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Joined: 10 months ago |
Simon
58 years old, Straight
6'0"
183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
More than 5 piercings
Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers
Can
accommodate
Can
travel
Swingers Clubs, Adult Parties
*msexy (54), Couple
on 21 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
This truly wonderful chap is what fab needs more of thats for sure. We have met a spent some brilliant social times with this man of such a wealth of life's adventures we find it so very easy to be able to call him one of those extremely special kind of friends which are very rare to find. Even though his time recently has been so very very hectic, he found time to meet up with another good friend to pop some 2 1/2 hours journey, just to come up and show support for the swingathon 2025 festival, the weather at the time was somewhat wet, but to no avail, smiling, they come and shared some time with us and had a few brews, then the weather cleared and we all ventured out to explore and share some food. Not all meets on fab are of the physical type, but these special social times, with oh so very lovely people are as just, if not more, just as important . Looking forward to more quality time with this very wonderful, genuine gentleman, Emma and Mike xxx
*awnH878 (38), TV/TS
on 8 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
Meet this cool dude at TABU. We just socialised, he's very friendly and very welcoming to all the guests
*attoed (52), Man
on 7 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
Great guy a good friend always good to work alongside each other
At a playgrounds party
A social organiser that’s regularly attended by so many
*he Playgrounds (53), Couple
on 7 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
It’s hard to put into words just how much Rich means to me. He’s more than a friend — he’s been a constant, grounding presence in my life. Through every twist and turn, he’s shown up with a heart full of kindness, wisdom, dry wit and unwavering support.
As a co-party host, he’s pure magic. He brings joy into every space he enters, turning our events into unforgettable nights. He listens, he plans, he notices the little things that make our guests feel seen and included. Hosting with him doesn’t feel like work — it feels like art, laughter, and love rolled into one.
But beyond the parties, it’s his loyalty, empathy, and quiet strength that leave the biggest impact. He lifts me up without asking for anything in return. He’s the kind of person who reminds you what true friendship really looks like.
I’m endlessly grateful for him — for every thoughtful gesture, every phone chat, every shared laugh, and all the moments he’s helped me hold it together, especially in resent times. The world is better with him in it, and I’m lucky to have him in mine. Thank you for everything you do for me and The Playgrounds xxx THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE xxx
*awaii.kairi (31), TV/TS
on 6 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
Met this amazing gentleman at TABU and despite not getting to much chance to talk he was really lovely and hopefully we'll get to know each other better next time!
*msexy (54), Couple
on 6 July 2025
by Meeting in person:
Awwwee, it's always so lovely to meet up with simon when his busy schedule allows !, last night was no exception as he made the long journey up to the Playgrounds Tabu 3 party to help out alongside the the team. Such a lovely warm gorgeous gent this man is, that anyone who meets him will be in for such a lovely treat and will surely find out. Maybe they won't have to move a car out the way in a very naked sort of a way for him but fun will be had any ways !!Emma and Mike xxx
*s-Mischief (56), Woman
on 9 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Finally got the chance to have a proper sit down chat with Mr Rich Pickings. Very funny and interesting guy, really enjoyed our banter. The chocolate cake lady has no regrets and hope you enjoyed the show! Hope to make it to one of your events in the very near future. Thank you for looking after us all xx
*weetviewforall69 (57), Couple
on 9 February 2025
by Meeting in person:
Met at the busy Ipswich Social, great guy, always nice to catch up with. Have to have a longer chat next time.
*iona XXX (50), TV/TS
on 5 January 2025
by Meeting in person:
I've met Simon a few times now at Playgrounds events. Friendly, witty, intelligent, and our 'kitchen chats' get more interesting at each event.
XXXX
*eltic connection (57), Couple
on 1 January 2025
by Meeting in person:
We've known this lovely man for some time now and he was part of the amazing team that ran last night's incredible NYE Masquerade Party. He always goes out of his way to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. A bit of a gem in today's society and we are lucky enough to call him a good friend!
*aikiri (37), Man
on 1 January 2025
by Meeting in person:
Caught up with this gent at the Playgrounds New Years Eve event and as always it was a pleasure catching up and chatting, be it at the start of the evening or 1am outside while the wind is blowing a gale! Quick with a joke or a reassuring word if your nervous
He and the team spent the evening tirelessly making sure everyone in attendance was enjoying themselves and safe
Look forward to catching up at future events!
