International Man of Mystery

Man in Ipswich, East Midlands, UK

... "TABU 10 on the 25th July, looking forward to catching up with the team, couples only tickets available. Maybe St Osyths later in the week?". 16 hours ago

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Last on: 1 hour ago

Hello

I am Simon, over 30 years in the lifestyle, formally with Jacuzzi Club Poland and co-host of Ipswich Socials.

I am also part of The Playgrounds team.

I am single,straight, despite advertising inclusive events, and am not an active swinger, i am in the lifestyle for the social aspect only.

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Ipswich Socials NEXT DATE TBC

Be part of one of the biggest socials in the UK. Watch out for dates for the next one.

THE PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES:

Established over ten years ago by lifestylers for lifestylers, THE PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES & EVENTS brings quality, safe, fun adult, sometimes themed parties for like minded, verified, people that want to meet and party with others looking for the same within this lifestyle.

With all our parties and events we constantly aim to create a relaxed party atmosphere, where guests will feel safe, secure and be able to feel they can be who they want to be without being judged. All our events and parties have a no obligation or pressure to play policy.

We promote a safe sex policy at all

TABU PARTY DATES:

DATE: Saturday 25th JUL – Chapter 10

TIME: 6.00pm till 1am.

CONTRIBUTIONS: Message us for details.

LOCATION: THE LIFESTYLE LODGE, South Derbyshire, DE15, (location given to ticket and confirmed attendees only).

BYOB and BBQ included

PLEASE NOTE:

This event is DEDICATED to bisexual couples, verified bisexual singles, trans & bisexual newbies guests only. (Couples are required to BOTH be bi or bi curious

WHO CAN ATTEND OUR PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES?

The Playgrounds Parties caters for couples, single ladies, *single gents and Transgender guests.

*We do allow a very limited amount of single, verified gents to attend, who have demonstrated the Lifestyle etiquette.

We have a no pressure, no obligation to play policy at all our events.

We welcome guests at our parties regardless of age, race, shape, size or sexuality.

Any guests wishing to attend any of our events will need to have a minimum of 2 recent meet verification's or have attended any of our previous parties.

Our PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES will always welcome new people who wish to discover more, and who are looking to become part of the lifestyle scene.

We ensure that all new guests attending will be looked after by us and our dedicated team during the duration of the party or event, to help, calm nerves, introduce you to new people and have an enjoyable night.

Our PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES strive to create a comfortable, safe, secure, discreet, fun relaxing party environment so people can be who they want to be without being judged and who wish to meet, socialise, and party with likeminded guests from The Lifestyle.

DRINKS:

These parties are bring your own alcohol.

Mixer/Soft drinks are included as part of your ticket contribution.

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HOTELS:

There are several reasonably priced hotels in the surrounding area, one is very close to the house.

Please message us for details.

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DRESS CODE:

We always encourage dressing for the party themes but it’s not essential, otherwise, smart and sexy.

No trainers, t-shirts, jeans, sportswear, or hoodies. If no effort is made to dress appropriately then this means you could be turned away.

Personal hygiene is paramount within the lifestyle so please ensure this when attending.

PARTY FEATURES:

* Bring Your Own Alcohol.

* No membership required.

* 3 x themed playrooms.

* The Black & White Room.

* The Blue Room.

* The Red Boudoir.

* Hot tub area.

* 2 x toilets.

* 5+ hrs of party fun.

* 1 x Open fire lounge.

* Dance/social area.

* Soft/mixer drinks included.

* Buffet.

* BBQs (Spring/Summer)

* Music.

* Large, secluded garden.

* Covered seated, smoking area.

* Nearest hotel 100 yards away.

SOME BASIC RULES.

The Playgrounds operate a NO means NO policy, in a no pressure, no obligation environment. We expect all our guests to ALWAYS display a basic lifestyle etiquette, along with a high level of personal hygiene within the house.

We promote a safe sex policy at all our parties & events.

Strictly no use of mobile phones within the house, also no pictures/filming.

No smoking in any areas of the house, only in designated smoking areas.

Failure to comply with The Playgrounds house rules will result in you being told to leave.

The Playgrounds have a zero tolerance drugs policy, any person found using, distributing, or taking drugs will be removed from the house. This will also affect your attendance at any future Playgrounds events.

