So we’re hoping to get a van at the end of the summer season to convert to a camper ready for spring. I know lots of fabbers use here to arrange meet ups but I rather like the idea of it just happening. So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play. I’m not talking anyone of course, needs to be attraction and connection still. I just like the whole idea of it being unplanned and not expected.
Is this completely unrealistic though? Has this happened to anyone?
Oh and don’t worry, I’m not going to throwing myself at some poor unsuspecting fellow camper. I know most people probably are just enjoying their solitude and just being friendly, not looking for hook ups 
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"So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play.
Kx "
Get some stickers for your windows... a Pineapple and a Fab lolly should give the nod and wink to others of like minds.
If I saw these stickers I'd probably say "I like your stickers" and see if things went anywhere. |
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"So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play.
Kx
Get some stickers for your windows... a Pineapple and a Fab lolly should give the nod and wink to others of like minds.
If I saw these stickers I'd probably say "I like your stickers" and see if things went anywhere."
That’s an idea but would have to be something easily removable as we wouldn’t want something to bring attention all the time. I guess I like being a bit more subtle.
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By *andl67Couple 44 weeks ago
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"So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play.
Kx
Get some stickers for your windows... a Pineapple and a Fab lolly should give the nod and wink to others of like minds.
If I saw these stickers I'd probably say "I like your stickers" and see if things went anywhere.
That’s an idea but would have to be something easily removable as we wouldn’t want something to bring attention all the time. I guess I like being a bit more subtle.
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we have a cushion with a pineapple on it we place it upside down on our sofa with the door open , hasn’t worked yet though lol , we total get where your coming from though |
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By * and BCouple 44 weeks ago
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"So we’re hoping to get a van at the end of the summer season to convert to a camper ready for spring. I know lots of fabbers use here to arrange meet ups but I rather like the idea of it just happening. So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play. I’m not talking anyone of course, needs to be attraction and connection still. I just like the whole idea of it being unplanned and not expected.
Is this completely unrealistic though? Has this happened to anyone?
Oh and don’t worry, I’m not going to throwing myself at some poor unsuspecting fellow camper. I know most people probably are just enjoying their solitude and just being friendly, not looking for hook ups
Kx "
Check out profile 'wild and free camping' They have a little gem of a field for just a few campers (tents and up to medium size vans) It is exclusive for us fab folk so flirting with your fellow happy campers wouldn't be a problem. We have been a few times, it's idyllic. They are a great couple who own the field and so generous   |
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I guess this is a question of looking for signs from your neighbours, and giving signs to them - maybe you can show a bit of cleavage and/or leg and see if anyone gazes at you... It should be quite clear who's interested if you keep your spidey senses in tune!
And like people above me have said, keep an eye out for the 'swinging signals'that other people put on their vans: flamingos, pineapples, geckos, and Fab lollies are all green lights.
In the end, if you like the look of your camping neighbour, invite them over for a drink and a tour of your van.. offer them flirty food like strawberries and make good conversation with lots of eye contact. You may have to make the first move if you want things to move further but that's not so difficult if you've got a rapport going already 
Also, a lot of the mystery will be lessened if you stay somewhere like Max's Garden (near Brighton) or Freedom For All (near Doncaster I believe) as these are known sites where swingers and naturists set up camp - you can still be spontaneous in these places but at least you'll have a head start, as people will tell you openly what their feelings are about swinging etc so I reckon your odds could be a little higher! |
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"So we’re hoping to get a van at the end of the summer season to convert to a camper ready for spring. I know lots of fabbers use here to arrange meet ups but I rather like the idea of it just happening. So you pull up somewhere for the night, ideally off grid and you start chatting to a fellow camper and it it leads to play. I’m not talking anyone of course, needs to be attraction and connection still. I just like the whole idea of it being unplanned and not expected.
Is this completely unrealistic though? Has this happened to anyone?
Oh and don’t worry, I’m not going to throwing myself at some poor unsuspecting fellow camper. I know most people probably are just enjoying their solitude and just being friendly, not looking for hook ups
Kx
Check out profile 'wild and free camping' They have a little gem of a field for just a few campers (tents and up to medium size vans) It is exclusive for us fab folk so flirting with your fellow happy campers wouldn't be a problem. We have been a few times, it's idyllic. They are a great couple who own the field and so generous "
I’ve been following the profile for a while and have seen some of the threads about the events. Definitely on our list of places to visit once we are on the road. We do have a tent but I’m getting too old for roughing it  |
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"I guess this is a question of looking for signs from your neighbours, and giving signs to them - maybe you can show a bit of cleavage and/or leg and see if anyone gazes at you... It should be quite clear who's interested if you keep your spidey senses in tune!
And like people above me have said, keep an eye out for the 'swinging signals'that other people put on their vans: flamingos, pineapples, geckos, and Fab lollies are all green lights.
In the end, if you like the look of your camping neighbour, invite them over for a drink and a tour of your van.. offer them flirty food like strawberries and make good conversation with lots of eye contact. You may have to make the first move if you want things to move further but that's not so difficult if you've got a rapport going already
Also, a lot of the mystery will be lessened if you stay somewhere like Max's Garden (near Brighton) or Freedom For All (near Doncaster I believe) as these are known sites where swingers and naturists set up camp - you can still be spontaneous in these places but at least you'll have a head start, as people will tell you openly what their feelings are about swinging etc so I reckon your odds could be a little higher!"
The flashing my cleavage is not a problem but I’m notoriously crap up knowing if people are interested in me and never make the first move so we’re probably destined to fail
I’ve never heard of Max’s garden and I’m from Brighton and visit regularly. I’ll have to look it up. Thanks |
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The flashing my cleavage is not a problem but I’m notoriously crap up knowing if people are interested in me and never make the first move so we’re probably destined to fail
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I'm like this too. (Not flashing cleavage) but never realising folk are interested!
I just think folk are being nice and friendly!
Although I'd hope that with you being as sexy as you are and having such kissable lips with a gorgeously well defined cupids bow... we might eventually manage to realise there was a spark...
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The flashing my cleavage is not a problem but I’m notoriously crap up knowing if people are interested in me and never make the first move so we’re probably destined to fail
I'm like this too. (Not flashing cleavage) but never realising folk are interested!
I just think folk are being nice and friendly!
Although I'd hope that with you being as sexy as you are and having such kissable lips with a gorgeously well defined cupids bow... we might eventually manage to realise there was a spark...
Just being 'Human'"
Very smooth…
Yeah I just think it’s being friendly too and I would hate to assume otherwise and be rejected  |
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Yeah I just think it’s being friendly too and I would hate to assume otherwise and be rejected "
You've got to be shitting me!
Would a guy ever reject you!?
Damn that guy must have had a heavy blow to the head!
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Aha, yeah the whole 'making the first move' thing is something that takes a bit of learning, but if there's already a spark in the air it tends to come more naturally. You can always play it a little less forward and just ask someone if they want to come into yours for a nightcap, and then.. I don't know, sit so your leg touches theirs? Wear something semi-sexy with no underwear? Talk about sex or porn or something? Leave a vibrator out on your bed? Leap on them and grind yourself to orgasm against their leg/face/crotch? The options are endless.
As for Max's Garden, it's a really ace campsite only a few miles out of Brighton - there are a mixture of pure naturists and naked swingers there but it's usually clear which group people fall into (and the 'Who's Near' function on Fabs helps). There's an excellent hot tub too where you can get talking to people. The great thing about the place is it's small so you kind of have to be a bit sociable which helps.
I plan to go there once a month this year until the weather stops me from doing so, so feel free to drop me a line if you're heading there and want a tour guide |
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