Couple dipping their toes

Couple in Ipswich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: 3 months ago
Last on: 4 days ago

Hi everyone,

We’re a genuine couple based in Suffolk / East Anglia, finally feeling ready to carefully explore a fantasy we’ve talked about for quite some time.

She is 25 (South African) and he is 39 (German). This is completely new territory for us as a couple, so we want to be upfront that there will be a lot of chatting first. Taking time to build comfort, trust, and an easy connection is far more important to us than rushing into anything.

The dynamic we’re curious about is stag & vixen. She’s naturally shy and a little socially awkward by her own admission, so a calm, patient, and respectful approach is essential. Confidence is attractive; pressure isn’t. He will be managing the initial conversations and vetting, which she’s fully aware of and comfortable with.

What we’re hoping to find:

A friendly, emotionally switched-on man

Age range roughly 26–39

Slim to athletic build (not into bodybuilder types)

Discreet, respectful, flirty in a grown-up way

Prior experience welcome but not a requirement - the right attitude matters far more

A few practical boundaries so expectations are aligned:

Plenty of chatting before anything else

Condoms only and a recent STI test are non-negotiable

No longer than 7 inches, please

We value effort and genuine communication - a thoughtful, longer message will go a long way, while one-liners or copy-paste openers will likely be ignored.

We’re open-minded but selective, and very focused on this being relaxed, respectful, and mutually enjoyable. If you’re local to East Anglia and this sounds like something you’d enjoy exploring at a gentle pace, feel free to reach out with a bit about yourself.

Thanks for reading.

39 years old, Bi-curious

6'1" 185cm
Average
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

25 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men
Aged from 26 to 39
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Cybersex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Watersports

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