Simon

59 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
More than 5 piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Swingers Clubs, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*iolet_invitation (43), Couple on 17 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met Simon at the door and welcomed us in. Directing us to Gordon to get signed in. Michelle and I felt really nervous and I popped out for some air. Simon gave some good advice for us first time social meets. Look forward to seeing you again and catching up.

*aymic Parties (62), Couple on 16 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to meet up again at the Ipswich social, always great to have a good long chat with an intelligent and funny person. Hope to see you again soon M & J

*lackmagic69400 (29), Man on 13 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
An amazing person as everyone in the room regarded him with so much adoration, a great host. Hopefully I get a chance to get better acquainted next time round xx

*ikeafud248 (56), Man on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Meet this gent at the Ipswich social. Great to see his caring while ensuring everybody enjoyed the evening. Thanks

*itkat50 (50), Woman on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for another great event and for your commitment to door duties! Always good to see your smiling face when I arrive.

*exyfungirl78 (47), Woman on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure to see your smiling face on the door at the Ipswich Social. I’m impressed you remembered my fab name lol. Definitely have a proper chat at the next one x

*aikiri (38), Man on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
The first face I saw at the Ipswich Social last night was of this fantastic gent on door duty. Always welcoming and accommodating regardless if it's your 1st event or your 21st. Conversation and laughs are never far away when he's around and always able to spare a few minutes for a catch up chat even when things are busy. Hopefully I won't leave it quite so long between socials this time and will catch up with you again soon

*angOnBunny (47), Couple on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure to see this true gent. A smile is always on our faces when we see him as he is truly a treasure

*ussy fuckers (46), Couple on 12 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
This guys is a true gent in every sence of the way. Been in the life style a while and have the up most respect for him. He has become a friend in the time we have known him. Definitely a single guy for you all to meet. Top guy

*illieX (61), TV/TS on 1 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this interesting fellow at Playgrounds event recently. What a lovely person and an absolute gentleman! He helped me out from the start with some tricky car parking. We went on to have a good conversation later on. A very genuine and kind person who looks out for everyone at the party, he made me feel very welcome and included. Like to get to know you better at future events! Billie Xx

*he Playgrounds (54), Couple on 29 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
A very special thank you to the man, the myth, the legend, that is Rich Pickings. Often heard and rarely seen, our exceptional close friend has supported, advised, and just been their for us, for many years. His inspiration, insight, wisdom and extensive experience has encouraged us to continue what we do. When he ventures, in his monster truck, from his eastern seaboard home to our events and locations, our party gatherings are enhanced to an exceptional level that we will always be eternally grateful for. To our fabulous friend, we truly thank you, for being you. xxx THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE xxx

*ngel madones (53), Woman on 29 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
I had a great time at this house party,the hosts was warm and freindly ,which was our first time to one but definitely can't wait for the next one, would recommend going very an intimate and easy going people no pressure whats so ever thanks guys I will be back

*rayon (43), Man on 29 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
I had heard quite alot about this lovely guy but got to meet him finally at the Playgrounds and he really is a great person i observed he was friendly with all those that attended and was very approachable.I can say i had a great conversation with him where he has massive knowledge on socials and I actually learnt alot regarding those and I will be attending the Ipswich one he does look forward to seeing him again in the near future.

*unflirty 22 (56), Couple on 28 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
It was great to see this genuine gentlemen at platinum last night. Great banter and great catch up. Can't wait until next time L&J xxx

*attoed (53), Man on 28 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Not seen the man that is Simon for a while great pleasure to see him Alongside us at the playgrounds lifestyle lodge event last night in Burton on Trent always a pleasure a great mate

*ittleCBizyBee (42), Woman on 27 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
I have met Simon on a few occasions now and he is a true gentleman always making sure everyone is ok and is always up for rivetting conversation lol sometimes its a bit deep or dam right odd but either way I definitely enjoy your company hope to see U soon. Maybe next time you will remember me ha ha

*uffolk Cpl (60), Couple on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
What can we say about this well turned out male that hasnt already been said , hes very easy to chat to and an asset to the social scene and easy on the eye as well which is always a bonus . Keep doing what ur doing and see u at more furure events xx

*ushious1 (61), Woman on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Lovely gentleman. Brief meeting,very welcoming gentle soul. Love to connect again soon. X

*C3008 (41), Couple on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure in this gentleman’s company. He is great at making sure an event runs smoothly and is secure. If you ever need a host or security this guy is your man. Looking forward to catching up soon x

*C009 (54), Man on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met Simon briefly on arrival at the Ipswich social last night, very welcoming. Thanks to you & your team woth everything that happened in the 24hrs prior. M

