the bedhoppers!

*oxmia98 (38), Couple on 14 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
They say never meet your heroes and there we were at the Bedhoppers social with these two amazing, sexy people. We started out in the lifestyle having listened to their podcast so when we were invited to the social we couldn't wait. What a fantastic event, so much work and creativity to bring lots of wonderful people together. We loved the online chatting and getting to know everyone beforehand. On the day people travelling from all over the country felt like a team finally coming together in a movie. We can't stress enough how much we loved being in a room with such a truly awesome bunch of open, friendly, sexy, hot, hilarious and caring humans. Any nerves just disappeared so quickly, though I (Penny) may have to start over with Mrs H after the attempted theft of pizza and pins was not well received!! However not apologising for olivegate #wasnotmyidea We really really really can’t wait for the opportunity to meet with them again soon, 8 of clubs it is. ;) xxxxx

*urvyemily (38), Woman on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
A veri might not do this couple justice, but I'll try ;-) Mr & Mrs H are amazing...social..friendly..sexy.. hilarious.. fun.. sarcastic.. beautiful friends. We have made amazing memories together. The social was amazing, can't wait for more. Thank you for being in my life and sex life :-). Mwah xx

*ineapple_shots (37), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say other than Mr & Mrs H are possibly our favourite couple on fab. Thank you for inviting us to your social. It was incredible. You both looked stunning and made the perfect hosts. Can’t wait to catch soon. Maybe even join you on a podcast. Lots of love and kisses Pineapple_Shots

*aughty Hubby n Sexy Wife (50), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Joined this fantastic couple for their first Social. What can be said they don’t disappoint, what a fantastic social and venue and of course podcast. Was a pleasure to travel well over half the country to attend. Credit to the community. Big Thanks R & R :-)

*isnerds (37), Couple on 13 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Thank you Bedhoppers for having us at your social. We had the absolute best time. We will see you again very soon friends, we miss you already xxx

*urpees_and_wine (53), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had the absolute pleasure of meeting the bedhoppers (and a whole host of other great people) at the best social event in Southampton. They are a really lovey couple - friendly, funny and very sexy. Plus they arranged the most awesome Saturday evening event. We would love to meet you guys again for drinks, food and whatever comes next. Thanks again for arranging a great evening

*ed Petal (43), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Not that anyone doubted that the Bedhoppers aren’t a real couple of course, but we did have the pleasure of attending their social this weekend. It was an absolute pleasure to meet the hosts in person and to be part of the event. We can honestly say that these two are responsible for the best night of 2021. As well as that, they are amazing, gracious hosts, with an excellent sense of humour. We can’t wait until the next one. Love, P & E xx

*ABootyHung (37), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of being invited to the very first Bed Hoppers social and what a great shindig it was! Perfectly organised, with amazing people at an equally great venue. When's the next one?!?

*ute poly couple (39), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Having been such an important part of Virtual socialising to us during lockdown it was so lovely to meet you both in the flesh. Funny, creative, well groomed and sexy individuals as well as a beautiful couple. The kind of couple that make you smile to see them interact together because their love for each other ouzes from every pore. Thank you for inviting us to your social. Make sure we are on the list for the next one please! X till next time.

*hetwoofus. (44), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well finally got to meet the bedhoppers and yes they are just as amazing we thought would be, funny sexy and amazing hosts and all that jazz Thanks for giving us a social party that we will never forget big cwtches T and J

*isCockHerTail (39), Couple on 12 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We were very honoured to be guests at the inaugural bed hoppers social. Mr and Mrs H did a wonderful job of putting on a fantastic event in a first class venue. We were delighted to see how relaxed and friendly everybody was a testament to the inclusive and welcoming culture they have fostered in their pursuit of promoting the swinging lifestyle. We can't wait for the next one.

*ineapple_shots (37), Couple on 3 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well our Monday evening was a delight! We met Mr and Mrs H for a social, what a great couple, very down to earth and funny. What a stunning, sexy couple, we would definitely like to meet again. We’ll be wearing our badge with pride??! Xxxx

*euxLicious (36), Couple on 30 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had an absolute blast with this couple! Conversation flowed easily, jokes aplenty, lots in common. What started as an innocent meal out social turned in to a hot and steamy prelude to be continued. Looking forward to the next Chapter of this new friendship.

*ecretVixenSecretStag (35), Couple on 15 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
What can we say about this sensational pair that hasn’t already been said? The bed hoppers are just the most wonderful couple. We have been very fortunate to build a lasting friendship with them based on our common interests ;) Mr H is a handsome gentleman who’s charm is matched by his cheeky streak. Mrs H is an elegant angel with devilish side! We have had some incredible encounters with them and hope to have many, many more! Please show this couple the love and respect they so richly deserve.

*anderlust Swingers (36), Couple on 13 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Mr and Mrs H are a delight, they are witty and have fantastic banter.. often times flying right over my head even though my reflexes are awesome. They are a fantastic example of pants on/off friends where you can visit HP themed bars, go to resorts with or play games into the early hours of morning. Glad that a random forum bought us together.

*isnerds (37), Couple on 9 February 2020 by Meeting in person:
Spent a wonderful weekend with these two tucked away in a barn conversion in Wales. Great conversation, lots of alcohol and some mind blowing sexy fun. These people are exactly what you would expect. Funny, sexy as hell and great company. We had a blast Bedhopping!! Until next time. See ya real soon xxxx

*ptownfuk (50), Couple on 28 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
We met these super sexy super cool hotties last night for dinner. Lots of laughs and stories shared and a good time was had. Lovely people and hot as fuk.

*exybristolcouple (57), Couple on 27 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely couple! They brought something ‘extra special’ to our recent party and after a few very pleasant suppers in the run up to our March party, we were SO glad that we were able to get them to come to our recent little event - SBC 7. They are a super attractive, sexy couple and are an inspiration to any party goers! On a personal level, their sexy couple play on the Friday night was totally inspiring for ‘Mr’ and ‘Mrs’ as things got hot, as they so often do during an SBC Friday night! They made a big impression on the other guests and we think that they might be rather ‘popular’ in the future ;-) To see 'Mrs Bed Hoppers' snogging 'Mrs SBC' in the midst of the naughty fun in the kitchen, brings tears of pride to the eyes of old-time party fixers like us. Gawd Bless yer BedHoppers! Let’s do it all again soon x