ENM guy seeking mind-blowing encounters

Man in Chelmsford, South East, UK

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

I’ve loved adventurous sex for as long as I can remember, and my appetite for evolving, learning and experiencing new sensations is as strong as it ever was.

I am in a non-monogamous marriage (yes, she knows, and that’s her in my profile pic), but am seeking lasting dynamics outside of that. ONS are fun, but I enjoy longer-lasting connections: long-term play partners, FWB...

So, what do I offer? I’m a passionate, well endowed guy who’s articulate, respectful and won’t mess you around. I love pushing boundaries - yours and mine - but consent is everything. I love one-on-one play, and I’m experienced in threeway and group adventures, too. I’m a boob man, so if you’re packed full of curves, my DMs and my attentions are yours!

What am I looking for? An amazing dynamic that offers me lots of sexual opportunities and friendship.

Vanilla me enjoys a good museum, obscure metal bands with unreadable logos, travel, good food, better wine (especially accompanied by cheese), a bit of DIY. If you’re a cat person, we’ll get on beautifully.

Essex/London

46 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 28 to 55
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*ilkyHotChocolate (48), Couple on 31 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this charming guy at Studland Nudist beach yesterday. Had the pleasure of a couple of hours in his company. Easy relaxed conversation and laughs.. hopefully we will see him again soon and have some play next time x

*iscerning S (51), Woman on 29 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
I've known this gent for quite some time now. We've enjoyed outdoor naturist fun in sunny fields and lustful dates in hotel rooms. As well as being a good fuck he's a good guy. Interesting, respectful and communicative. He's a gem.

Friends

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