*ussy fuckers (46), Couple on 19 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Have known this fantastic guys for a while now. Such a great guy that is usually doing the door at the socials and making sure everyone is who they say they are and making them feel at ease!! Thanks so much for your continuous work and involvement in the socials xx

*conesandcream (66), Couple on 19 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Would like to say a thank you to this guy for his part in the ipswich social on sat for standing outside in the cold makeing sure we didn't have any unwanted guest and for greeting everyone and putting them at ease Dawn &Nige x

*pswich Social (28), Couple on 19 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
This absolute gentlemen is one of the Ipswich Social events key organisers who never fails to go out of his way to help ensure all the guests enjoy themselves and helps the other organisers make it the fantastic events they are. He is one of the nicest men you will meet with a wonderful intelligent sense of humour. If you get a chance to meet him you will not be disappointed and we are extremely lucky to call him our friend.

*tubbsy85 (41), Woman on 17 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have met Simon on a couple of occasions at different social events and he's always been both engaging and interesting,and last night was no exception. I was feeling rather overwhelmed and it was very much appreciated that he distracted me and put me at ease. Thankyou so much for taking the time and effort to share some amusing stories with me. XxEMxx

*urleywurley (55), Couple on 21 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
This truly wonderful chap is what fab needs more of thats for sure. We have met a spent some brilliant social times with this man of such a wealth of life's adventures we find it so very easy to be able to call him one of those extremely special kind of friends which are very rare to find. Even though his time recently has been so very very hectic, he found time to meet up with another good friend to pop some 2 1/2 hours journey, just to come up and show support for the swingathon 2025 festival, the weather at the time was somewhat wet, but to no avail, smiling, they come and shared some time with us and had a few brews, then the weather cleared and we all ventured out to explore and share some food. Not all meets on fab are of the physical type, but these special social times, with oh so very lovely people are as just, if not more, just as important . Looking forward to more quality time with this very wonderful, genuine gentleman, Emma and Mike xxx

*awnH878 (39), TV/TS on 8 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Meet this cool dude at TABU. We just socialised, he's very friendly and very welcoming to all the guests

*attoed (53), Man on 7 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great guy a good friend always good to work alongside each other At a playgrounds party A social organiser that’s regularly attended by so many

*he Playgrounds (54), Couple on 7 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
It’s hard to put into words just how much Rich means to me. He’s more than a friend — he’s been a constant, grounding presence in my life. Through every twist and turn, he’s shown up with a heart full of kindness, wisdom, dry wit and unwavering support. As a co-party host, he’s pure magic. He brings joy into every space he enters, turning our events into unforgettable nights. He listens, he plans, he notices the little things that make our guests feel seen and included. Hosting with him doesn’t feel like work — it feels like art, laughter, and love rolled into one. But beyond the parties, it’s his loyalty, empathy, and quiet strength that leave the biggest impact. He lifts me up without asking for anything in return. He’s the kind of person who reminds you what true friendship really looks like. I’m endlessly grateful for him — for every thoughtful gesture, every phone chat, every shared laugh, and all the moments he’s helped me hold it together, especially in resent times. The world is better with him in it, and I’m lucky to have him in mine. Thank you for everything you do for me and The Playgrounds xxx THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE xxx

*urleywurley (55), Couple on 6 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Awwwee, it's always so lovely to meet up with simon when his busy schedule allows !, last night was no exception as he made the long journey up to the Playgrounds Tabu 3 party to help out alongside the the team. Such a lovely warm gorgeous gent this man is, that anyone who meets him will be in for such a lovely treat and will surely find out. Maybe they won't have to move a car out the way in a very naked sort of a way for him but fun will be had any ways !!Emma and Mike xxx

*s-Mischief (57), Woman on 9 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Finally got the chance to have a proper sit down chat with Mr Rich Pickings. Very funny and interesting guy, really enjoyed our banter. The chocolate cake lady has no regrets and hope you enjoyed the show! Hope to make it to one of your events in the very near future. Thank you for looking after us all xx

*weetviewforall69 (52), Couple on 9 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met at the busy Ipswich Social, great guy, always nice to catch up with. Have to have a longer chat next time.

*iona Filth (51), TV/TS on 5 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
I've met Simon a few times now at Playgrounds events. Friendly, witty, intelligent, and our 'kitchen chats' get more interesting at each event. XXXX

*eltic connection (58), Couple on 1 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
We've known this lovely man for some time now and he was part of the amazing team that ran last night's incredible NYE Masquerade Party. He always goes out of his way to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. A bit of a gem in today's society and we are lucky enough to call him a good friend!