*msexy (54), Couple
on 28 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
We met up with simon again at one of the very many parties that we have have attended where he has also been present , generally he has been a member of staff at one of the playgrounds events held at the lifestyle lodge, but we know that he can be found at quite a few move events and venues also. Not surprising really as this very easy on the eye, charmingly confident and sexy guy is a natural to these type of events. He is a true gent,one who can blend in, chat, laught and be at ease with all, and he certainly brightens things up when he is around, and who ever should get the chance to meet him will always enjoy this lovely man's company, Emma and Mike xxx
*unflirty 22 (55), Couple
on 15 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
We have met Rich on various occasions at the playgrounds and can can say he is true gentleman. Always happy to sit and chat and share experiences. See you soon L&J xxx
*eltic connection (57), Couple
on 8 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
We met up with this lovely man at the Decadence 2 party last night. He is part of the Playgrounds team who run these events and puts in a lot of hard work to make it the the successful events they are. If you get the chance to meet this absolute gent of a human being you can consider yourself very lucky indeed.
Thank you S, for all you do. G & M
*attoed (52), Man
on 2 December 2024
by Meeting in person:
Known this fellow tattooed gent for a while now worked on a few events with him under the playgrounds banner nice guy
*uffolk Cpl (59), Couple
on 24 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We saw this male at the recent Suffolk Social and he's definately an eye catcher . Blonde hair and tattoos and a great personality. Didn't speak for long but would definately like to find out more about him. Till next time xx
*ussrane (59), Couple
on 23 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
Met Simon again at one of the socials, a very confident and entertaining chap, look forward to meeting again x
*s-Mischief (56), Woman
on 23 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet this charming man at last nights Suffolk social. We didn’t get the chance to chat for very long but he was very good humoured about being man-handled as I squeezed past, in fact I think he rather enjoyed it! Look forward to squeezing you again x
*anary57 (62), Couple
on 23 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
It was great to meet this lovely man at the Suffolk social. After messaging him about details of the social he invited us to attend. He was very welcoming and it seemed like we'd known him for ages.
If you get the chance to meet him you won't be disappointed.
Thanks for you help and advice and we'll see you again very soon.
D&T xx
*rchidea01 (44), Couple
on 23 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We have a pleasure to meet Simon on the Suffolk social last night. We strait away have a great connection. He is an absolute gentleman and his organised events are amazing. We can't wait to attend to your famous party next time. See you soon. B&C xx
*aikiri (37), Man
on 23 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
Caught up with this fantastic bloke last night at the Suffolk social and he truly is an outstanding fella.
First met at Decadence where he was stood in the cold reassuring a first timer which speaks volumes of his character.
Always happy to stop and have a chat and with a great sense of humour as well.
Looking forward to catching up at future socials and events!
*ussy fuckers (45), Couple
on 14 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We have met Simon now at socials and a playgrounds party. Great guy, very respectful and a pleasure to be in his company. If you get the chance to meet him make sure you do.
*ueen of hearts 24 (43), Woman
on 7 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
Met this fabulous guy at The Playgrounds events and he is one interesting amazing polite and extremely good looking guy. He really is a credit to the swing scene. Ladies if you get the chance to meet him don't turn it down cause this guy is a diamond in the lifestyle! H xxx
*conesandcream (65), Couple
on 6 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We meet Simon at the ipswich social and again at Decedence party hes an all round nice guy x
*pswich Social (27), Couple
on 1 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
A lovely, lovely gentleman who came to our last social event then we all met him again at the Playgrounds Decadence party in Clacton.
*eltic connection (57), Couple
on 1 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We've known the lovely Simon for a while now through the Ipswich Social events and the Playgrounds Decadence party. A great asset to fab now he's back. He knows how to throw a fantastic party!
*uffolk Socials (57), Couple
on 1 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
We've known this lovely guy for a little while now and can very happily verify him as a genuine soul who is one of the nicest people you will ever meet.
*he Playgrounds (53), Couple
on 1 November 2024
by Meeting in person:
Well what can we say about his guy.
Funny as hell, sarcastic humour, dead pan as ever, loyal without fault and an all round genuine person. We are privileged to be able to call him a friend. Don't pass him because you will miss the ride of your life if you do.however have tissues available to dry your eyes from the laughter. See you soon x