*aikiri (38), Man on 1 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
Caught up with this gent at the Playgrounds New Years Eve event and as always it was a pleasure catching up and chatting, be it at the start of the evening or 1am outside while the wind is blowing a gale! Quick with a joke or a reassuring word if your nervous He and the team spent the evening tirelessly making sure everyone in attendance was enjoying themselves and safe Look forward to catching up at future events!

*urleywurley (55), Couple on 28 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met up with simon again at one of the very many parties that we have have attended where he has also been present , generally he has been a member of staff at one of the playgrounds events held at the lifestyle lodge, but we know that he can be found at quite a few move events and venues also. Not surprising really as this very easy on the eye, charmingly confident and sexy guy is a natural to these type of events. He is a true gent,one who can blend in, chat, laught and be at ease with all, and he certainly brightens things up when he is around, and who ever should get the chance to meet him will always enjoy this lovely man's company, Emma and Mike xxx

*unflirty 22 (56), Couple on 15 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
We have met Rich on various occasions at the playgrounds and can can say he is true gentleman. Always happy to sit and chat and share experiences. See you soon L&J xxx

*eltic connection (58), Couple on 8 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met up with this lovely man at the Decadence 2 party last night. He is part of the Playgrounds team who run these events and puts in a lot of hard work to make it the the successful events they are. If you get the chance to meet this absolute gent of a human being you can consider yourself very lucky indeed. Thank you S, for all you do. G & M

*attoed (53), Man on 2 December 2024 by Meeting in person:
Known this fellow tattooed gent for a while now worked on a few events with him under the playgrounds banner nice guy

*uffolk Cpl (60), Couple on 24 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We saw this male at the recent Suffolk Social and he's definately an eye catcher . Blonde hair and tattoos and a great personality. Didn't speak for long but would definately like to find out more about him. Till next time xx

*ervert and Trollop (60), Couple on 23 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met Simon again at one of the socials, a very confident and entertaining chap, look forward to meeting again x

*s-Mischief (57), Woman on 23 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet this charming man at last nights Suffolk social. We didn’t get the chance to chat for very long but he was very good humoured about being man-handled as I squeezed past, in fact I think he rather enjoyed it! Look forward to squeezing you again x

*anary57 (63), Couple on 23 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
It was great to meet this lovely man at the Suffolk social. After messaging him about details of the social he invited us to attend. He was very welcoming and it seemed like we'd known him for ages. If you get the chance to meet him you won't be disappointed. Thanks for you help and advice and we'll see you again very soon. D&T xx

*rchidea01 (45), Couple on 23 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We have a pleasure to meet Simon on the Suffolk social last night. We strait away have a great connection. He is an absolute gentleman and his organised events are amazing. We can't wait to attend to your famous party next time. See you soon. B&C xx

*aikiri (38), Man on 23 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Caught up with this fantastic bloke last night at the Suffolk social and he truly is an outstanding fella. First met at Decadence where he was stood in the cold reassuring a first timer which speaks volumes of his character. Always happy to stop and have a chat and with a great sense of humour as well. Looking forward to catching up at future socials and events!

*ussy fuckers (46), Couple on 14 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We have met Simon now at socials and a playgrounds party. Great guy, very respectful and a pleasure to be in his company. If you get the chance to meet him make sure you do.

*ueen of hearts 24 (44), Woman on 7 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this fabulous guy at The Playgrounds events and he is one interesting amazing polite and extremely good looking guy. He really is a credit to the swing scene. Ladies if you get the chance to meet him don't turn it down cause this guy is a diamond in the lifestyle! H xxx

*conesandcream (66), Couple on 6 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We meet Simon at the ipswich social and again at Decedence party hes an all round nice guy x

*pswich Social (28), Couple on 1 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
A lovely, lovely gentleman who came to our last social event then we all met him again at the Playgrounds Decadence party in Clacton.

*eltic connection (58), Couple on 1 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We've known the lovely Simon for a while now through the Ipswich Social events and the Playgrounds Decadence party. A great asset to fab now he's back. He knows how to throw a fantastic party!

*uffolk Socials (58), Couple on 1 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
We've known this lovely guy for a little while now and can very happily verify him as a genuine soul who is one of the nicest people you will ever meet.